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AW in Movies ... your thoughts?

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Posted by: dakotaridge

Hopefully this won't be considered off topic...

I'll be the first to state that the way AW are portrayed in movies has absolutely no relation to real life, but still, I wonder what kind of influence that portrayal has on women of other cultures when they see these movies.

Hollywood has been using the same stock formula woman as the heroine in 110% of its movies for the past 30 years. The actress portraying her changes from movie to movie but the character never does.

The character is invariably the perfect man in the perfect woman's body. Superior to every other woman in every pursuit. Superior to every other man in every pursuit. With no training whatsoever, she is immediately void of all fear when a barrage of bullets are flying at her. Without any basis whatsoever, she immediately assumes military command of the nation's complement of men, who immediately submit to her command simply because she begins barking orders - orders that display her unparalleled brilliance, such as "everybody get DOWN!" when shooting is going on all around her. Surely, nobody else would have figured that out, but it doesn't matter, we have HER! She displays no skills through the entire movie other than being sickeningly full of herself, standing there as a sitting duck target and firing 14,000 rounds from a 20-round magazine at waist level without having to aim - and thereby singlehandedly eliminating more than 15,000 enemy troops who have undergone years of training and direct combat experience. She invariably has a 3-hour salon makeover at all times, even when she's been 3 weeks without a shower. She is invariably the most brilliant scientist ever born, the most physically perfect female body ever created, normally with the required poodle hair, and she is rarely more than 22 years old.

How do women in other countries react to this? Or for that matter, MEN in other countries? Or for that matter, don't the local American men start to get somewhat tired of 30 years without escape from the same boring character in every movie ever made - and she's not going away any time soon....

We're talking 30 years without being able to escape this character. That's a LONG time....



Posted by: Pin Boy

i love the movies (and tv shows as well) when the woman wakes up with a perfectly made up face...and of course the guys never need a shave either

pin boy



Posted by: inlove

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Originally posted by dakotaridge
Hollywood has been using the same stock formula woman as the heroine in 110% of its movies for the past 30 years. The actress portraying her changes from movie to movie but the character never does.


Hollywood movie studios are commercial organizations and they produce what sells. That said, they have been much more versatile lately. Although I still prefer independent productions.

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The character is invariably the perfect man in the perfect woman's body. Superior to every other woman in every pursuit. Superior to every other man in every pursuit. With no training whatsoever, she is immediately void of all fear when a barrage of bullets are flying at her. Without any basis whatsoever, she immediately assumes military command of the nation's complement of men, who immediately submit to her command simply because she begins barking orders - orders that display her unparalleled brilliance, such as "everybody get DOWN!" when shooting is going on all around her. Surely, nobody else would have figured that out, but it doesn't matter, we have HER! She displays no skills through the entire movie other than being sickeningly full of herself, standing there as a sitting duck target and firing 14,000 rounds from a 20-round magazine at waist level without having to aim - and thereby singlehandedly eliminating more than 15,000 enemy troops who have undergone years of training and direct combat experience. She invariably has a 3-hour salon makeover at all times, even when she's been 3 weeks without a shower. She is invariably the most brilliant scientist ever born, the most physically perfect female body ever created, normally with the required poodle hair, and she is rarely more than 22 years old.


This depends solely on the genre you are watching. Again, if you stick only to blockbasters, this is what you are going to get because this is what the majority of public wants. Although once in a while there comes a blockbaster that is actually worth watching.

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How do women in other countries react to this? Or for that matter, MEN in other countries? Or for that matter, don't the local American men start to get somewhat tired of 30 years without escape from the same boring character in every movie ever made - and she's not going away any time soon....


I don't remember any particular strong reaction on my part when I started watching american movies in substantial quantities. Sometimes, when it is a good entertainment, you feel like you were well entertained.

Fiction film is an art form that was originally created to entertain the public, which has nothing to do with the real life. The fact that after a while it started producing pictures that depict the real life to some extend, is an evolution of the art form, but it is definitely not a requirement. Fiction is fiction, it does not have to be realistic.



