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What Should I Do With This Scammer?
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Posted by: James Riske

I've had a scammer write me a few emails and send pictures. The emails are the typical scam ones wherein she professes her love for me after the third one, tells me how much she thinks about me, and how much she would like to be with me romantically. She tells me about her difficult life and how much she wants to come here and be with me. She never answers direct questions or makes references to me at all. The emails are being sent out to everybody.

I knew it was a scam from the beginning by the impersonal letters and way she 'fell in love' and kept writing, waiting until 'she' asked for money and now that she has, what should I do? Is there a place to report her or him? Should I play a joke on them and make them go all over the place trying to pick up the money?

She's even sent me a photoshopped picture to make it look as if she hand wrote the sign for me. I posted it below.

And here's 'her' email and last letter asking for money. Pitiful, isn't it?

allushkab@pochta.ws

AUGUST 30, 2004

‘SHE’ FINALLY GETS AROUND TO ASKING FOR MONEY:

I went just to travel agency and have learned full details. The agency
refers to as OOO " Volga Region travel ". General director Aseeva V.V.
Their license #B338371. I spoke you already, that through this agency
there has left my girlfriend. This agency is respected the big respect
in our city.
Now about that have told me in agency. The visa in USA is done in
Current of 10 days. There is a tourist visa (B-2) 255 Eur. Foreign
The passport costs 175 Eur and too is made during 10 days. On
The account of tickets. To me have picked up the most optimum variant.
To me have offered Company American Airlines. To me have told, that
such variant will be most Convenient on a parity of safety and the
price.
Tickets there and back cost 1020 Eur + gathering of the airport at a
rate of 14,75 Eur. I receive the visa and the passport in To Moscow.
I take off too from Moscow.
I take off from airport Domodedova, change in Zurich (Zurich Airport)
And then I fly up to Los Angeles (Los Angeles Intl). General time in a
way of 19 hours of 45 minutes.
To me as have told, that you may transfer me money through
"Western Union". To me have told, that it is the fastest and best
way. To me have told, that it will be necessary for you for this
purpose my
passport The data. They:
Name: Alla
Surname: Butenina
The country: Russia
City: Yoshkar-Ola
Street: Street drugbi
The house number: 87A
Apartment: 11
Lovely, I very much want to you. I so miss on you. Dear, and on what
You plan term, that I have arrived. The matter is that September, 2 I
I leave in holiday. I shall be in holiday till October, 1. Today
August, 30.
If tomorrow I shall go to agency and I shall order everything all will
be ready 9 September, that is 10 I shall be already in Moscow and I
shall depart to you. I can not To wait ours with you of a meeting. I
very much want
to you.
I wait for your fast reply.
Love and kiss, Alla.

Posted by: James Riske

Sample of impersonal love letter scam from 'her':

