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Posted by: Kindman

What is the secret about the Russian females?

I've just joined this forum and decided to do so after interesting reading in many other threads here. The interesting case is - What do women want? I totaly agree with somebody in another thread here; it's impossable to know. Reading the womans mind is an issue that men schould not get into

The question might be turned into something else. What is characteristic for the Russian woman nature? Is there any specific characteristica? I also heard that Russian women (at least some of them) prioritize good situated men with money and all the material goods that they need. Is this true or is it a myth?

Anyone ....

Tore

Posted by: Mr.H

Heya and welcome to the forum(s)

I do not know what you have read but this part:

"I also heard that Russian women (at least some of them) prioritize good situated men with money and all the material goods that they need."

Seems very strange....I am also new at this but in my months of study I think the term you were looking for was:

"Stable"

This does not necessarily mean you need to be rich and own lots of stuff....but it means that you will be there for her when she needs you....you know...that "Love" thing....and the ability to make her feel worthy and respected....not to mention very likely also being a great Dad if the opportunity presents itself.

I believe if you can afford to go through the adventure (I was going to say 'trouble' but that is not the correct word)...the adventure of courting, meeting, and marrying a Russian Woman I'm am pretty sure that you can afford to keep her and yourself very happy.

Now....I need to find a lady that thinks Canada is a cool place to be

....it is......really.....hehe

Mr.H

Posted by: ConnerVT

Quote:

Originally posted by Mr.H
Now....I need to find a lady that thinks Canada is a cool place to be

Isn't that a COLD place to be?

But then, my wife accused me of bringing her to Siberia (instead of warm, sunny Vermont)!

Posted by: Mr.H

LOL!!!

hehe....well...it has it's moments

Posted by: wavetossed

Well, I'm on a dating site with a very active set of forums where many women talk about what they are looking for and their experiences with dating western men. Of course, it is all in Russian but after one year of intensive study and practice (including 3 trips to Russia) I can now read Russian without too much difficulty. Probably around the 9th grade level.

Number 1, Russian women want love. They are lonely and want a man who loves them and who they love.

Number 2, good sex. They want to have sex and they want their partner to be loyal to them. They do not want men with sexual problems and many of them test drive their boyfriends early on to be sure that they haven't got a sex maniac or someone who can't do it well enough with them. They could find sex at home, and they generally do when they want it, but they prefer to find sex with LOVE and that is what is missing in their hometown.

Number 3, stability. This has a wide range of outward appearances but it all comes from a man who has a stable personality. He isn't a psycho. He has a stable job, a regular income. He doesn't drink to excess. He doesn't hang out with the guys all the time. He is a husband/father first and foremost.

Number 4, adventure. Many of the Russian women who seek foreign husbands are travellers. They have been abroad several times and they like seeing how other people and cultures live. They are not afraid of foreigners and foreign lands.

But there is a whole category of women that don't necessarily fit the above profile. They are the girlfriends. You see, when a woman decides to marry a foreign man, she becomes converted. In most cases she has to stay at home for a year while government paperwork is processed and during that time she sings the praises of foreign men to all her girlfriends. Some of them timidly allow themselves to be cajoled into signing up to a dating site. Sometimes there is a "translator" who participates in the arm-twisting because she sees a potential new customer out of the deal if this girl catches a man.

I have run into two of these so far. One, last year, was my girlfriedn for a while but we broke up after new years. And by coincidence, I just discovered that the girl I am writing to in Crimea was also cajoled into signing up by her girlfriend who is awaiting a K-1. I guess you could say that this kind of woman signs up for external reasons rather than making the move because of her own internal needs. So she may not fit the same pattern as the women who are internally driven to seek a foreign man.

Posted by: DavidC

Wavetossed,

So when are you going to share the wealth by offering the URL of this "active forum"?

By the way, I sent you a PM. But you never replied to me. I guess you are a busy man.

Posted by: povlhp

DavidC, he says the forum is in russian. so that might cool your interests a bit. I have also been browsing russian sites and found interesting info.

My own RW has a friend who is happily married in Australia.

I think I am offering her a better material life, and since her GF in Australia is happy, she also thinks she will get a happy life, probably also a more wealthy life. And then there is the experience/adventure.

She has really comitted, and I have her booked 4 nights a weeks (driving lessons, learning to speak danish) where she is busy. She was taking english lessons from I suggested so (before our first meeting), and until she found a polyglot who can teach her some danish. She seems to be very active in pursuing thingsz that she might beenfit of when coming here. I am really surprised by the time and energy she spends before coming here.