2) Does she answer your specific questions in your emails?
-Yes, she regularly answers my specific questions
-Often she does not answer my specific questions
-we don't really speak about specific questions or issues

3) Have you spoken to her on the phone?
-no, she says that she does not have a telephone
-we have spoken regularly on the phone
-we have made appointments to speak by phone, but more than once she has not been there to answer.
-I have not decided to call her yet

4) Have you visited her in her country?
-no
-Yes, and I met her family and friends
-When I visited her, I felt uncomfortable with what I observed about her
-She said that she really wants to visit me in my country
-I felt very comfortable visiting her and spending time with her, and I didn't notice any warning signs or red flags.

5) How did you first meet her? (How did she first contact you?)
-through a free personals
-contacted her from a reputable agency
-first met her in person, either in her country or mine
-a mutual friend introduced us

6) Regarding expressing her feelings to you, which of the following is most true?
-she expressed her love to me in the first few letters
-she has gradually expressed more and more affection and commitment to me over time
-she doesn't really express her feelings to me
-She expresses some of her feelings to me at a level which remains fairly steady and even.

7) Have you offered her money?
-yes, and she refused
-yes, and she reluctantly accepted
-no, but she has asked me for money
-I have not offered, and she has not asked

8) If you visited her, how did she behave regarding your money?
-careful about spending my money (about how my money was spent)
-I have not visited her
-She felt pretty comfortable and free in spending my money
-she became upset or unhappy when I would not buy the things she wanted or do the things she wanted

9) Did she ever ask you money for an airplane ticket or visa?
-yes
-yes, but she explained that her travel agency said that it was absolutely necessary and that she could receive a visa
-no

10) If she asked you for money, when did she first make her request?
-she has never asked me for money
-within first few emails
-after several months
-after we had met in person

11) Has she asked money to pay for her email expenses?
-yes
-no

12) Ask money for unexpected large medical expenses?
-yes
-no

13) Ask money for rent or other personal expenses?
-no, never
-only one time, and she was reluctant to do so
-more than once
-more than 3 times
-more than 5 times

14) when did she first tell you she loved you?
-within the first letter or two
-within the first 5 to 8 letters
-within the first 3 months
-after the first 3 months
-After meeting in person
-After I proposed to her
-she has not expressed that she loves me

15) When I told her that I wanted to visit her, she...
-did not answer and seems to avoid answering my question(s)
-Is happy and wants to help me prepare for my trip
-Told me that she would rather visit me
-would rather meet in a third country
-seems kind of indifferent
-stopped communicating with me altogether
-We have not spoken about visiting

16) Which of the following characterizes the extent to which she has traveled to other countries?
-she seems to travel to different countries beyond her financial means
-she has rarely or never traveled overseas
-she has traveled, but I understand and feel comfortable with where she received the opportunity and resources to do so.
-I don’t know

17) How much money have you sent her?
-none
-I offered to send her money, but she refused
-less than $35 per month for misc. expenses
-I send her less than $40/ month for her email expenses
-$50-$100 per month
-$100-$250 per month
-$250-$400 per month
-Over $400 per month
-over $1,000 Total
-over $2,000 Total
-Total of $5,000 or more
-Total of $10,000 or more

18) If you have sent her money to pay for her email expenses, which of the following is true?
-I do not pay for her email
-she pays for her own email expenses
-she writes me more than twice per week
-she responds to all of my emails in a timely way and answers my questions and responds to the content of my email.
-she writes me infrequently, and does not answer my questions and does not seem to respond to what I have written her.

19) How long have you known your Russian lady?
-for two weeks or less
-less than a month
-3 months or less
-6 months or less
-one year or less
-one to two years
-two years or more

20) What was the most important factor in choosing my Russian lady?
-her physical beauty
-physical attraction
-we seem to have a lot in common
-we really enjoy being with one another
-we are so in love with one another

21) What is the word that best describes your relationship:
-unstable
-solid
-exciting

22) What is the word that best describes your Russian lady:
-dependable
-unreliable
-materialistic
-thoughtful

23) What is my Russian lady's attitude towards marriage:
-She wants to get married right away, even though we have just recently met
-she feels like it is too early to talk about marriage, but is serious about the relationship and wants to develop our relationship further
-we have not discussed marriage yet
-she avoids talking about marriage yet
-she avoids talking about marriage and evades the topic when I mention it

24) How would you describe your feelings about the relationship:
-happy or joy-filled
-excited
-fear and trepidation
-distrust
-peaceful
-uncomfortable- something doesn't feel right
-I get a bad feeling about this relationship

25) Why do you want this relationship?
-because I feel lonely and alone
-I am excited about it
-I want someone who is dependable and trustworthy
-I want a traditional woman with old-fashioned values
-I find Russian women beautiful and sexy
-I want a relationship that is a partnership

Please answer "Yes" or "No" to these questions:

"Has she ever..."

1) Sent you an email that was addressed to someone else that contained another man’s name?
Yes
No

2) Told you something that you are absolutely sure is not true (i.e., lied) and you have evidence for this?
Yes
No

3) Written information in one email that was a major and clear contradiction to something that she wrote in another email.
Yes
No

4) Asked you for money within the first 5 emails?
Yes
No

5) Does she seem to live beyond her means? (For example, does she go on 2 to 3 vacations per year and only earns $100/ month?)
Yes
No