AUGUST 17, 2004

Greetings my dear!
Today I again thought all day of you. I should think of you. You
always with me. I so would like to be with you. I would like to nestle
on you all body. I want to feel, that you with me beside. That you
will not leave anywhere. But I do not know, when this moment will
come. I think, I am simply sure, that this moment will come.
I do not know, but may you disturb my letters. May you excites that I
so quickly write you such gentle words. You know, it is very pleasant
for me to communicate with you. You the interesting person. I want to
continue with you relations. I do not want to hide the feelings. Yes,
I have to you feelings. But I can not be sure on all hundred percents.
But I can tell you precisely, that I never before did not meet such
pleasant interlocutor. No, you do not think, that you simply the
interlocutor. You that person with which I want to create serious
relations. I do not want to lose you. I do not think, that at me am
too fast to you there are feelings. Even if they also occur quickly
what for me them to hide. I do not want to hold all this in myself if
I really want to be with you. Understand, that for some people enough
one sight what to fall in love, and for some - long time. Some only
after it is long dialogue understand, that they have found that person
with whom want to be. But it is necessary to me so much a lot of time,
what it to understand. I already have understood it, and I do not want
you to lose. You understand me? I am afraid of that you may not
understand me simply. I am afraid, that you may my feelings to you not
so to understand. I would want that you have correctly understood me.
I do not know, how I can explain you it. I want to tell you, that at
me to you really present feelings. It is not simple words, it goes
from the heart.
I want to tell you, that I do not like to tell lies. I like all to
speak to face, directly. Because it is not pleasant to me, when people
of me deceive. It seems to me, that it is pleasant to nobody. You see
all relations are under construction only on trust. This most
important concerning people. I to behave by a principle: both you
treat to people, and they concern to you. Therefore I speak the truth,
I would want that also to me spoke the truth. I and now speak you the
truth. I do not lie. Because I know, how hurt when you deceive. How
hurt then to learn, that you not loved by that person who before
repeated to you constantly, that he loves you. I know, it is very
hurt. I do not want to cause you a pain. I would not want that you
then accused me in something.
I have one more quality of character. I never change to the feelings.
I was not mistaken in people. I always can define, that for the person
before me if I shall communicate to him a small amount of time. It is
not difficult for me. Because when I studied as the doctor, at us one
time was such subject as psychology. Me there to much have learned. I
liked this subject. he to me actually now helps to understand people
better. Therefore I am sure that you that person to whom I want to
write such words. You that person who has mentioned my heart. I would
want that you there remained for ever. I would not want that you have
left me and my heart. I can tell you, that I want to be with you. I am
afraid to speak you that can not present that may take place with me
if you will leave me one. I ask you, that you would speak me always
the truth. You are necessary for me, understand.
As I still can prove to you that I am not mistaken in the feelings. I
can not describe it to you in the letter. It seems to me, that the
feelings in a word to not express. Feelings can be felt only. It can
be noticed under the relation of the person to you. As a matter of
fact, to write it is possible anything you like. But if you actually
believe the person to you becomes without a difference, that you do
not see him. The most important, that you love him, and that he loves
you. Dear, I really want to be with you. But I can not transfer you
the condition oppress. I suffer that you are very far from me. I would
want that you have understood me. I would not want that you doubted of
me. It is very important for me, that you think of me. It is important
for me to know your opinion. I do not think, that I hurry events. I do
not want to be silent, when my heart speaks that is hard for him
without you that is hurt him. That it searches heat, searches your
heat. You are necessary for me only. Excuse, that I have written to
you such letter. Probably you it was boring to read it. Excuse, but
these are my feelings to you. I can not forbid to like to the heart.
Whis love, Alla.

Posted by: James Riske

Another sample scam love letter from her.

Guys, when you get emails like this, it's a scam.