Posted by: dakotaridge

I don't agree at all, that just because Hollywood cannot get out of a 30-year rut of recycling the same tired character, this means that "this is what the public wants." When a movie does exceptionally well, THAT is what the public wants. E.T. Star Wars. The Godfather. Close Encounters. Even Spider Man did relatively well (at least the first movie). And none of these had the generic Hollywood heroine in them. Maybe they all did so well just because that character was missing!

Just because only one flavor of ice cream is offered, it doesn't mean the public likes it. It simply means their choices are "this or nothing."

Now I have to go to Wal-Mart and buy some ice cream. Let's see ... vanilla, vanilla, or vanilla ... how do I choose?



Posted by: inlove

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Originally posted by dakotaridge
I don't agree at all, that just because Hollywood cannot get out of a 30-year rut of recycling the same tired character, this means that "this is what the public wants." When a movie does exceptionally well, THAT is what the public wants. E.T. Star Wars. The Godfather. Close Encounters. Even Spider Man did relatively well (at least the first movie). And none of these had the generic Hollywood heroine in them. Maybe they all did so well just because that character was missing!

Just because only one flavor of ice cream is offered, it doesn't mean the public likes it. It simply means their choices are "this or nothing."

Now I have to go to Wal-Mart and buy some ice cream. Let's see ... vanilla, vanilla, or vanilla ... how do I choose?


If none of the movies you've mentioned had this "perpetual" character in them, how can you insist that this is the only female character that Hollywood "keeps recycling"? Do you read your own posts? Are you arguing with yourself?



Posted by: Jill

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The character is invariably the perfect man in the perfect woman's body. Superior to every other woman in every pursuit. Superior to every other man in every pursuit. With no training whatsoever, she is immediately void of all fear when a barrage of bullets are flying at her. Without any basis whatsoever, she immediately assumes military command of the nation's complement of men, who immediately submit to her command simply because she begins barking orders - orders that display her unparalleled brilliance, such as "everybody get DOWN!" when shooting is going on all around her. Surely, nobody else would have figured that out, but it doesn't matter, we have HER! She displays no skills through the entire movie other than being sickeningly full of herself, standing there as a sitting duck target and firing 14,000 rounds from a 20-round magazine at waist level without having to aim - and thereby singlehandedly eliminating more than 15,000 enemy troops who have undergone years of training and direct combat experience. She invariably has a 3-hour salon makeover at all times, even when she's been 3 weeks without a shower. She is invariably the most brilliant scientist ever born, the most physically perfect female body ever created, normally with the required poodle hair, and she is rarely more than 22 years old.


Hmmm.....You are I must be watching different movies. I actually can't think of a SINGLE movie that I've seen like the one you describe. Could you give some titles perhaps?



Posted by: dakotaridge

Jill, to be honest, I'm really growing bored with this. It seems you stalk everything I post in here - and you are the only one, now that Khash has brought another member under control - and you automatically contradict everything I post about. It's becoming senseless. Everything I think, feel, and experience is wrong, flawed and deluded. Well ... that's your opinion and your allowed to have it. Once again, the entire forum doesn't feel that way. With every other member here, sometimes they agree with me, sometimes not, and the vast majority don't even express any opinion at all. THAT is much more believable. You come across looking like a desperate woman who is somehow in my shadow, who cannot rest until the forum at large has reduced me to uniform sized cinder blocks. It isn't going to happen. You're the only one doing this.

Turn on any action movie, any disaster movie, any police movie, etc. etc. etc. etc. etc. Nobody could be so out of touch as to claim this character doesn't exist. When claims like THAT are being made, it stops being a sensible exchange of viewpoints; it doesn't even bear discussion.



Posted by: Jill

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It seems you stalk everything I post in here -


I am not stalking you--I am replying to your post. You have brought up a subject on a public forum presumably to discuss it. However, if someone disagrees with you, this is stalking?

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You come across looking like a desperate woman who is somehow in my shadow, who cannot rest until the forum at large has reduced me to uniform sized cinder blocks. It isn't going to happen. You're the only one doing this.


Doing what? Expressing opinions? Maybe so. But I will continue to do so, as I don't see the use in a discussion forum if one does not feel free to discuss different perspectives and points of view.

