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Seperation after marriage
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Posted by: Jutman

Hi

I was wondering if somebody has experience with getting married in Russia and then wait for her or him to come?

Does communication change? Do you think life will change before departure? What about love?

Me: we commucicated long time, I visit her totally of 5 weeks and she me for 2 weeks. After she accept my proposal, our communication has changed a little. I think her life has changed a little. I do love her, BUT its difficult to be a flame everyday since we have no new common experience. I mis her sms and talk, but its hard sometime to talk about 'nothing'. I mean she work, I work and we send many sms'. What about your people, any comment?

Posted by: golfnut13

I think what you are experiencing is true of any long distance realationship, whether you are married or not. When two people lead separate lives, there is only so much you can talk about without re-hashing things from previous days. Once the two of you are together and are leading common lives, things will get better. In the meantime, keep the flame going by doing what you can for now.