AUGUST 29, 2004

Greetings again my love.
I have very much become missed of you. You very much did not suffice
me. Your letters sufficed me.
My love, I love you and only you. I want to speak you, that only you
my unique love. I love only you. Only with you I want to be. More
nobody is necessary for me. Only you my dream, my dreams, my love and
tenderness. My dear, today I again when rose thought of you and only
about you. I thought and dreamed of you. My love, I almost about what
can not think, except for you more. I think only volume as we with you
shall be together, I think of arrival you. I want to be with you. You
are necessary for me. My love I wants to be with you and to love you.
My love I wants to speak you, that when I to rise early in the morning
to me in a window the beam of light has penetrated and have
recollected as I to you in the letter spoke about a beam of light. As
I shall come to you in this beam of light. My love, I think, that this
beam of light today has woken me and I had following ideas about this
beam of light. My love I wants to tell you that this beam to personify
me and as I too to think that a beam of my soul wakened all around. My
love I wants to be with you and to feel this beam of light near to you
and to enjoy with you minutes together. My love, I all thought of you
and the dreams yesterday. Because as soon as I to recollect this
dream, I at once to speak you about this dream. My love I to see the
big and light sky and that particles of this beam were in my opinion
reflected in distances. My love I to think as it is dream was in me
and it was pleasant for me to speak you, about this dream.
My love I all to think about this dream and I want to tell to you,
about all this. When I go in Internet - cafe I might not to recollect
this dream. But suddenly, when I to penetrate and open a mail in my
ideas was carried by, this dream. My love I at once to recollect this
all and now, I to tell to you. My love I to try to transfer all ideas,
about this dream. I to see the sky and I again as though to fly
somewhere to a distance. I to fly and fly by all this way. And I to
think what to be in any mysterious country. I again to fly and think
of you. I to dream the grandfather. This grandfather was with a stick.
I to think that it to be a staff. My love he to me that did not speak,
he has simply smiled to me. My love then I as though again to rise in
the sky and to fly again somewhere. My love I to not think that so
with the big speed I to overcome the big distance. Also has then
watered a rain. I again to stop and observe this rain. My love I to
think that I like to observe a rain, therefore I to stop. My love I
long to stand under a rain and this rain did not get on me. And I
again to stand under a rain and I liked it. My love I then to see a
rainbow and I to observe it as though in a reality. My love I to see
it and to me was so pleasantly to observe this small dream. Because it
seemed to me that this dream has flown by quickly. My love I suddenly
this instant to wake up, when I to go to be going to eat, I to forget
this dream. But when I to come in Internet - cafe I again to recollect
all this. My love I love you and only you my love.
My loved, I want to speak you about our love and about that I now
feel. I feel to you the big happiness, I feel to you the big love,
tenderness, belief, hope. I want to kiss you. My lovely, I want to
transfer you everything, that I now feel. I love you and all gentle
heart and all soul. Only you read my letters and speak with me. And I
am very happy, that I shall be only with you. More nobody is necessary
for me. I love you, I want to love only you. I want to be with you
always. You my most loved person. I do not want you to lose. Because
you are necessary for me, because I love you. I can not transfer you
all feelings. My love I wants to ask you you able to play cards? I
somehow to recollect, how we with the
The girlfriend, in the childhood to play earlier, in the native court
yard, in cards. My love I to recollect it. I to think that it to be a
children's entertainment did not know earlier because earlier when we
to be small we than to engage. But now when we big with you my love.
We have domestic affairs. And I need to prepare to eat that is. But
earlier when I to be small, we only and did, as played with the
girlfriend.
It was pleasant for us with her together. My love I to recollect that
when my girlfriend to leave to itself in a village, and I to remain
one in city. And me to be very lonely without her. And I all to wait
when she will arrive to city and as we again shall begin to walk
together and to play.
My love she only could arrive in three months and I long waited for
her and have almost become exhausted. My love now you understand as me
now hardly without you. Also it was hard for me when my girlfriend was
not with me. And now it is hard for me without you.
I again want to speak you, that I love you. I shall think again of
you. I again want, that dream with you would dream me. Then I shall
tell to you, that to me dream. I want to know all that you think, it
is important for me, that you think of me. I want to be with you. But
I should finish the letter. I very much would like to write to you
more, but I do not have on it time. I should go. I shall wait again
from you for the letter. I want, that you again would write me the
letter. It is pleasant for me to receive from you letters. I send you
many the most gentle kisses. They only for you and it is more for
anybody. I love you, I shall think again of you. I shall be with you.
I today shall go in travel agency and all I shall find out about that
more in detail, As I can arrive to you. I think, that can take holiday
in
September. How you look at it?!
Kiss and love,
Alla.

Posted by: moosehead

Notice in the photo the pictures and whatnot's missing from the shelf on top of the couch. Notice the marks in the dust. Interesting.

Posted by: Jerico

Moosehead,

looking at that womans picture I can tell that shes the type who probably was getting ready to wipe the dust of the shelves which explains all the stuff removed

Jerry

Posted by: moosehead

Posted by: Jimtazem

OMG,

Such a small world. I got the same darn thing from her. I looked for the picture that she sent but it was back in the spring i think and its been deleted LONG ago. As soon as i saw that picture i knew i saw her before. I didnt get the same letters exactly but darn close to the same things were trying to be expressed.

What i did is i asked her for money... she never responded back. I said something like i needed money for gas to go to the bank to get money to send her.... that seemed to work just fine. I think i only asked for like 10 dollars...to much i guess.

And she was added to "the list"... hey and speaking of a list... that would be a nice thing to have. But they keep popping up with different pictures and letters. oh well.

good luck with all that,

Jimtazem

Posted by: James Riske

I'm trying to come up with a way to scam them or waste their time. Like sending them to some other town to pick up the money (which of course, won't be there).

James

Posted by: Jimtazem

Good luck,

I cant come up with anything good that would work for sure. Im not sure if there is a way to get proper revenge. I think thats what yer looking for.

I did get one ladies bank account number and info and found out she had withdrawn all the money out of it except like 30 cents. She said she had to take some out for food and stuff but i checked the instant she gave me access and it had like 342.?? $ . I wasnt going to take her money but she pulled out almost all of it and closed the account something like 3 days later. That was proof that she didnt trust me... so i couldn't trust her. Seemed logical to me.