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Turn on any action movie, any disaster movie, any police movie, etc. etc. etc. etc. etc. Nobody could be so out of touch as to claim this character doesn't exist.


I don't claim that it doesn't exist--I simply have not seen any movies as the one you describe. I was asking for a few titles of reference (perhaps I would then know what you are talking about). Perhaps it is because I don't have have American TV channels--so I am able to be selective in what I view. However, asking for clarification on a subject which you yourself have raised is hardly stalking (in my opinion).



Posted by: inlove

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Originally posted by Jill
I don't claim that it doesn't exist--I simply have not seen any movies as the one you describe. I was asking for a few titles of reference (perhaps I would then know what you are talking about). Perhaps it is because I don't have have American TV channels--so I am able to be selective in what I view. However, asking for clarification on a subject which you yourself have raised is hardly stalking (in my opinion).


Jill, if you have never seen them, you probably have heard of them. The movies Dakota describing are about strong people in emergency situations. Or action/science fiction/video game types. Something like Terminator or Lara Kroft.



Posted by: Jill

I've heard of Terminator of course, but actually, no, I've never seen it. What is Lara Croft? That's a new one for me. I actually don't like sci-fi stuff (I've never even seen Star Wars )--guess that would explain why I don't know what he's talking about.

But it seems that sci-fi/action is only one piece of American cinema.....If we were to really discuss the topic, I wonder what other (if any) conlcusions we could draw about characterizations of women in American movies. It's actually an interesting topic--to what degree art/pop culture refect or influence society and values. But Terminator probably isn't where I would start....



Posted by: RobOhioGuy

It has a direct impact on the culture and it also effects and influences how women think of themselves, men and relationships. For years the entertainment industry has tried to argue that violence in movies has no effect or correlation to violence in society.

Ever study I am aware of vehemently contradicts this ridiculous proposition by hollywierd. So much so, that Hollywood no longer even attempts to refute that violence in movies influences society as a whole.



Posted by: inlove

I think nowdays the array of women's characters in movies is so wide, you cannot possibly claim that there is a particular single image exploited by Hollywood over and over again. You can see every type being represented, and genre limitations play the most significant role in what you are going to see..

Jill,
Lara Kroft is a video game character made into a movie character. Angelina Jolie played her in a couple movies.

Rob,
Holywood movies are watched all over the world, so supposingly the effect should be similar everywhere.. I don't see it happenning.. Do you?



Posted by: FlashingEyes

dakota aka spicoli there are a lot of people here that disagree with most of what you blabber. Jill has been extremely reasonable and sensible to you, and you respond with paranoia about how if she disagrees with you, something must be wrong...like she's stalking you...yea, that's the ticket...and that Russian woman that disagreed with you...what was it?...oh yea, she must not have been a REAL Russian woman...yea, that's the ticket. I think it was hilarious when Khashyar deleted a bunch of your long, rambling, nonsensical posts and I hope he does so again! I would post more often but I have a lot of work and don't consider you worth the effort, except for my amusement as your responses are very predictable and it's mildly entertaining to be able to elicit any response I want so easily, but rest assured I fully disagree with most of what you've posted here and don't see that changing.



Posted by: Khashyar

FlashingEyes....

Then tone of what you have written is unnecessary.

Although you can disgree with someone, you don't have to insult them....

I have spoken with you about this a few times.....

Khashyar



Posted by: Khashyar

Dakota,

I am sure that Jill is not stalking you....

She is just serving in her position as a senior member and moderator by responding to different member's posts....

Jill deserves the respect of all of us, not only because I have enough trust, believe and respect in her to make her a moderator, but also because she really is a nice person who has contributed much to the forum.

Although you might feel that she is picking on you or parroting you, I know that she is just sincerely responding to the topics that you present.

Consider that you might be misjudging her intentions....

