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Posted by: andrei

Jus got back from Turkey & Moscow, and all I can say is OH MY GOD. Spent vacation in 2 different places, had close relationships with 2 different women, and also tanned myself like Ray Charles!!! )))))))))) Right now Im gonna spend some time with my peers, and in several hours I think I'll sit down and tell you everything that I think you'd find interesting. Also I'm gonna upload the photos as soon as I get them emailed from Moscow City.

peace

Posted by: OlenkaKyiv

wow.... Turkey.... it is great there

i would like to have more sun here in Kiev also...

so welcome back Andruha

Olenka

Posted by: andrei

Just found some time to sit and write this down. (whew, what a hot day’s today here!!)

Well, let me start from the top. For the last 2 weeks I’d been having a wonderful time, most of it was spent with the opposite sex, and as soon as this whole forum is devoted to the Russian women, I think you’ll find my story interesting.

I came to Moscow by train (it’s 3 times cheaper than a plane flight), it took me 1 ½ days but it was a nice journey. Met some interesting people, drank some beer with’em, and also found out that all the way from Omsk to Moscow only 2 cities – Yekaterinburg and Perm – look on the same level as my hometown. All other cities and towns can be described as Soviet era resorts. From what I‘ve seen out the window, there’s not much changed there since the 80’s. Pathetic is the word to describe it.

As soon as I reached the capital I phoned my ex-classmate, she’s a nice girl and we had also had a love story 4 years ago when she lived in Omsk. Prior to that we had planned to go to the seaside for a week or so. But when we talked live I found out she had a boyfriend in Moscow!!! A “boy”-friend age 31! I said look girl, I’m not trying to ruin your relationship with him, but I also wish to bring you to the sea. Do what you want but we gotta do it.

It took her 7 days to figure out how to cheat on her boyfriend. At last she told him she was going to go to Turkey with a female friend of hers whom he knows too, and she also told that friend to not answer his phone calls for a week.

All those 7 days we spent having fun and enjoying ourselves. She was on the vacation, and her boy was at work all day, so during the days we just took it to the maximum. We visited the aquapark in Southwest Moscow, I also visited the Paleonthological Museum and the Zoo (wasn’t impressed by anything there except the monkeys).
We also went to the Extreme Sports shop where I climbed artificial rocks and then went to the IMAX Cinema just to see what an IMAX screen is like. Also we took numerous walks in the center of the city (the weather was hot all week) and I took time to pay a visit to my friends’ house with whom we learned for our dentist degree together (see the story of it later below).

So after all we bought the tickets and were gone.

I wont tell you much about Turkey as long as it’s the wrong forum for stories like this, but I gotta tell you that the climate is DEADLY hot there for me. Where I live, +30 is the maximum. On the Mediterranean, +35 is the minimum. It killed me for the first day.

Mostly we just bathed in the sea, tanned ourselves, played ping pong, worked out a lil bit, and also participated in some activities that her boyfriend would kill us for if he only had a scarce idea of what we were doing. ))))))))) But we also devoted one day to rafting. We took a ride to a mountain river and went down it on a kayak (inflatable boat for two). That was an unbelievable experience, people! And we only went upside down once, devoured some ice-cold water and my girl also lost her sneakers in the middle of the stream.

The next day after we returned from Turkey I took a train home. The girl came to the station and we had a little chat about how we had spent our time. I said I still couldn’t believe I participated in such a grand cheating act, and she smiled and called it “normal situation”. What an evil young woman.

Now back to the day when I went to my friends’ house. They are a young family the same age as me, he’s a cardiologist, she’s a dentist, they have a small baby girl and the dentist also has a sister who lives in Kiev and only visits them for a couple of days a year. That sister is a wonderful woman 36 years old, she manages to stay fit and looks much younger than she is, plus she has a sharp sense of humour. I met her first 4 years ago when that couple had their wedding, where I was the “witness”. Back then she was married with a son, and now she has only son left and no man. Well, this time when I came and brought some beer with me she met me with open arms and hugged me and I figured out it’s gonna be a wonderful evening. We four just sit in the kitchen and chatted about this and that and reminisced and laughed and laughed, and then the young couple had to go to sleep because of the baby, and me and the elder sister just wanted to have more fun. So we went out for a walk and found a cafe and spent most of the night there, conversating with each other and other clients too, and as the break of dawn was near we’d had like 6-7 dances together and got along with like 7 new people. During the night she told me once or twice that she felt herself much more comfortable and happy with me than with some of her male peers, and I took it as a compliment. So when we reached home the night was almost over and I thought that was the end of the party, BUT....... I wont tell you anything more literally, you just gotta guess yourselves. I can only tell you that if an older woman wants something from you, she just gets it! And as long as you’re all grown men older than me, you already know it, so what can I tell you. I just had a heavenly morning that day, and I swear I won’t forget it.)))))))))

That’s all. I think now you have even more info on what a Russian woman is like and what a sweet devil she can be at times. Peace to all of you and..... questions accepted.

p.s. I think I’ll put some photos soon, just gotta receive them from Moscow.

Posted by: Khashyar

Welcome back, Andrei

It's good to have you back, and to hear your unique viewpoints

(I am going to read your post here and write a response to it....)

Khashyar

Posted by: Khashyar

Hi Andrei....

I just wrote you a good-sized response to your message/ trip report, but the window I was writing it in was accidentily closed by me pressing 2 wrong keys on my laptop.... This is very irritating, but I want to try to write some of my thoughts again....

I had written that it was interesting to read about your ex-girlfiend's comment that sleeping with someone other than her boyfriend was a "normal situation."

Do you think that she means that it is normal for two people two have sex with one another, even though they are involved with other people? Do you think that Russian women in general feel this way too, and that many Russian women are not monogamous?? It would be interesting to receive your opinion regarding this....

Sure... it is o.k. to talk about your trip to Turkey, since it is very interesting to receive insight into the relationships of Russian men and Russian women... I personally feel that I can receive insight into Russian culture and the Russian psyche this way

So continue to share your thoughts, opinions and experiences, Andrei

....Just finished reading your story about your trip, Andrei....

Yes, I do feel that I learned something more about Russians and Russian relationships....

Thank you for helping us to peek into the lives of Russian men and women and what their relationships are like.... I think that your viewpoint is important in that you can share with us what Russians experience without the factor of Western Men and immigrating to a new country being involved....

Thanks Andrei,

Khashyar

Posted by: andrei

The "normality" of that situation depends on where the woman lives. People in Moscow and St Petersburgh give less attention to loyalty in relationships. That girl told me her boyfriend offered her sex with someone else (you know, a threesome, him and her and another girl) but she told him "hell no". I guess if her birthplace wasnt Omsk but Moscow she would even take some time to think it over

But generally, in Russia it is bad manners when you cheat with someone else, especially if you're not a youngster like us. So I think a Russian women that knows computers and therefore has good manners wont cheat unless she's younger than, say, 25. Woman that know IN ADVANCE that they WILL cheat on their future spouse are of some lower class, I dont think a foreigner will happen to choose any of them for his wife.

Or maybe this all happened to me because I know what women want ...