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Posted by: Chrismc

Thanks Martyn. Goodluck yourself with your new lady



Posted by: azamuner

Another lucky bugger. Hope you have a great trip and that your meeting is everything you hope it to be.

Take care.



Posted by: royalpalace774

Hey Chris,
I guess the next time you read this you will be in the Ukraine. Good luck to you and have fun there. We are all rootin for ya all over the world on RMP.

Can't wait to hear about your trip!



Posted by: Chrismc

Quote:
Originally Posted by royalpalace774
Hey Chris,
I guess the next time you read this you will be in the Ukraine. Good luck to you and have fun there. We are all rootin for ya all over the world on RMP.

Can't wait to hear about your trip!

Thanks Azamunar

and RP I wish I was there, not leaving yet for a few days



Posted by: royalpalace774

Quote:
Originally Posted by Chrismc
Thanks Azamunar

and RP I wish I was there, not leaving yet for a few days



Sorry , I thought you left . OK then good luck in a few days mate!



Posted by: GoeastLJ

Quote:
Originally Posted by Chrismc
I hear from my lady tonight that Yanukovich seems to be winning, that is bad news if he does. They will know for sure tomorrow. He is backed by Russia and Putin.....bad news as you say Mike.


Well, the results are now out. My lady also went for Julia. It seems Julia appealed to the young.



Posted by: Chrismc

a 60% turnout, pretty good.



Posted by: AkMike

`Tis a sad day for the future of Ukraine IMO!



Posted by: AkMike

Chris, Check out this news from RMP Newsdesk.
http://www.businessweek.com/globalb...gn_id=rss_daily



Posted by: Chrismc

Yes I read that earlier Mike, if you read this one http://news.yahoo.com/s/nm/20071002..._election_dc_16 they all seem to be saying they won, not sure what it all means for the folk of Ukraine, but no doubt we will find out soon and no doubt my lady will tell me this evening.



Posted by: vic2012

Hi Chris,
Hope you are OK. Everythings fine here.

I saw your comments on the election. Anyway with 98.5% of the vote counted, the left can't win (unless the socialists get a remarkable 10% of the remaining votes (they're currently on 2.9%).

So the orange alliance will be back with a small majority. This time the alliance will have to stay together. Interestingly, Yushchenko (got less than 15% of the vote) andTymoshenko (got over 30%)



Posted by: AkMike

Thanks Vic! That's good news for the future of Ukraine I believe. They need to get away from the shadow of Russia and blossom on their own. I think that there is alot of potiential in that country if they can get their feet underneath them.



Posted by: Chrismc

Thanks Vic, I am glad things are gouing great with you and Viktoria.



Posted by: Chrismc

Quote:
Originally Posted by vic2012
Hi Chris,

I saw your comments on the election. Anyway with 98.5% of the vote counted, the left can't win (unless the socialists get a remarkable 10% of the remaining votes (they're currently on 2.9%).

So the orange alliance will be back with a small majority. This time the alliance will have to stay together. Interestingly, Yushchenko (got less than 15% of the vote) andTymoshenko (got over 30%)


It didn't take long for the Putin government to react to the narrow victory by pro-Western parties in the Ukrainian election! From nowhere, Gazprom the government owned gas monopoly found that Ukraine owes a Billion dollars in debt and suddenly wants payment by the end of the month. A Final Demand is in the post

MOSCOW (AFP) - Russian gas monopoly Gazprom warned Tuesday it would cut gas supplies to Ukraine, which transports 80 percent of Russian gas supplies to western Europe, if Kiev did not pay over a billion dollars in debt this month.

The warning revived a longstanding dispute over gas supplies that led Russia to turn off the taps to Ukraine in January 2006, provoking supply shortfalls in western Europe and doubts about Russia's reliability as an energy provider.

"If the debt is not settled in October, Gazprom will be forced to begin to cut natural gas supplies to Ukrainian consumers," the state-run company said in a statement, putting the amount of debt at 1.3 billion dollars (900 million euros).

Ukrainian energy company Naftogaz, Gazprom's counterpart, expressed bewilderment at the warning.

"We don't understand what Gazprom means. We don't understand where (the sum) came from," spokesman Oleksy Fyodorov told AFP. "We hope that by tomorrow, at least, we'll understand what they're talking about and define our position."

In Brussels the European Union's executive Commission called for a "swift settlement" to the potential crisis which could impact on European gas supplies.

"Today, the European Commission was informed by Gazprom about a problem of payments for gas delivered to Ukraine and a possibility to reduce gas deliveries to Ukraine if no satisfactory solution was found," the Commission said in a statement.

"At the same time, Gazprom committed itself to honour all existing gas supply commitments to European companies," it added. "The Commission urges (all parties) to find a speedy settlement for this issue."

The dispute came as Ukraine approached the end of a cliffhanger vote count after parliamentary elections Sunday. The vote pits the pro-Western parties of President Viktor Yushchenko and opposition leader Yulia Tymoshenko against Moscow-backed prime minister Viktor Yanukovych.

The Ukrainian edition of Russian daily newspaper Kommersant reported on the eve of the elections that Russia could sharply raise gas prices to its ex-Soviet neighbour if the elections led to a pro-Western government, citing a "highly placed" anonymous source.

A Ukrainian analyst close to Kiev's authorities, who chose to remain anonymous, said the spat was "a warning to Yulia Tymoshenko, a potential prime minister, who is disapproved of by Moscow.

"Most probably, Russia is warning Tymoshenko that she risks, if she does not abandon her ambition to be prime minister to have serious problems with gas in January 2008," he said, referring to the date the current gas supply contract will run out.

The Russian ambassador to Kiev, Viktor Chernomyrdin, later told AFP that the choice of the new government was "an internal matter for Ukraine."

Ilya Koshevrin, a spokesman for Gazprom's export wing, said late Tuesday that the company anticipated the charge that "this was an attempt to influence the outcome of the election."

He insisted, however, that "this is a purely commercial matter," adding: "With the fall approaching and gas consumption rising we definitely need to settle" the issue promptly.

Ukraine currently pays 130 dollars (90 euros) per 1,000 cubic metres of Russian gas under an agreement that runs only until the end of this year.

That price was an increase on the 95 dollars per 1,000 cubic metres Ukraine paid in 2006, but was far less than a demand for 230 dollars the Russian energy giant initially sought.

Gazprom has imposed sharp price increases on all its ex-Soviet neighbours in recent years, including Belarus, Moldova, Armenia, and Azerbaijan, as it seeks to move from Soviet-era subsidies to market pricing.

In the crisis of 2006, Gazprom blamed Ukraine for the supply shortfalls to western Europe, saying it had meant to cut gas only to Ukraine, but the country had then siphoned off supplies meant to transit on to the West.



Posted by: firemansam

Hiya Chris, you must be on your count down now (If I remember correctly!)

Hope you have a nice trip mate!!!

Sam.



Posted by: Chrismc

Quote:
Originally Posted by firemansam
Hiya Chris, you must be on your count down now (If I remember correctly!)

Hope you have a nice trip mate!!!

Sam.

Yes Sam leaving shortly.

Thanks mate



Posted by: Chrismc

Well guys, just got back from Ukraine late last night had a fantastic time in Kiev and Chernivsti mainly, but also visited Khotyn and Kamyanets Podilskuy, and will get round to posting some news sometime soon, suffice to say, this trip was my best ever, mainly because I spent the whole time with one amazing and wonderful lady and her family and I am going back for Christmas and New Year, I will be booking flights in a week or two Wink early plans are for her to come here sometime next summer after her daughter finishes her school year. I hope to report more when I have time. but things are fantastic just now.

Chris



Posted by: Longfellow

Quote:
Originally Posted by Chrismc
Well guys, just got back from Ukraine late last night had a fantastic time in Kiev and Chernivsti mainly, but also visited Khotyn and Kamyanets Podilskuy, and will get round to posting some news sometime soon, suffice to say, this trip was my best ever, mainly because I spent the whole time with one amazing and wonderful lady and her family and I am going back for Christmas and New Year, I will be booking flights in a week or two Wink early plans are for her to come here sometime next summer after her daughter finishes her school year. I hope to report more when I have time. but things are fantastic just now.

Chris
Great news, Chris! It's nice to hear that it was advantageous meeting.
I look forward to hearing more about your adventures.



Posted by: GoingToRussia

CONGRATES Chris!!! :BEERS:

I would say your "search is over"!

Looks like us old timers will soon be in bliss. I'm planning a December wedding in Vegas.

Take care and good luck!



Posted by: martin3030

Good to see you back Chris and of course news like this makes everything worthwhile.
Your wild searchin days look to be over.........
Like they say tho.....we never know the real one until they come along.
You have got some writing to do ......was told it can help to put some Sudocream on ur typing fingers lol !!



Posted by: Chrismc

Quote:
Originally Posted by martin3030
Good to see you back Chris and of course news like this makes everything worthwhile.
Your wild searchin days look to be over.........
Like they say tho.....we never know the real one until they come along.
You have got some writing to do ......was told it can help to put some Sudocream on ur typing fingers lol !!

Yes mate, for those who kept saying you will know when the right one comes along, they were right, very right! I wondered if it would ever happen, but this time I struck gold!



Posted by: martin3030

You sure have.I have myself something to announce soon
You and John will be the first to know.....I will prob let the cat outta the bag after a few John Smiths ............