Thanks,

Khashyar



Posted by: FlashingEyes

Khash,

I don't believe in someone having the ability to define what is or is not a "necessary" "tone". What is necessary for you may not be necessary for me. Any comments I have made that might be interpreted as "insult"ing are only directed at the arguments and writing style that dakota uses to present his ideas. Since you didn't specify anything specific in my comments, I assume you just wrote this post to make dakota feel like you weren't picking on him when you later pointed out the specific violations of RMP etiquitte that he has made. Calling Jill a stalker IS a personal insult far beyond any "tone" of anything I may have said.



Posted by: dakotaridge

But Khash,

You only see part of the picture! Jill has been painting swastikas on my car and following me everywhere I go. Every time I look out my window, there she is ... holding a high-end sniper rifle ... I get these strange calls on my phone with nothing but a woman's heavy breathing (of course that could be any AW!!!! HAH!!!)

[For those who just don't understand, this entire posting is a JOKE...]



Posted by: Khashyar

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Originally posted by FlashingEyes
Khash,

I don't believe in someone having the ability to define what is or is not a "necessary" "tone". What is necessary for you may not be necessary for me. Any comments I have made that might be interpreted as "insult"ing are only directed at the arguments and writing style that dakota uses to present his ideas. Since you didn't specify anything specific in my comments, I assume you just wrote this post to make dakota feel like you weren't picking on him when you later pointed out the specific violations of RMP etiquitte that he has made. Calling Jill a stalker IS a personal insult far beyond any "tone" of anything I may have said.


FlashingEyes,

Yes, I have mentioned to Dakota that I have full respect and confidence for Jill, that I would like for others to show her that same respect.

But, there is a difference in needing to address an issue with someone one time, and four times.

I feel that I have been very fair and patient in reminding everyone to please respect the forum guidelines, and not level personal attacks, even though we, of course, are absolutely free to disagree.

Calling Dakota "Spicoli" is not addressing what he has written... This is a sarcastic personal insult, which serves no helpful or useful purpose.

As far as setting the tone for the forum..... Everyone who wants to participate in this forum needs to follow the forum guidelines.....

As the Administrator of this forum, I try my very best to fairly monitor the behaviour on the forum and make a decision as to what behaviour follows and what does not follow the guidelines.

It honestly seems to me that either you do not understand that some of what you are writing are personal attacks, or you understand and level personal attacks and insults anyway.

This is not the kind of forum that I wanted to create, and we just cannot allow personal attacks on the forum.

Again, anyone who wants to participate in the forums is chosing to follow the forum guidelines.

If a person does not believe in the guidelines, or does not want to follow them, then I believe that it is better if they understand that the forum guidelines are not for them, and that this forum is not a good fit for them.

Khashyar



Posted by: FlashingEyes

Khashyar,

No my reference to the movie character Jeff Spicoli only reflects on the advice and arguments that dakota has presented - I am referencing previous posts where I have stated this concept in greater detail, that in his advice and arguments he takes a Jeff Spicoli approach to life.

"Spicoli" is not an insult - it is a literary reference. You will not find "Spicoli" on any list of "bad words" or even in the dictionary. Even the character Spicoli was generally likeable and funny, so the character itself is not evil or anything. However, Spicoli lacked a grasp of how the real world worked in his opinions and viewpoints, and it is in this respect that Dakota is similar to the character - in the advice he gives and in his arguments.

Therefore you are completely wrong, and rather than making your hasty conclusion, had you bothered to inquire to me about this literary reference, I would have been happy to enlighten you before you wasted not only my time and yours but everyone's here. I have never seen you apologize ONE TIME in the past when you have made these sort of mistakes, so I hardly expect one now, but it is embarrassing I think how you ultimately do not follow the guidelines yourself, in that you try to enforce things that are not really violations of the guidelines, like my saying that the arguments and advice that Dakota is giving is reminiscent of the movie character Jeff Spicoli, but at the same time I see lots of posts here every day from people like Dakota with direct personal insults and you do very little. I have had people post comments like "you are an ass" to me - which is a clear violation of forum guidelines - and NEVER have I seen you post a response on this board in that instance. I have seen people post really awful things about Russian women as a group and Russian people as a group and women as a group and NEVER have I seen you post a response on this board in those instances, although I can hardly think that one could say absolutely dispicable things about all Russian people and that any Russian here would not interpret that as a personal insult. Basically I find how you choose to interpret and enforce your own guidelines to be extremely arbitrary, and not strictly to the letter of guidelines. I think if that's what you want to do, to basically appoint yourself as the opinion of determining what everyone else thinks is acceptable thoughts, then you should just come right out and say it - that you don't need no stinkin' guidelines because you are here to censor anything you don't like, and allow other things in violation of the guidelines.

