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Intimacy
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Posted by: solstice

How important is it for you & your woman to have intimate relations before marriage? Is it a natural step in your relationship?

Posted by: searcher

I'm going to ask you to define "intimate" because in another thread one person posted:

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Originally Posted by vic2012

Many people just dont understand how intimate (not sexual) correspondence can be.

So in that context intimate means closeness but quite often people take it to mean sexual relations/intercourse.

In the sexual context,
I say go with your feelings and how close you are with that person and how well you trust them. At this time I won't discuss the religious and/or moral implications as that is an individual thing. I consider myself religious but obviously not perfect.

In the context of "closeness",
This is of the most importance to me. I have to have love/feelings for the person i'm going to marry and it has to be beyond mere physical attraction as looks fade with time/age. I need to have a wife that is also my best friend, confidant, etc...

Posted by: JamesB

I think my friend you really have to go with your feelings.If you are talking sexual closeness i think you and your gf will know when the time is right.

Posted by: Jutman

Rather good answeres.

An issue for ou, could be your religion. If you worry about her, I would say, a majority of russian are not religious and have intercourse before marriage, (from what i can understand).
They can perhaps hestitate to show feeligs in public, but this I also believe is changing from my my visits.