Posted by: royalpalace774

Hi Chris,
Good news. I'm glad to hear your trip was great. I'm looking forward to hearing about your trip and how things went.



Posted by: martin3030

Er women?
Is there somethin we dont know ......I thought it was just one



Posted by: GoeastLJ

That is very good news, Chris! I wis you all the best.



Posted by: martin3030

Wis?

Told you I was right Chris......Tesco have sold out already !!



Posted by: Chrismc

Thanks GoeastLJ........I hope you have good news soon too.

Chris



Posted by: Chrismc

Quote:
Originally Posted by royalpalace774
Hi Chris,
Good news. I'm glad to hear your trip was great. I'm looking forward to hearing about your trip and how things went.

Things went fantastically well RP, I will get round to posting something soon.



Posted by: Chrismc

oops double post!



Posted by: Chrismc

Well I just booked my tickets back to Ukraine, for 17 days and I have managed to work in our Christmas and New Year and their Christmas aswell, counting the weeks down now

My lady says she can take most of the time off aswell with maybe her only having to work a couple of hours for a few days during December and in January she should be off all the time.

We are both very happy that we shall be able to spend more time together especially at that time of year.

KLM once again have come out best with regards times and prices. I have spent a week looking at prices on flights and trying to get a ticket to a city closer to Chernivsti, but to no avail, so it is back to Kiev then a taxi for 500Km. At least on the return trip I can fly from her city as the connections work in ok, apart from a long lay up in Boryspol airport that is.

I hope to get round to typing up a report sometimes soon, as soon as I have time anyway.



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Posted by: AkMike

Great! Now start getting ready to fill the stockings on the mantle with care!
Twice..



Posted by: Chrismc

Quote:
Originally Posted by AkMike
Great! Now start getting ready to fill the stockings on the mantle with care!
Twice..

Yes Mike I was talking to my lady for a couple of hours this afternoon and I have just got off the phone with her now and she was telling me all the plans for our Christmas - New Year - and her Christmas Eve & Christmas Day, she is planning on something special for my Christmas too so it will feel like I am at home. She is a real treasure



Posted by: martin3030

Klm are not actually that bad.....its just their parter that puts many off ...errr beigins with Air F*****

If only they would stop losing luggage KLM would be up with Lufthansa and Swiss.

Good to see that you got Chrimbo sorted Chris...getting time off is not easy between work here but its 10 times harder over there.
As you prob know the boss usually wants to know whats so urgent ?
As soon as the reason is given its a time for a lecture...which usually takes the form of "stop dreaming about going to England ....and carry on with your work here....if you dont want it we can soon find someone else"

I should say tho that here is pretty much the same.
A bar that I had been working for (3 years) said to me after I asked for new years eve off......ok put another DJ in your place and we will agree....but if he is crap and we dont have a good night....we wont pay him and you can say goodbye to your job !!
Well they had a point.....in the end I didnt risk it and did the job.....on the plus side it paid for my flight next day and more besides on the 7th.
The mass exodus out of England after new years eve is usually thought of to Spain or hot countries.....they have absolutely no idea what they are missing by going East !!



Posted by: Chrismc

Well actually Martin, I have just used Air France and guess what, they lost my luggage too so both KLM and Air France who are both the same company in effect have lost my luggage now

Only this time, I knew the ropes, so went straight to the right department at Kiev, Boryspol Airport and gave them some hassle. The next day after numerous phone calls by my lady she got it back to me. At first they would bring it to the hotel which would mean a oload of hassle and a $70 round trip to the airport and back for me, but somehow she got her own way and just after 10pm the next day it was delivered to me, all in one piece.



Posted by: martin3030

Tell me bout it.
Has happened to me twice.
Was given 100 dollars to buy whatever.......Dont know how they managed it as we landed in Moscow and of course in Russia well........Klm are in no mans land same as rest of us.
Aeroflot and S7 (ex siberian )rule the roost.
Our bags were shipped from SVO to Mineral Vodi which is 2 hours South It took 3 days I think to get em......a further 3 or 4 hour drive and we got them.
Family prob went for them Chris in your case or a mate of family.......they dont like to make a fuss when things go wrong the family get together and just do it.
Thats another thing that separates it from happening here.
The whole pub would know if Charlie had to go to Manchester for lost bags........Your missus and those involved would just put it down to somethin that needed sorting and nothing more said.....Of course I dont need to tell you this You know already !



Posted by: Chrismc

I have decided to write some about my recent trip to Ukraine, but I will not be getting into anything too personal, my lady is a pretty private person until you get to know her and I respect her privacy and certainly don’t want to do anything to jeopardise the great relationship we have. So what follows are just a few titbits of fairly innocuous events that transpired during this trip. I hope you appreciate them!


Well the time had come to set off on my next adventure to the Ukraine, I have been to the Ukraine before, but what was different this time was the feeling I had for this lady who I was due to meet in a few days time. Something was much much different this time around, it was hard to say what, but it just feels so ‘right’ and this time there was no Plan ‘B’ just a Plan ‘A’ the feelings both myself and ‘I’ had expressed during our last 3 months of telephone calls, well over 800 email exchanges and 2 hours a night, 6 days a week on MSN were very strong and lets just say we were both very confident that things would work out to be good, but you never can tell until you meet face to face, so that is the only real small worry we had in the back of our minds.

However, being pretty confident things would work out is not always the best way to think when travelling thousands of miles to meet someone you have never seen in person before, but I think due to my previous experiences in Ukraine and Russia, it was something I was hoping I was getting to understand a little more, and this time as I have already stated, it seemed just so much better than previous correspondence and added to that our fantastic online and offline communications just gave me the added confidence to go for it!


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Posted by: Chrismc

To back track a little for now, ‘I’ and myself had started communicating in early July and right from the start we both felt things were moving quickly, but at the same time they felt right. Shortly after we started writing in fact only 3 days we were already talking on the phone and MSN every night, yes it is now a private joke that we seem to get to places we want to be very quickly. However, ‘I’ had a holiday already booked in the Crimea, and told me she was going away for 10 days, this wasn’t ideal for us and she really didn’t want to go, in fact she later confessed to me she was really worried about that holiday as we had only a week or two earlier started communicating with each other and she was worried that while she was away I would start writing to other women and that she would lose me, so even though we were only a week maybe two weeks into our relationship, she already had my card marked as possible partner/husband material


So a few days later, off she went on her 36 hour bus drive to the Crimea for 10 days thinking that would be the end of us. Her mind was put at ease when I called her out of the blue while she was in the Crimea and sent her an SMS every morning, then she knew that she was ok to enjoy her holiday and we agreed to start writing again after she got back. During that 10 days we sent numerous sms messages to each other and had the odd phone call. Just a side note, ‘I’ had paid extra to be able to travel on a bus with air conditioning, which was great on her outward trip but on the way back and this being Ukrainian service of course the bus didn’t have it so when she got home she complained, well the outcome was strange to say the least, the bus company got fined a whopping 16 Grivnas (yes a whole £1.60 or $3.00) but did ‘I’ get this as she was the one who suffered, no, this being Ukraine the fine/compensation went to the Government so not only did she not get what she paid for, but when she complained she didn’t even get any compo for her troubles. ??? well it is the FSU, it is normal!


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Posted by: Chrismc

On her return, our communications continued at breakneck speed and a week after she got back home, I decided to tell her I was going to come to the Ukraine and meet her. When I told her she was quite shocked, yes it was fast, but I said I would book things for early October thus giving us time to get to know each other better and also to give us time to make sure we were ready to meet. So I booked flights and we carried on communicating by emails all day everyday, phone calls and MSN every night, during this time I also sent her a few cheapish presents and some flowers for her and a few little things for her 7 year old daughter and during our recent meeting in Kiev she admitted to me she had never even considered I would actually have sent her anything even though I asked for her address within the first week or so of our communications. She told me, many men in the Ukraine for example if they are on a business trip will say they to their women then will send something or bring something home with them, but most of them are just empty promises, so to receive a few things from England was quite a pleasant shock for her. and later she was to tell me it is not the presents that so delighted her, but the care I showed to her in actually going to the trouble of sending something to her so far away.

All throughout our pre-meet communications I was getting the feeling that this lady was a very caring and sincere person and very special. Because we used to chat to each night on MSN it was unusual for us to miss an evening, but if she was going to be late home due to work or other commitments she would always SMS me to tell me where she was and what time she would be in, this is not something I had asked her to do, it really was none of my business, but I used to tell her it is so nice to know that she is thinking of me, even though we are thousands of miles apart, she told me many times, ‘the small things matter dear’. Who could argue, she was and is right and she showed this and proved this to me many times during out meeting this month.



Posted by: Chrismc

One of these such messages was in August, it was her birthday and she had planned to go out for a meal with her friends and then come home and we were to chat on MSN. So early evening I receive a message to say ‘Dear sorry we are going to a nightclub to dance, but I am a very good girl but just afraid I will be at home too late to chat with you’ etc etc another time she was with a friend who needed some advice and again she knew she would not make our nightly chat, so sent an SMS saying ‘Dear is seems we have very long tongues with my girlfriend, we are still talking’ etc etc so these little signs showed me she cared very much about people and did not want to let them down by promising to do something and not being able to carry out that promise. I have many more examples of little things she does on a daily basis, but I think it gives you a snapshot of the type of person I am writing about.