Ultimately, when I see you actually begin to enforce the guidelines by the letter of the guidelines and hold everyone to the same standard, then I will be more impressed with what you post to me. I actually try very hard to follow the guidelines, to follow them exactly and to the letter. However, I don't give much heed to these sort of posts from you which are basically your opinion. As I've noted, nothing I have said was with any intent to violate the strict guidelines, so all I have is your opinion that somehow the "tone" of what I said was wrong - and since ultimately I can only choose to live by my opinion or your opinion, I choose to live by my opinion, and not yours, and only can hope that one day your opinions will conform more closely to your own guidelines.



Posted by: RobOhioGuy

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Originally posted by FlashingEyes
Khashyar,

No my reference to the movie character Jeff Spicoli only reflects on the advice and arguments that dakota has presented - I am referencing previous posts where I have stated this concept in greater detail, that in his advice and arguments he takes a Jeff Spicoli approach to life.

"Spicoli" is not an insult - it is a literary reference. You will not find "Spicoli" on any list of "bad words" or even in the dictionary. Even the character Spicoli was generally likeable and funny, so the character itself is not evil or anything. However, Spicoli lacked a grasp of how the real world worked in his opinions and viewpoints, and it is in this respect that Dakota is similar to the character - in the advice he gives and in his arguments.

Therefore you are completely wrong, and rather than making your hasty conclusion, had you bothered to inquire to me about this literary reference, I would have been happy to enlighten you before you wasted not only my time and yours but everyone's here. I have never seen you apologize ONE TIME in the past when you have made these sort of mistakes, so I hardly expect one now, but it is embarrassing I think how you ultimately do not follow the guidelines yourself, in that you try to enforce things that are not really violations of the guidelines, like my saying that the arguments and advice that Dakota is giving is reminiscent of the movie character Jeff Spicoli, but at the same time I see lots of posts here every day from people like Dakota with direct personal insults and you do very little. I have had people post comments like "you are an ass" to me - which is a clear violation of forum guidelines - and NEVER have I seen you post a response on this board in that instance. I have seen people post really awful things about Russian women as a group and Russian people as a group and women as a group and NEVER have I seen you post a response on this board in those instances, although I can hardly think that one could say absolutely dispicable things about all Russian people and that any Russian here would not interpret that as a personal insult. Basically I find how you choose to interpret and enforce your own guidelines to be extremely arbitrary, and not strictly to the letter of guidelines. I think if that's what you want to do, to basically appoint yourself as the opinion of determining what everyone else thinks is acceptable thoughts, then you should just come right out and say it - that you don't need no stinkin' guidelines because you are here to censor anything you don't like, and allow other things in violation of the guidelines.

Ultimately, when I see you actually begin to enforce the guidelines by the letter of the guidelines and hold everyone to the same standard, then I will be more impressed with what you post to me. I actually try very hard to follow the guidelines, to follow them exactly and to the letter. However, I don't give much heed to these sort of posts from you which are basically your opinion. As I've noted, nothing I have said was with any intent to violate the strict guidelines, so all I have is your opinion that somehow the "tone" of what I said was wrong - and since ultimately I can only choose to live by my opinion or your opinion, I choose to live by my opinion, and not yours, and only can hope that one day your opinions will conform more closely to your own guidelines.



Not real smart to argue with the site owner... lol



Posted by: Khashyar

Hi FlashingEyes....

I will speak with anyone who I notice not being respectful to others, leveling personal attacks, or who is not following the forum guidelines.

I actually saw "Fast Times at Ridgemont High" in the movie theater when it first came out (I was in High School), so I do know who Spicoli is...

At this point, I would like to take our conversation off the public forum and discuss it between the two of us through PMs.....

Khashyar



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