I have never scammed anyone and find it all to disturbing that so many have tried it on me. I think im on girl # 14 now and she's shooting up red flags all over the place...

The quest continues...

jimtazem

Posted by: ConnerVT

You are missing the most important point. Planning and attempting a revenge is spending more of your most valuable assets -- your time and happiness -- and wasting it on anger and vengefulness. Every second you spend on this is lost.

There is little you will do to make much of a difference in her (or possibly his -- Fat Yuri) life. Accept it for what it is, a person trying to steal from you (after all, there all around us, even in America), and move on.

Posted by: rattlesnake6979

JR - its probably a fat russian sat in front of a computer writing these letters . Be cool - walk away and look for someone who is
going to make you happy both in bed and outside of bed - this person is not worth the effort . The whole letter is aimed at getting money from you - why ? because maybe part of you belives it . Do you know how a fraud operates ? Well you need only three ingredients- you need someone who is basically greedy whether it be for money / sex/ power - then you need to create a scenario / story that seems ludicrous but just might be true and finally you need to have someone who really , really wants to believe that the story is true. These letters are stories - well written but still stories . And many men fall for these because , they may be true .
I do not have the time to waste reading these types of letters.
If " it " asks for money again. Just lie and send an e mail to the person- tell them that you have sent the money to them via Western Union - when they e mail you back to complain that they have not recieved the money - just e mail then back telling them to check the western union office again. Make them feel stupid for change .But do not send a dime . And if they still e mail you- just tell the person that he / she should will be reported to his / her emabssy / government and that you will notify the relevant tax and inland revenue authorites in the country - tell them that you are intelligent and only an idiot would send money - make it clear to the person that they have wasted thier time .

Easier still just walk away from this entire scam - leave them to thier own devices . Lifes too short to waste time.

Posted by: James Riske

Come on guys, where's your sense of adventure?

I just sent 'her' (fat Yuri) and email telling them that I just found out that my grandfater is dying and that his entire estate is going to be left to me: 15 million dollars. He whispered it in my ear at the hospital. And I am his only surviving relative, he's my only family. I knew my grandfather had money but not 15 million!

And my grandfather is happy that I met my true love, Allushka, before she knew I am a multi millionaire so he's giving our love the blessing.

The doctors don't give him much chance to live beyond 6 more months but my grandfather is going to visit the hospital in St. Petersburg Russia because there's a brilliant doctor there who will operate on him to try to save him. There's a one in a hundred chance it will work and my grandfather is going to try it. But even if it does work, it will just give him another year or two anyway as he's 94 years old.

I am to accompany my grandfather and get to St. Petersburg a week early to prepare for his arrival.

I made the letter sound convincing with details and gushing love and joy at not only going to be a millionaire, but finding my true love: Allushka (fat Yuri).

hehe

Posted by: searcher

Quote:

Originally posted by James Riske
Come on guys, where's your sense of adventure?

I just sent 'her' (fat Yuri) and email telling them that I just found out that my grandfater is dying and that his entire estate is going to be left to me: 15 million dollars. He whispered it in my ear at the hospital. And I am his only surviving relative, he's my only family. I knew my grandfather had money but not 15 million!

And my grandfather is happy that I met my true love, Allushka, before she knew I am a multi millionaire so he's giving our love the blessing.

The doctors don't give him much chance to live beyond 6 more months but my grandfather is going to visit the hospital in St. Petersburg Russia because there's a brilliant doctor there who will operate on him to try to save him. There's a one in a hundred chance it will work and my grandfather is going to try it. But even if it does work, it will just give him another year or two anyway as he's 94 years old.

I am to accompany my grandfather and get to St. Petersburg a week early to prepare for his arrival.

I made the letter sound convincing with details and gushing love and joy at not only going to be a millionaire, but finding my true love: Allushka (fat Yuri).

hehe

Comical!

Posted by: rattlesnake6979

Priceless !!! Oustanding work sergeant !!!

Posted by: Juggler

You know she is a scammer so why ask advice???
I would have fun with her too..............make her work for her nil gotten gains

Posted by: Clarita

You are sick, guys... If you are in intentions to use someone (as most on russian-brides-hunters plan to fo) be ready that someone will want to use you.