So I had booked my flight to Kiev, now I needed a hotel in Kiev for a few days and some flights booking from Chernivtsi for ‘I’ to Kiev and return and also for me to fly from Kiev to Chernivsti and return. I asked her to get me prices and let me know how I could pay for them. The next day, I received an email to say she had got prices but they were a little dearer than she was quoted because the flights are split, and she wanted to know if the prices were OK, I agreed told her to let me know how I could pay for them. The next day I received another email to say she had already booked them and paid for them and she wouldn’t hear about me sending her the money to reimburse her, she had actually paid over half a months wages to buy two flights for someone she had never met before, this lady is very special, so next we needed a hotel in Kiev, she sent me a list of hotels that she thought were appropriate and this time I booked it and paid for it direct. Then we needed an apartment in Chernivsti, so the next day she went on a tour of 3 or 4 apartments checking them all to see what they were like, she found one she liked, quite modern and close to the city centre for about $60 a night, which was pretty good for her city and for a modern place with all mod cons. So I ask her to book it and if they need a deposit to let me know, no need came back the reply, I will book it and pay the deposit this lady is unbelievable, and again she wouldn’t wear me sending her the money for it, in fact when I pushed the issue she told me, ‘darling I know you have more money than me, but I can afford such things! Well that shut me up and I never asked her again if she needed me to send her anything.



Posted by: Chrismc

So we were now just a few days away from our meeting, the plan was to meet in Kiev at the airport, spend a few days there then fly together to her city in Western Ukraine. I had gone and done a little shopping for a few gifts for ‘I’ her daughter and her parents, all their gifts I put in my suitcase, the things I had bought for ‘I’ I took in my carry on luggage, a wise move considering what was to happen. But I had a hunch, gut feeling call it what you like that is what I should do and it turned out to be right.

On the morning of departure I get up at 2am and drive to the airport to park the car, check in and all seems to be rosy, I am due to fly to Paris and then on to Kiev, land around 2.00pm, and meet ‘I’ at Boryspol Airport maybe an hour later, she was flying from Chernivsti and would be at Boryspol around 9.30am and wait for me there.

I board the plane for Paris, then the captain announces, our departure will be delayed due to fog at Charles De Gaul airport in Paris, two hours later we are still sat on the tarmac, my biggest concern was making my connection and ‘I’ having to wait longer in Kiev. I send ‘I’ an SMS and tell her I may miss my connection, but there is another flight later in the day, it just means she will have to wait longer, she replies, ‘don’t worry darling I am not going anywhere until Monday (the day we were due to leave for her city) and all will be fine’ these women certainly know how to calm you down. Well we take off and fly to Paris, I see on the information boards I need to get to Terminal ‘F’ but the good news is my connection is also delayed, so I might make it after all, I run down the walkways and corridors and get to the shuttle bus, its sods law that terminal ‘F’ is the last stop on the bus route, so 20 minutes or so later I arrive and run through the terminal to the departure gate, just as boarding has started, I send an SMS to ‘I’ and tell her the good news. We start to taxi and then the plane comes to a dead stop! Nearly two hours later again, we are still sat on the tarmac, I don’t believe this, so a few SMS messages backwards and forwards to ‘I’ calms me down again. Usually I fly via Amsterdam, and the whole point of flying via Paris is that the plane is meant to get in over two hours earlier than the Amsterdam flight, that was my first mistake now we are going to be about four hours late or more.

You can see some of the fog still in Paris that delayed me



Posted by: Chrismc

Well eventually I land in Kiev, Boryspol Airport, and after getting off the shuttle bus I hit the usual brick wall that is Ukraine Immigration, I SMS ‘I’ to tell her I have landed and I am waiting to get through Immi with my little white form already filled in It was just my luck that a plane from Russia had landed just before us and the Russians were all causing problems a the six Immigration gates, So after a lot of toeing and fro wing with these pesky Russians and the Ukrainians I was near the head of the queue, it had taken about 40 minutes to get through the line and I receive an SMS from ‘I’ asking where I was, I replied saying I will be with you soon, that was my second mistake just as I get to second place in the queue the lady Immi Officer says she is closing this line, everyone join the end of the other lines, WHAT! You must be joking, 40 minutes standing in line just to go to the back of the queue, no way, but she and her minder, some guy with a Kalashnikov was not having any of it, instead I decided to try my arm and joined the queue for Ukrainian Nationals which had only 5 or 6 people in it as opposed to maybe 20 or 30 in all the others, this turns out to be a good move, as surprisingly they actually stamped my form and passport and waved me through, note for my Christmas trip pretend to be a Ukrainian next time

Another SMS comes in from ‘I’ ‘where are you dear’, I reply just getting my luggage dear, I will be with you in 5 minutes, that was my third mistake, the luggage carousel that my case was supposed to be on was looking ominously empty, only one or two stragglers was going round and round on it I thought that there is no way my luggage has made it, I asked a nearby attendant if anymore was due in but he just stared at me in disgust as though I had just dropped in from the planet Zog!



Posted by: Chrismc

Well luckily for me, (or unluckily whichever way you view it) I had lost or should I say KLM had lost my luggage before on a previous adventure through Kiev, last time it took me five days to get it back, so this time I knew the ropes, so off I headed for the lost property office barging some people playing hide and seek with their cases out of the way in my haste to try and get this sorted as quickly as possible.

Last time this happened to me it took maybe an hour or so to just fill in the paperwork, I prayed this was not going to happen this time, as I enter the lost property office I am happy to see there is no queue, so I sit straight down and look as if I mean business. Big Olga stares at me, I stare at her across the desk, who is going to speak first I think, so I think in for a penny in for a pound, I start to explain in my best Russian with plenty of hand signals that my luggage has gone AWOL, she eventually speaks and says in pigeon English gud! What do you mean good? Is this women for real she hands me the obligatory forms, four of them in total all asking the same questions, and all need filling in DUH! vill in pleeze! As I start to complete the forms I receive another SMS from ‘I’ ‘Dear are you here?’ I reply sorry dear, they have now lost my luggage, I will see you as soon as I can, by this time she has been waiting at the airport for me for nearly 9 hours. So I swiftly fill in the forms choose a picture from their nice brochure telling them what my case looked like and she gives, me a slip of paper with a reference number on it and a phone number and tells me someone will call me, yes sure that is what they told me last time, oh forget it I will call you at this stage I was totally p*&%$d off, I ask if I can go now, forget my luggage I just don’t care anymore, I just want to get to ‘I’



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Posted by: Chrismc

Big Olga says ‘NYET! Now you need to vill in zis form’, WHAT! Not another what’s this one for, ‘Customs’ you need to declare how much money and any gifts you are bringing in to the country’ Gifts I say, you already lost all those! jesus, I don’t believe this, so I rapidly fill in this form too, then she gets up and says ‘cum vis me’ an English guy behind me remarks watch out no one else has come back after they have said follow me, I think there’s a firing squad out back, a sobering thought but I didn’t care so I follow her to the customs officer, he stamps my forms, checks my passport again for the umpteenth time and stares at me again, I say WHAT! What do you want now, he says ‘you can go now’ fantastic I am now only a few yards away from the doors out into the arrivals hall, so off I go, by now the whole area air side is empty, most people had gone long ago, I open the doors and what’s seems like hundreds of taxi drivers suddenly pounce on me, I fight them off Nyet, nyet, nyet and a few words of Ukrainian thrown in for good luck Ni Dyakuyu Ni Dyakuyu Ni Ni Ni and a few yards later I hear ‘Chreez’ and this beautiful lady runs towards me and flings her arms around my neck. I kiss her on the cheek and we fight off the last remaining taxi drivers to get to a place where we can speak in relative peace and quiet.


More to follow...






Posted by: Chrismc

We had both been waiting for this moments for months, not long really in the whole scheme of things but we both knew this moment could be either very awkward or fantastic or somewhere in between, we had discussed our first meeting at length and were both unsure how it would actually turn out and that was really our only slight worry throughout all our communications, you can never really tell until you meet in person.

‘I’ likes to tease me a lot and me her and we both agreed that it may take us a day or two to become comfortable with each other, so that is how we considered things would first go. So we find somewhere nice and quiet and just look at each other and hug again, no words were necessary, it seemed like we had been waiting for this moment for a lifetime already. Just then reality hits us once again in the shape of a hairy Ukrainian taxi driver, who starts to pester us about a ride into Kiev I say No and ‘I’ basically tells him to get lost, I don’t know what she actually said you him but he soon runs off with his tail between his legs She tells me we have to go and get her bags, she had stored them instead of having them with her all day, so we go and get her bags and then walk out into the arrivals hall again, again two or three bloodsucking taxi drivers approach us, but ‘I’ has them all sussed out, she tells me she has already got one arranged for us, and negotiated a good price, she grabs my hand and leads me to our man!


Our driver takes our cases and beckons for us to follow, ‘I’ takes my arm and we head off following our driver, I hug ‘I’ and she hugs me, we are already starting to feel so relaxed in each others company, she jokes, ‘we are quick again Chreeez’ yes dear, we are quick and we both laugh out loud!



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Well we reach our taxi, a brand new mini bus with lots of room and just us two in it, we sit down and ‘I’ tells me she has already arranged with the driver to take us past some Kiev touristy type sites on our journey into the city centre, what a lady this is, she thinks of everything so we set off and all the time we are holding hands and giving each other hugs in the taxi, there is no awkwardness at all and we are both very relaxed and very happy.

Our journey takes maybe 40 minutes or so, I really cannot remember the time doesn’t matter we are just so happy to be together at last. ‘I’ asks me about my trip to Ukraine and what went wrong with my flights and of course the baggage going missing, I tell her about it and she says ‘no problem dear, we will get your luggage back very soon and if not we shall just go shopping tomorrow and buy a few necessary things until we get your case back’ she is just so relaxed about this and takes it all in her stride, I feel calmer too and really loosing my case is of little concern now.

We reach our destination the Kreschatyk Hotel on Kreschatyk right opposite Independence Square which you look out into from the reception of our hotel. We check in and I tell ‘I’ I would like to get a shower and clean up and although I have no change of clothes I did have the foresight to take my toiletries with me in my carry on bag, so I have shower and tidy up I remember I have a few gifts for ‘I’ that I had bought for her and luckily as I stated earlier had decided to take with me in my carry on bag, so I give these to ‘I’ she is quite shocked and tells me ‘Cheez you should not have bought me anything, I don’t have a present for you’ I tell her I didn’t buy them so I could get one in return, she opens the first two which was a necklace and bracelet set, she is very happy and gives me a big hug and a kiss, the third is just a small momento from my city.



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We decide to go for our first meal together, we go down to reception and ask the older reception lady for a nice restaurant close by that was not too expensive, that was my fourth mistake never trust them to give out impartial advice DUH! we are told of a nice Italian restaurant not too far away, so we head off for that. We find the restaurant and are shown to a nice table, and decide just to order something simple a couple of salads and some wine, we have our meal and chat the whole time through it, I tell ‘I’ her spoken English is very good and she is surprised how easy it is for her to speak constantly in English, (talking on the phone is sometimes a lot different to talking in real life) she has not used spoken English since she left University nearly 14 years previous, throughout our whole trip I am constantly and pleasantly surprised by this ladies ease at which she can communicate with me and more so of her care towards me.

We finish our meal and ask for the bill, the waitress brings this and places it on the table then quickly scurries away, I look at the bill and really don’t take it in, ‘I’ takes it from me and says ’ohhh Chreez, this is not right’ I ask what is wrong and she says ’this is over £100.00 ($200) and is far too expensive’ she had already converted it into British currency for me, I replied, no it can’t be, for three salads and few glasses of wine ??? well it turns out it is correct and I pay it, ‘I’ tells me she is so sorry for it costing so much, but I tell her ok, but it was our first meal together, it was a special one and not to worry, she tells me but in my city that meal would only cost a few pounds, I reply, well we don’t ask the lady in the hotel anymore where to eat, she replies ‘no Chreeez, never again, I will tell her when we get back there’ I say don’t worry darling, these things happen, it won’t happen again. We both laugh and start our walk back to the hotel.

More coming soon...



Posted by: French_Misha

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Originally Posted by Chrismc
We decide to go for our first meal together, we go down to reception and ask the older reception lady for a nice restaurant close by that was not too expensive, that was my fourth mistake never trust them to give out impartial advice DUH!


Travel guides are useful. I personally like the lonely planet travel guides. They usually provide some reviews of restaurants (and their prices). It is a good way to start when you do not really know a city.



Posted by: GoingToRussia

She sounds like a winner Chris!!! Reminds me of my first meetings. The women make you feel very relaxed and you also forget the long flights and delays! She reminds me a lot of my fiancee, always there for moral support and to help in any way.

Ah yes Kiev. I also got a $200 check for supper one time. Must be some sort of scam going around. But as you said, it was our first night out on the town in Kiev.

Good luck Chris and keep us posted.



Posted by: royalpalace774

Hi Chris,
Your lady sounds like a gem. Paying for all of those things in advance is
something one would never expect from a girl in the Ukraine. I think that says alot about her.

Loosing luggage really sucks. I remember when I had lost luggage on my April 2007 trip to Odessa to meet my gem. And my gem had me forget about my lost luggage also. She and her mom & dad bought me some clothes and things and made me some food. What a great family she has. Then my luggage came 5 days later with everything still there.

It looks like you have struck gold this time.

I can't wait to hear some more from you about your trip.



Posted by: Chrismc

Thanks guys, yes this lady is a real treasure, I cannot praise her enough for how she and her family looked after me in her City and how they made me feel so welcome.



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The next morning, we wake up early, neither of us could sleep, in the night I had been bitten by some pesky Ukrainian mosquito’s and started to come out in red blotches that itched like mad, funny they don’t bother me at home but these Ukrainian ones seem to have something a little extra in their artillery.



We go down for breakfast and I ask ‘I’ what she would like to do today, she says first she will call the airport and ask about my luggage, good idea I thought, and she tells me she will get it back today, I do wonder how she is so sure about this but have learnt already not to question her when her mind is set on something



So she calls the airport and they say they have found my luggage but it is not with them yet, she has to call back in the afternoon. Time is logged and she makes a note to call them as requested.



So we decide we shall go for a walk and see some sights around Kiev, she asks me if I walk a lot at home, yes dear, to the car and back and that is as long as the car is parked not to far away, I see her eyes sparkle, and soon I realise why , I don’t have to wait long, she tells me ‘today darlink, we shall go for a short walk’ I agree, but little do I know her short walks are extremely looong walks for a car dominated Westerner during our communications, I had sent her a list of places I wished to visit if we had time in Kiev, she had brought this list with her and had a route march planned to take in everything I asked for so we spend the next few hours visiting the Chimera House, Independence Square, the City Parks and the Lavra we visit the Lavra and she asks me if I want to join a party tour or go on our own, I say better on our own as I cannot understand what they say anyway, she tells me she will translate for me, I tell her no need dear, lets go on our own and see how things go. Inside the Lavra we get accosted by a lady who wants us to use her as a guide, I ask how much and ‘I’ tells me her price, after a bit of a scrum down a new price is agreed and I say why not, lets have the personal tour so off we go, with our new guide speaking in probably worse English than ‘I’ would have done, but no matter it gives ‘I’ a rest from speaking English all the time

Photos of The Lavra - Kiev



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Chimera House - Kiev



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We spend a couple of hours at the Lavra seeing all the different buildings and museums and of course going underground into the catacombs, for anyone who hasn’t been it is a must see, to go back hundreds of years to see how the first monks loved their lives underground in caves is quite an experience.

We leave the Lavra and hail a taxi, it cost us 20 Grivnas to get from Kiev City centre but now the driver is asking for 55 Grivnas, ‘I’ is not having this and immediately gets on the phone and orders her own cab, they cannot come at this time, so we see another one down the road a little and she quickly goes into negotiation mode OK so it cost us 30Grivnas but she saved 15 Grivnas about £1.50 ($3.00) and made her happy so I didn’t argue She now tells me we are going back to the hotel after our short walk, short walk, jeepers I’d hate to see a long walk, by this time we had been walking maybe 3 or 4 hours with a few little rests for drinks etc these women can certainly walk we get back to the hotel and she immediately starts calling the airport, it seems they hope to have my case by about 5pm call back then.

About this time I receive a few SMS messages from Justjohn and GoeastLJ who had already told me they would be in Kiev this weekend and agreed to meet up with their girlfriends, we exchange messages and agree to meet the following day under the column in Independence Square at 1pm.

5pm comes around and she calls them again, yes we now have it, you will come for it, I thought this was a bit unjust, maybe an hour and half round trip and probably $70 - $80 USD in cab fares when it was their fault. I had no need to worry, ‘I’ gets on the phone once again, and after a few heated exchanges they have now agreed to bring it to the hotel for me this evening. So we decide just to take it easy now and take our time in going for a meal and a few drinks.

We go out for a meal, but this time we decide best not to ask for any recommendations from Hotel staff and we visit a nice Georgian restaurant on Kreschatyk Street which is underground and set up in small cave or underground type tunnels, quite a nice place, nothing too fancy but the food was quite reasonable.

We have a short walk back to the Hotel and during our walk ‘I’ gets on the phone again to ask why the airport have not called us, they say the case is on its way and will be there in 10 minutes! 2 hours later the case is still not with us, then we get a call from the hotel lobby to say there is a package in reception for me, I had just gone to bed, so I get up and go downstairs, ‘I’ asks me if she should come too to help me talk to him, I say no dear it is OK I will sort this one out. I meet up with a driver in the lobby and after checking, double checking and triple checking my paperwork, passport, drivers licence, medical card and inside leg measurement he finally hands over the luggage.

St Sophias Cathedral - Kiev



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The next morning Sunday, we have a late start and go down for breakfast, I am happy because I have some clean clothes now and after checking my case I find that all her families presents are still there, nothing missing, great!.......well ‘I’ has another little jaunt planned for me this morning, but this time the walk is not so loooong and she will even allow me to take a bus if necessary I tell her I am ok to walk again, so we go to visit the Cathedral of St Sophia (pictures here) we spend an hour or so looking around the place, for those who don’t know it is acknowledged to be the oldest Cathedral in Europe dating back well over 800 years.

We leave St Sophia’s and hop on a bus a few stops down the main road and after a short walk (I mean a short walk ) we arrive at St Vladmirs Cathedral where a Sunday morning service is taking place, this is quite interesting, but it is very busy as you can imagine. We don’t stay too long as it is nearly time to met up with my friends from the UK, so we head off back to Independence Square this time by taxi

Kiev and Independence Square



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Kiev pictures



Posted by: GoeastLJ

Excellent report Chrismc! Things are looking up. Yes, those walks - painfully enjoyable and I have learned not to leave my walking shoes behind. You have captured the heart of Kiev and I think you should buy shares in 'Kiev Leisure Industry'!

The very best to you both. It looks you just found the one.



Posted by: bushman

Chris

Good to hear things are going so well for you, long may it continue. Also seeing your photos reminds me what a special place Kiev is, I will have to pay another visit one day soon.

John



Posted by: TheWongs

Great story so far Chris! I like your style!

By the way... You never mentioned if the driver was happy with your inside leg measurement? I take it he was, or you wouldn't have got your case back!



Posted by: Chrismc

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Originally Posted by GoeastLJ
Excellent report Chrismc! Things are looking up. Yes, those walks - painfully enjoyable and I have learned not to leave my walking shoes behind. You have captured the heart of Kiev and I think you should buy shares in 'Kiev Leisure Industry'!

The very best to you both. It looks you just found the one.



Thanks Goeast it was good meeting you there, yes the walks are loooong but only for us car hogging westerners, not for our ladies who take it in their stride



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Originally Posted by bushman
Chris

Good to hear things are going so well for you, long may it continue. Also seeing your photos reminds me what a special place Kiev is, I will have to pay another visit one day soon.

John

It is a great city John albeit expensive, but it is a Capital city afterall, and thanks for your good wishes.



Posted by: Chrismc

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Originally Posted by TheWongs
Great story so far Chris! I like your style!

By the way... You never mentioned if the driver was happy with your inside leg measurement? I take it he was, or you wouldn't have got your case back!


Thanks Chris, yes he must have been happy he gave me the case anyway, but to be honest I couldn't care less, all I wanted was a change of clothes again



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We arrive in Independence Square and I see ‘J and S’ coming towards me, I introduce ‘I’ to them and them to her and wait to meet with ‘G’ and his lady to arrive. After about 10 minutes I send ‘G’ an sms and ask if he can make it, we were not sure as he was in the middle of lots of paperwork etc for his ladies visa application, no reply so we decide to go for a bite of lunch and a drink and walk up the hill to a pizza restaurant that is close by and we sit in a window that over looks the whole of Independence Square, I send another sms to ‘G’ just in case and he replies to say he will meet us there soon.



The ladies seem to get on fine considering they have never met before and start chatting in Russian while myself and ‘J’ talk about the problems he had been having with his third visa application for ‘S’. We order a meal each and some drinks and settle down for a nice afternoon in good company. Part way through the meal ‘G’ and his lady arrive and apologise for being so late and tell us they cannot stay as they need to get back to finish of their visa planning. We all have a chat and eventually ‘G’ has to go. It is a shame as we would have liked to get to know the two of them better, but maybe another time.


Myself, ‘I’ and ‘J&S’ stay for a while longer and eventually we say our goodbye’s, both couples set off in different directions, ‘I’ wants to look for a present for her daughter so we visit the underground shopping mall just on Independance Square, this is a three storey building, part underground part above ground. We just spend some time moseying around but she says the prices are far to expensive compared to her city, we shall try somewhere else instead. We decide to go back to the hotel for a little rest and relaxation. Later that evening we go out for a meal at our favourite restaurant again and then prepare our bags and cases for our flight the next day to Chernivsti.

The next day we go and have breakfast then a little shopping at nearby shops, and just take our time window shopping and taking in the scenery, we had hoped we could meet up with ‘I’ sister today as she was coming to Kiev on business, but with her arriving late morning and us having to leave around lunchtime, it just wouldn’t work, so we decide to make out way to the airport and ‘I’ calls our driver to come and collect us again.



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We arrive at Boryspol Airport and go through the usual check in procedures, we have about an hours wait, we takes some seats, next to us is a Pilot in all his regalia, drinking a large glass of Stella Artois, I am thinking I hope he is not our pilot, luckily he gets up and boards a plane to Donetsk, I still don’t know if he was actually flying it or just a passenger, but if he was just a passenger he was a little overdressed It is now our time to get the shuttle bus and this takes us out to a moth eaten plane sitting on the tarmac, I have been on these types of planes before, and I am prepared for it, the elastic bands driving the props are tightened, the loft ladder style access stairs are raised and the internal caravan doors are slammed shut and we are ready for take off

We taxi down the runway, and with a large groan and an unnerving amount of vibration the plane just about leaves the ground, fighting the effects of gravity is definitely a task this old bird is struggling at. Our flight tickets say we should take 1hr 50 minutes, our captain says it will take 1hr 30minutes, ‘I’ asks me why this is, I tell her it depends in which way the wind is blowing, she laughs and tells me ‘darling that is probably right, coming back will be much quicker for you if the wind is blowing in the right direction’ we both have a good laugh.

About an hour and 40 minutes later we circle Chernivsti International Airport, blimey, there is nothing that looks International about this place, it reminds me a bit of Karkhov International Airport, a Governmental type looking building with dilapidated runways and no other planes in sight, I say to ‘I’ there is not much happening here dear and she replies ‘no we only have one flight a day and only one plane’ then just as we get nearer we see amazingly a second plane, ‘I’ is delighted at that and tells me so ’darlink we have two planes now’ we land without too much trouble, the odd bounce here and there along the runway but I have had worse the plane comes to a halt and we are al told to depart, we are not allowed to leave the perimeter of the plane and have to line up like a party of school children until she tells us we can march on to the terminal building.

All of a sudden the flight stewardess says proshu and walks towards an old gate in a fence at the side of the terminal building, we then are told to stop and wait for our baggage, I turn round and see the most unusual airport transport I have ever seen, the baggage truck pulls up behind us and we all take off our bags.



Posted by: GoingToRussia

Thanks for the photos and words about Kiev. It reminds me of my trip there last spring. The photos of Mother Russia and Kneiper River are definetely landmarks of the city. Also the public square and a huge and beautiful Orthodox church.



Posted by: martin3030

Good report Chris as always attention to detail
I heard that the BBC are making cuts....2000 jobs going
of course we know not enough interesting programmes....maybe you could put your nane forward for one of the proposed new 1000 jobs.....I mean on a freelance version
Chris the Ukraine reporter.........has a nice ring to it.
You could follow John and Svet for 3 months.....
Naa..You have no time to do it and neither has John........over to ADE....


sorry I had to edit Chris.....the bloody Russian Standard has a lot to answer for lol



Posted by: Chrismc

Quote:
Originally Posted by martin3030
Good report Chris as always attention to detail
I heard that the BBC are making cuts....2000 jobs going
of course we know not enough interesting programmes....maybe you could put your nane forward for one of the proposed new 1000 jobs.....I mean on a freelance version
Chris the Ukraine reporter.........has a nice ring to it.
You could follow John and Svet for 3 months.....
Naa..You have no time to do it and neither has John........over to ADE....


sorry I had to edit Chris.....the bloody Russian Standard has a lot to answer for lol


Well if there any free expenses paid trips over to Ukraine I'm volunteering. Chris our Ukrainian reporter/man on the ground has a nice ring to it



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Outside there are a few taxis ‘I’ goes over to the first one and asks how much, he tells her 55 Grivnas, she laughs and walks off, telling him she is from this city and not a foreigner, the taxi driver takes the hump and gets in his car and drives of she tells me she will get it us a cab for around 20 Grivnas, I just stand in the middle of the road with the bags and let her go to work she waves me over, 18 Grivnas was agreed, little does he know he has just been done, she wants him to call at a number of stops on the way into the city we get in the taxi and call the apartment owner, after quite a long conversation she tells me it is bad news, the owner had been calling her for the last few days and could not get her, apparently the apartment she had taken all the trouble of booking was without water for 4 days, but the owner says she has booked us into a hotel instead.


Well I was not too happy about this but hey, it’s Ukraine, its normal then ‘I’ astounds me, she says she has a plan, she instructs the taxi driver to go to another destination, she wants to look at another hotel inn the city she knows, she gets out of the car and goes into to inspect the facilities, but it is no good as they only have a few nights free, so se comes back to the car and asks him to go set off again, I ask her are we going to the hotel the apartment owner booked now, she replies ’no dear, somewhere else’ well I don’t argue, afterall I have no idea where we are anyway we pull up at another hotel, she gets out and goes in again, bad news again they are full, but, they have another place nearer the city centre, so we are off to there now, the poor taxi driver has been royally shafted, but he is a nice guy and puts up with it, we arrive a few minutes later and she goes into the reception, just as she opens the door she bumps into a friend coming the other way oh dear, she didn’t want everyone to know she was back in her city otherwise work would start to call her and want her to do things for them, anyway after a quick chat she goes inside and asks what the rates are and can we have a look at the apartment.

It turns out this is a great place and about the same price as the one we should have had anyway, but actually a bit nearer the city centre, so all in all a good result. Another bonus point for ‘I’ as she had the foresight to not take whats was being offered and decided to do a little market research at the expense of the poor taxi driver I paid the taxi man and off he went relatively happy, I then paid for the apartment and we went to settle in, with my cases this time

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This is the Hotel 'I' found through shear persistence , but in actual fact it is all split up into seperate self contained apartments, ours is just across the courtyard which was great as we were on our own away from the main building.



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As soon as we had settled in it happened, 'I's' mobile started to ring, yes the lady she had bumped into in the hotel lobby had got on the blower to her friends and they wanted to know what she was doing back at home. Of course she was prepared and after a short conversation that was the last we heard from them, although later I was to be told she had been spotted out and about in her city with me and the questions would start not that she didn’t want people to know about us, but she was happy for family to know about me but wanted to keep her work colleagues out of her private life.

Following a quick shower and change we decide to go out for a meal and we take a 10 minute walk through the city centre to a nice German restaurant, it specialises in a number of nationalities meals along with typical Ukrainian fare. This is a nice place and we have a wonderful meal with some nice wine. Then it is back to the apartment for a good rest.



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The next day our first full day in Chernivsti, she once again has a full day planned for us, first we set off for the University where her father is a senior lecturer, this is a very old and unique and very unusual collection of buildings. First of all we visit the University Church where she shows me where her father worked many years earlier during soviet times when all the churches and cathedrals were closed and abandoned he father brought into the Ukraine one of the first computers and this was installed in the church, it actually helped that it was sited there because it meant the soviets left the church alone and so it was left undamaged. The funny thing about it was that the altar area where usually only priests are allowed to go was actually where the computer was housed and her father spent 15 years working in that building programming the computers and writing programmes for the many soviet projects and space programmes that were running at the time. This was very interesting for both of us, as we were the only ones in there a lady approached us and asked what we wanted, ‘I’ told her I was from England and was interested in the church and the University, she said she would show us round, seconds later music started playing in the church and it all came to life she had taped choral music and the sound really made the atmosphere of the place. She explained in Russian all about the history of the place ‘I’ translated it all for me. The lady was amazed to hear ‘I’ used to play in this church as a child while her father worked on his computer programming.

We left the church and went out side into the University grounds and the lady continued to tell me all about the unusual buildings with their very unique tiled roofs, She lead us into the main building and proceeded to tell us all about the history of the place and had with her a big bunch of keys and was opening doors all over the place so we could look into the rooms. I have no idea if this was an official tour or not, but I was not complaining. We spent a good couple of hours in this place and it was a great way to start my time in Chernivsti.



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Chernivsti University Church



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Chernivsti University



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Upon leaving the University campus ‘I’ lead me past her parents house and showed me where she had lived for most of her life and on down the road into the city centre, telling me all the time about the history of her city and its buildings. We came to the one and only Theatre in her city, it was closed, but this didn’t stop ‘I’ she knocked on the door and an old guy came to answer, he muttered something and I was told we need to go around the corner, where we found an old decrepit door, we entered and she asked if we could look round, the old man told her we need to go across the road and get an official stamp and ticket, so off we went to what was really someone’s front room, the old lady there gave us a ticket with the obligatory official stamp and it cost us 15 Grivnas, we then went back to the Theatre and proceeded to look around in our own time, one old chap switched on the lights for us, I love the way you can do anything you want in the FSU more or less, over hear there is n o way you would just be able to go and look around somewhere unless it was all official and someone had sold you a ticket to do so, but over there, it seems you just need to ask and things happen.

Following our tour of the Theatre we decided to go for lunch and we grabbed a taxi and drove out of the city a few miles to one of her favourite restaurants, where we sat outside and had Borsch and various other Ukrainian delicacies.



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We then head back to the city for a bit more sight seeing and ‘I’ tells me we are next going to meet her sister and brother in law (BIL) at their house after they finish work.

So now it is time to go to meet her sister, ‘I’ and her sister are very close in fact the whole family are very close so it is great for me that she wants me to meet them so soon. We arrive at her sisters and wait a few minutes while they finish work, they work from an office attached to their home , I just start to give ‘I’ a big hug and her sister appears at the top of the steps down from her office and beckons us over , we go into their office and ‘I’ introduces me to them, I have been practising my Ukrainian a little (only a little mind you) and after saying hello I ask her sister ‘Yak Spravy’ she is shocked and tells me I said it like a native Ukrainian well that is nice to hear for me, it is just a pity I know a lot less than she probably thinks and cannot expand too much on that statement, luckily the sister speaks some English, not as good as ‘I’ but enough certainly to get by and get a conversation going the BIL however does not speak any English so we communicate with hand signals and ‘I’ translates for me.

They ask if I mind dogs, I thought that is an odd question, but soon I understand why, they want us to go into their house and be more comfortable, but they have a big black labrador called ‘Limer’ (notice I have given you her name, I don’t think she will worry too much about it ) Limer has been on her own all day and is a big softy and first thing she does is jump up and start licking everyone, the cat looks on in disgust and only a cat can it gives that sort of luck that seems to say, ‘you silly dog, grow up pleeeeze’ after the dog has settled down a little ‘I’s’ sister asks if I want coffee I say yes and she goes off to the kitchen to make us all one, ‘I’s’ BIL has a different option and gets out the beers and offers me one of those too, needless to say the coffee when it arrived was surplus to requirements

We continued to have a nice chat about things and ‘I’ continued to explain and translate everything to me, there is more on this subject of translation coming later, which still makes us both laugh. The sister and BIL ask if we would like to stay for meal, but they have been working all day and it is getting late so we thank them for their hospitality and tell them we have already planned a meal in a local restaurant, but would be happy to have a meal with them one day later in the week. We bid them farewell and catch a taxi back into the city centre where we once again visit our favourite restaurant.



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The next morning ‘I’ tells me she has asked her sister and BIL if they will take us to Khotyn Fortress which is about an hours drive away, they agree and say they will also take us to Kamyanets Podilskuy Fortress, which is about 20 minutes further on. This is a great offer by her sister and BIL as they are going to have to both take the day off work to do so. We agree to leave about 1pm, so as we have a few hours to kill we decide just to have a walk around the city and look at some places of interest.

‘I’ takes me to a street in her city that is quite unusual, all along the walls of this street artists display their paintings for sale, some of them are fantastic quality, she knows I like good paintings especially oils, we have a chart with a few artists/sellers and they tell us I could take them out of the country with the right paperwork, knowing Ukrainian paperwork and the quantity of official stamps you always need, this is a bit of a daunting proposition, however, we decide to go and look at few shops or galleries that also display paintings by well known local and Ukrainian artists. One such shop has some really nice work, but quite expensive and not just what I am looking for, so we decide to have an early lunch and stop for a coffee and a strudel each. Back in the UK I am used to strudl’s usually being sweet, but here they have savoury strudel’s too with cheese or ham and the like as fillings.

We finish our snack and ‘I’ tells me of another gallery that we can visit, so we take a short walk to this place and upon entering I am immediately taken aback by a few paintings that really look extremely good and professional. I am told they are by a well know Ukrainian artist called ‘Testler’ I ask to see all of his and the gallery people get 4 of them to show me, they are all fantastic quality and just what I am looking for with very heavy ornate frames aswell, one of them is a little damaged so I decide I don’t want that one, I ask ‘I’ to ask the assistant how much for all three of them, she gets a 10% discount, so I decide that is fair and agree to buy them. I ask how I would get them back to the UK, they tell us to go up the street to an office called I think Cultural Inspectorate Office or something official like that. They tell me all about the official documentation I will need and of course the obligatory stamps, they love their stamps in Ukraine we agree that I will be back for them in 2 days and carry out all the paperwork then. The gallery take a small deposit and we say goodbye.



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Just off topic a little, every morning when I get into the office I have an email in my inbox from 'I', we are both very lucky that we are in positions where we can email each other all day during office hours, that is how we have built up nearly 900 email exchanges in just over 3 months, but because of this and our daily MSN chats and telephone calls our relationship has moved on a lot quicker than would be normal for most couples.

I have to say, this would not be the case if this lady was not right for me or I was not right for her, but I guess from what I have written above already most of you know what the outcome will be, well maybe it will and maybe it won't, I am not commenting on that, yet!

The reason I am telling you this now, is that this morning I receive an email as usual but now after I told her I had booked my flight tickets back to her in December this weekend, she has already been onto the ticket office at her local airport and purchased for me, my return flight tickets from her city to Kiev in January.

Later today/tomorrow she is apartment hunting again and later visiting an artist who I am purchasing some paintings from, she is arranging his commission etc so he will have them ready for delivery when I go back in December.

.........and this is despite holding down two stressfull and important full time jobs that take up so much of her time, having a young child to look after and two parents to cook and clean for and nursemaid one who is very ill.

Some of you mentioned I have a real treasure here, well I can only agree and boy am I glad I found the map to find that treasure! she is a wonderful lady!

Chris



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OK guys my good lady is reading this now, so you have been warned



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We still have a little time until we meet the sister and BIL, so ‘I’ decides she will treat me to a little adventure, we are going to take the bus not a little bus as we have started calling taxis, but a big bus I much prefer little buses but ‘I’ is having none of that so we wait patiently at a stop and board the bus, we get off a few stops later after bumping along all the cobbled roads that Chernivsti has everywhere, in fact the roads are some of the worse I have seen anywhere for a city centre, but ‘I’ tells me I have seen nothing yet some are far worse than these, well I am not in that much of a hurry to see them so maybe another time.



We get off the bus and walk a few minutes to her sisters, they are ready for us and ‘I’ and myself get in the back and the sister and BIL get in the front of their 4x4 and off we set for Kamyanets Podilskuy, it is a lovely day about +19C and sunny so it is a pleasant trip. We are all very chatty and ‘I’ is acting as translator when I need it, her sister at times speaks in English and then reverts back to Ukrainian, at one stage her sister starts telling me a story in English, ‘I’ must have forgotten I can speak English because she starts to translate her sisters English for me, after a few minutes she realises that I have an idea of what her sister is talking about and we all break out in fits of laughter. ‘I’ had got that used to translating for me, she also translated English to English, what a women she thinks of everything


After a journey of about an hour we arrive at Kamyanets Podilskuy Fortress, this is mostly a ruin, but they are re-building it in parts and it is interesting to see the place, we spend maybe 45 minutes here that is all, because our main excursion is to Khotyn where unbeknown to me a treat has been planned.



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More of Kamyanets Podilskuy Fortress



Posted by: Chrismc

Well guys, she has read my report so far and I have got the thumbs up phew that's a relief, so onwards and upwards

But she says you have all got to stop teasing me and you know we always do as our RW/UW tells us don't you guys

More coming soon



Posted by: royalpalace774

GREAT STUFF CHRIS!



Posted by: azamuner

Great photos! It's nice to get a visual of these places instead of just reading about them.



Posted by: joelunchbox

Wow, I was flashing back to my trip to Kiev. Nice memories even without a happy ending. Now I want to go to Chenivsky!! The history of that town is just amazing! Love the architecture. "I" sounds like a sweet lady!



Posted by: Chrismc

Thanks guys, she is a great lady, can't wait to go back in December.



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We get back in the car and set off to Khotyn which is around 30 minutes away through the Ukrainian countryside, we have a nice journey and it is good to see all the green fields and villages en route, in fact I remark it is quite similar to the English countryside in parts but not quite as green, on arrival we park and take a quick look at some artifacts and souvenirs that are on sale, ‘I’ disappears and comes back with a fridge magnet, it is of a Ukrainian lady with a rolling pin in her hand, this is a private joke between us, but any Russian or Ukrainian women will now what it means she gives me this as a little joke,

We have a walk of about 10 minutes to get to the fortress, so we take our time, we walk together as usual and link arms, it doesn’t matter where we are ‘I’ holds my hand or links arms with me, it is so nice to have such an attentive lady as my best friend it is a lovely old place on the banks of the river. On our walk down to the Fortress we pass another building which I am told is an old Ukrainian restaurant and they have already planned a traditional Ukrainian banquet for us all, ‘I’ and her family really are wonderful people and think of everything to make my visit entertaining and memorable.

We spend half an hour or so walking around the grounds and buildings of the Khotyn Fortress, this place is over 800 years old and you certainly can feel the atmosphere of the place, it is all around you burnt into the very structure of the buildings, facades and walkways, I am told it is used a lot for films because a lot of it is still intact, although ‘I’ and myself try out some of the old wooden staircases up to the second floors there are some which just look a little too risky and have some sort of simple string type affair preventing you from accessing the higher ramparts, on our way out through the drawbridge they tell us the reason they are re-building a lot of the place, apparently last year a young child fell from the ramparts to her death and now they have decided to make it safer, their re-building/refurbishment plan is to take them through to 2012 I think they told us.

We start out walk back up the hill, and turn around t look back at the fortress, it is unusual in the fact that most buildings and castles of this nature in the UK are built on hills for added protection, this however is built in a hollow, but you can understand why when you see where it is situated with the river far below and protecting two sides of it.


Half way back up the hill on the ay to the carpark is the restaurant, where ‘I’s’ family have arranged for our traditional Ukrainian banquet meal. We enter the restaurant, we are the only customers, but it is 4pm in the afternoon and quite a remote place. We walk through into the main restaurant and there is our table (see pictures) already set up with our first course. The waitresses are all dressed in traditional Ukrainian attire, we sit down and the men are served beer and the women wine.



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We start to eat our first course, which includes a number of different dishes all very tasty, then the waitresses bring us our next courses, we end up having maybe 3 or 4 courses in total with each one having a multiple of different traditional Ukrainian food, our glasses are kept topped up all the time and we are really having as great time and I am enjoying being treated like a king. With the 800 year old atmosphere of the place and all this food it feels like what you imagine King Henry VIII would be used too

‘I’s’ mobile phone rings, she answers it and her usual lovely happy, smiling face changes, she starts to look concerned, she finishes the phone call and talks to her sister in Ukrainian, they then both take the time to explain to me what the phone call meant, their mother has had an accident at home, she has fallen and banged her head and she is in shock and does not now where she is. I say ok its an hour away but lets go home, they tell me it is ok their father is with her and the doctor is on his way, it is not the first time it has happened and they will leave as soon as we have finished out meal. I could see both ‘I’ and her sister were concerned, but they put on a brave face and kept in touch for the next 30 minutes or so by mobile phone. She then tells me the doctor is with her (a family friend) and he says she must rest and go to bed and has left a list of medicine she needs to have. I won’t go into detail but her mother suffers from high blood pressure and often has falls, but this time she banged her head badly.

We quickly finish our meal and we leave for home, I still don’t know how the bill got paid but believe the sister and BIL paid it as a welcome gift for me? After arriving back in the city they all drop me off at the apartment and go straight to their parents house which is only a few minutes away by car. ‘I’ tells me she will stay a little while and will return to me later. I am quite used to this by now as she has gone home for an hour or so each evening to make sure her daughter is ok and doing her homework and to give her extra English lessons. I quite expected her to do this in fact it would be a shock to me if she didn’t but what we are both pleasantly surprised about is how much time we are actually spending together 23hours out of every day whilst in her city and all the time when we were in Kiev. We both decided early on I would only meet her daughter if we were happy with each other.

About an hour and half later ‘I’ returns and tells me her mother is not great, but stable and resting, it is a big relief that they have a great doctor as a personal friend and he knows what is required. Well after all that has happened today we decide to just take it easy this evening.



Posted by: 3times_2UA

Great report Chris !!!

MAAAAAAAAN !!!! does this bring back memories for me.

For those of you that have not been to Chernovtsy, Kamenets Podolskiy or Hotin. These photos are a very accurate account of the sights one could see in the course of a day.

It also is very fun to visit the Carpathian mountains and the small surrounding towns. Very easily done by taxi or by bus.

Sorry Chris for hijacking your thread.......This region of the Ukraine does have a special place in my heart !!! Great story !!




Posted by: TheWongs

Tease you? We would NEVER do a thing like that Chris!



Posted by: Chrismc

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Originally Posted by 3times_2UA
Great report Chris !!!

MAAAAAAAAN !!!! does this bring back memories for me.

For those of you that have not been to Chernovtsy, Kamenets Podolskiy or Hotin. These photos are a very accurate account of the sights one could see in the course of a day.

It also is very fun to visit the Carpathian mountains and the small surrounding towns. Very easily done by taxi or by bus.

Sorry Chris for hijacking your thread.......This region of the Ukraine does have a special place in my heart !!! Great story !!


Thanks 2UA it certainly holds great memories for me already and I hope a lot more starting in December.



Posted by: Chrismc

Quote:
Originally Posted by TheWongs
Tease you? We would NEVER do a thing like that Chris!


he he LOL she is only protecting me Chris I know you are only joking, aren't you



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The next day I was due to meet her parents and the whole family including sister and BIL were due to go out for a meal but of course with accident the day before this was now in doubt. So we didn’t plan too much just in case, but as usual ‘I’ came up with some ideas and already knew what we were going to do! Just as long as we could get back to her parents in case they needed her or the meal was on.

So first thing in the morning ‘I’ returned to check on her mother, her aunt had moved in temporarily to look after mum after her dad had gone to work so she needed a break also, it is great to see that all the family muck in without a second thought when something needs doing, when she returned she said right lets go and a taxi was booked, she took me out to the Architectural Museum just outside the city. This is an unusual place and really is a collection of old traditional buildings that have been found and put together all in one place. It is a large open field type area and these different buildings have been re-erected, they are filled with old clothing and furs and gives you a typical view of how the old villagers ;lived in the region many years ago. As is usual for this part of the world, an old lady was on hand to show us around and give us a few pearls of wisdom

In one of the properties, there was a film crew filming a music video, there was only us two there so they invited us into the same room they were in to watch it being filmed. We visited most of the houses and buildings and spent a nice couple of hours there just wandering around.

We left the Museum and walked across the road, now another adventure was planned for me, a trolley bus ride I have been on trolley buses before, but I don’t remember any quite as old and decrepit as this one. No wonder the fare was only 60 Kopecs it was certainly a lot different to what I am used to, we only stayed on this mode of transport for 2 or 3 stops and got off at a stop opposite one of ‘I’s’ favourite restaurants for lunch. It was the same restaurant we had visited a few days before and although it wasn’t too warm we sat outside to eat in the fresh air.

We then took a small bus (taxi) back to the city centre and called in at the art gallery just to make sure things were progressing nicely with the paintings, of course not much was required but I did need to take some photographs of them to comply with the regulations, ‘I’s’ sister had lent us a good camera so I could take them and we would go and see them later to print the pictures off. We decided to do a little shopping before going back to the apartment so ‘I’ could go back and visit her mother.

‘I’ dropped me off and went on to check things were OK at home, an hour or so later she came back and told me her mother is not well enough to meet me, but her father wanted to go for a meal with in the early evening and would meet us in the main square. Earlier that day I had sent a few small gifts home with ‘I’ to give to her mother that I had brought from the UK and her mother had told her to pass on to me that she regrets she cannot meet me but maybe another time. I told her it is not a problem and we took a break and waited for the time when we had to go and meet her father.

We were due to meet him at one of the main squares just after we arrive I see this large man walking towards us waving, it was her dad, we shake hands and again I bring out my best Ukrainian ‘Yak Spravy’ he laughs and says ‘yes’ one of only about four words he knows in English. ‘I’ told me he had been learning English that day especially and guess who was his teacher, yes his 7 year old granddaughter ‘I’s’ daughter, so the only words he had learnt were, in no particular order, ‘yes, no, elephant, dog and cat’ when I was told this I asked ‘I’ how he was going to work elephant into the conversation, she replied ‘I don’t know darling’ and laughed out loud

So we stand and talk for a few minutes and then decide to go to a nearby restaurant for a meal. It looks a nice place so we ask for a table and sit down. We look at the menu and as we do father orders a decanter of Vodka for him and me and ‘I’ has a glass of wine. We order our meal and then start on the vodka, we are getting on quite well considering he cannot speak any English except for ‘yes, no, elephant, dog and cat’ which he still hasn’t managed to get into the conversation yet and my Ukrainian is limited to ‘How are you’ and a few other short phrases that get a little tiresome if you keep repeating them, afterall there are only so many times you can ask how someone is in the space of an hour or so

The meal gets eaten it is very good and we finish the vodka of course and then the argument starts over who is paying the bill, father wins of course with the caveat that next time when I go back in December I pay, its funny I heard that one before, I just wonder what they all have planned for me when I go back, note to Chris, remember to have a word with the bank manager before my next trip

We leave the restaurant and say our goodbye, father walks off to the shop and we grab a taxi to go on to ‘I’s’ sisters. When we get there the BIL had already got the printer set up and he proceeds to download the pictures and print two copies of each off for me. This only takes a short while and I thank them for all their help and tell them I hope to meet them on my return later in the year. I say goodbye and we get a taxi back to the apartment.



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More pictures from the Museum of Architecture - Chernivsti



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More pictures from the Museum of Architecture - Chernivsti



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Ultra modern scaffolding used in Chernivsti



Posted by: AkMike

Is that old fort on the Denieper River? I guess I really should look it up in the atlas...
Great Pics!
We're leading a tour back there next April and that looks like a must see stop over! It's amazing how much history there is compared to what we're used to here in N. America.
Thanks Chris!



Posted by: Chrismc

Quote:
Originally Posted by AkMike
Is that old fort on the Denieper River? I guess I really should look it up in the atlas...
Great Pics!
We're leading a tour back there next April and that looks like a must see stop over! It's amazing how much history there is compared to what we're used to here in N. America.
Thanks Chris!


No Mike it is on the Dniester River. We have tons of places like this in the UK and loads of history, but the Northern Bukovina region of Western Ukraine is a different type of history and well worth a visit.

I am glad the pitcures are helping to show peope what the area is like.

Chris

PS we don't have Forts in Europe



Posted by: Chrismc

Well Friday comes around and is my last full day in Chernivsti and we really don’t have many plans for today, ‘I’; is giving me a day off long walks but even short walks for her are like route marches for me we get up late and have breakfast and my main task for today is to go and sort out the paintings and any paperwork that needs doing.

We walk through the city centre to the gallery, there they have some of the receipts ready apart from putting the actual the prices on them, this being Ukraine they have a cunning little plan they want to put figures on that is below the export regulations threshold just in case I am stopped at the airport, I don’t have any plans to do anything dodgy and plan on getting all the correct approvals etc, but In see their point it is another safeguard just in case. The gallery instructs us to walk up the street to the Cultural Inspectorate Office, we enter and greet the same ladies who saw us two days before, one of the older ladies asks ‘I’ to sit down and beckons for me to go and sit by her, the reason soon becomes clear She needed some advice she has a long lost cousin who lived in London and was trying to reach her by phone she showed me the phone number she had and I immediately saw she had the old dialling code written down for outer London, so I wrote her the correct code and gave it back to her, then she asked ‘I’ if I could call the number for her when I got back home, I said sure but what do you want me to tell them? ‘I’ translates, she wants you to tell her cousin that her aunt had died a few weeks ago GULP! Well I couldn’t really refuse and wrote down all the details, address, names of all the family and what relation they were to the poor deceased and finally I had enough information to fill a book and she was happy. By the way Ryptic, if you are reading this I have called a number of times but no answer, I will keep trying for you dear!

So after she made sure I had her little project sorted she was happy to do my paperwork, she and one other lady and one man all were involved in this, I gave them the photos in duplicate of the painting I was buying, they were all examined closely and lots of forms were completed, ‘I’ filled them all in for me and then the OFFICIAL stamps in duplicate and triplicate were hammered onto all the forms and photos. So I now expected we could be on our way, but Oh No this is Ukraine first they gave us a little receipt, we needed to walk back down the street and go to a bank to pay for all the paperwork, a whole 15 Grivnas, we queued in the bank and eventually got the necessary stamp again, the counter clerk gave us a little piece of paper then it was another walk back up the street to the Cultural office again.

Back in the office the receipt was examined and the forms handed over, and we said our goodbyes, but not before Ryptic asked if I had my piece of paper with her family details on it Tak! I said and off we went back down the street once more to the gallery.

We enter and the staff had started to wrap up the paintings for me, I hand over the rest of the cash and they give me the paintings, we had already asked them on a previous visit if the artist would like to do some more paintings for us, so just as we are leaving we reiterated we will be back in December, the assistant called ‘I’ to one side and started a long conversation with her very quietly, eventually, we leave the gallery and I ask what all that was about, ‘I’ tells me the assistant was a very nice lady and wanted ‘I’s’ mobile number, she told her she would get the artist to call her direct and we could buy from him, thus saving about 30% on the galleries fees, fair enough I thought, ‘I’ was happy with this, we would save more money during the course of last week after I had got back home ‘I’ has already met with the artist direct and is agreeing some commissions for him. He is happy, ‘I’ is happy I am happy, the gallery, well lets just say they don’t need to know

So although all the paintings are wrapped up and al the paperwork is in place, I now have a problem, how am I going to get these back home in one piece, once again ‘I’ comes to the rescue, she leads me off to a shop a few streets away that sell bags, we peruse a number of the bags and decide to buy one that is large enough to put all three paintings in, but small enough to be able to get on the plane as carry on luggage and one that I can take back in December to bring more memorabilia home in. We put the paintings in the bag and decide to take them back to the apartment.



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For the next couple of hours we really don’t do a lot at all, but later that afternoon ‘I’ had agreed to go back to her parents to check on them and also to pick up her daughter, it was today we had decided I would meet her and we would all go out for a pizza and spend a few hours with each other. I had spoken to her daughter on the phone once from England, but of course she didn’t know who I was and as she only speaks a few words of English at the moment we really didn’t get much of a conversation going. It is amazing how we try to protect kids as much as possible, but really they see and understand a lot more than we give them credit for. Earlier in the week on our first night in Chernivsti ‘I’ had gone home to see her daughter after being in Kiev for a few days, it was the first time she had left her for so long, her daughter was obviously very pleased to see her mum, but the first things she asked when she walked through the door, ‘where is your case mummy, are you not staying?’ obviously ‘I’ had to tell her she was there for her until she went to bed then she would see her the next day, but the presents we had bought in Kiev helped to make peace, so the next day when she went back home again she was asked the same question again after the third day when this happened her daughter was getting used to the situation and asked ’are you going to stay with your friend again tonight mummy’ of course she told her the truth, but us trying to hide things from her daughter didn’t work at all

So about an hour later the door opens and ‘I’ and this really cute little girl walk through the door, ‘I’ has got dressed up and looks stunning, her daughter walks in slowly holding her mums hand and I say hello to her and again use my limited Ukrainian vocabulary ‘Yak Pravy – ‘N’ she replies in this sweet little quiet voice I am fine thankyou then ask her to come and sit beside me and I hand her a bag with 4 gifts in it, all specially wrapped up in shiny gold paper that I had bought in England. Her big blue eyes get even bigger and open wide when she sees these presents are for her. She starts to open the first one and see it is some of her favourite sweets, she was shocked as I had sent her some of these already a few weeks earlier from England but we had not told her who they were from, when she saw they were the same, the message got through and she was full of smiles. She then opened the other presents and one was a toy that I had bought for her, a wooden giraffe that moves when you press the base, she loves animals like most kids so this was a hit with her , she started to play with it and I have since heard she now takes this to school with her. We put all the presents back into the carrier bag and tell her we are going for a pizza, her favourite meal, although she doesn’t have it very often. Her eyes light up again

We grab a little bus (taxi) and for the first time in over a week ‘I’ and myself sit apart I go in the front to allow ‘I’ and her daughter to sit in the back together. The shopping ce