And if they still e mail you- just tell the person that he / she should will be reported to his / her emabssy / government and that you will notify the relevant tax and inland revenue authorites in the country - tell them that you are intelligent and only an idiot would send money - make it clear to the person that they have wasted thier time .

Biggest mistake you can do. Many scam-paranoic try to do so and we give special advices to girls on our women's forum what to do in such cases with men.

Posted by: Jimtazem

I know what you are saying Clarita,

I have had a limited experience with Russian women. I have had numerous attempts to scam money out of me and i have not been scammed to date.

American girls have done far more damage. They lie to your face. Steal money. Use you to get what they want. And when they have all you can give them... they move on. They use their looks and their cunning to get as far ahead as they can. And its no suprise that, generally, a vast mojaority of american women who have money got it from a man (or men). (hmmm... maybe thats a world wide issue)

I have had some very good experiences and many bad ones. But i have not put myself in a position where revenge would ever counteract the fact i didnt see it coming or I let my guard down.

Revenge or retaliation on any level is just not worth it to me. I have thought about it...sure. but in the end I have much better things to do.

Jimtazem

Posted by: Jill

Quote:

American girls have done far more damage. They lie to your face. Steal money. Use you to get what they want. And when they have all you can give them... they move on. They use their looks and their cunning to get as far ahead as they can. And its no suprise that, generally, a vast mojaority of american women who have money got it from a man (or men). (hmmm... maybe thats a world wide issue)

Excuse me? I have never lied or stolen from anyone. And every penny I have I've earned through hard work (including working my way through both college and grad school). And please don't respond by saying that I must be "an exception"--of the other AW women I know, this is not unsual.

You have obviously had a very bad experience (or experiences) and I am sorry for that. Nevertheless, it is quite unfair to make this generalization about AW.

Posted by: Clarita

Jimtazem
American girls have done far more damage. They lie to your face. Steal money. Use you to get what they want. And when they have all you can give them... they move on. They use their looks and their cunning to get as far ahead as they can. And its no suprise that, generally, a vast mojaority of american women who have money got it from a man (or men). (hmmm... maybe thats a world wide issue)

Do you really think that russian women will do it other way??? I assure you that with russian woman you will need to pay much more. May be at first time she will be more cheap because she doesn't know her rights yet and not feel very secure but later...
And why we hear all the time that western women even don't let their men to pay for her cake and coffee in restaurant? With russian woman you will pay for everything - her papers, her tickets, her new clothes (because her old clothes are not right "american" style) etc, etc, etc....

Posted by: ConnerVT

Women are women -- Western or Eastern.

Who pays is about power. American women insist that they pay, as they wish to show they are powerful and in control. Russian women insist the man pays, thus proving that they are powerful and in control.

Perhaps it's best if men trust none of them?

(BTW, Clarita, just wonder who pi$$ed in your flowerbed. We haven't heard from you since I asked you to explain yourself after insulting many RW and their husbands, and now you come back with this trash.)

Posted by: Jerico

I look forward to taking care of my Russian girl when she arrives to me.
I will buy her whatever she wants as long as I can afford it.
This is what men are supposed to do for their woman , right ?
Of course I must pay airfare , travel cost , etc.
I look forward to buying my girl things , clothes and stuff.
Showing her my great country will be exciting.
Teaching her how to drive a car. Taking her shopping in the malls. I cant wait

Jerry

Posted by: Jill

Actually I think Clarita makes a good point (I may not have expressed it so strongly, however

) In general, you probably will have to pay for more things if you are with a Russian woman, not only because etiquette dictates that the man should pay for things, but also because many Russian women (especially in small towns and villages) do not have the financial independence that many American women have. Due to the economic situation, the average American woman has a higher earning potential than the average Russian woman (at least one who lives in Russia), so it only makes sense that an AM dating a RW should expect to pay for more things than he would if he would dating a AW.

Posted by: Clarita

Quote:

Originally posted by ConnerVT
Women are women -- Western or Eastern.

Who pays is about power. American women insist that they pay, as they wish to show they are powerful and in control. Russian women insist the man pays, thus proving that they are powerful and in control.

Perhaps it's best if men trust none of them?

(BTW, Clarita, just wonder who pi$$ed in your flowerbed. We haven't heard from you since I asked you to explain yourself after insulting many RW and their husbands, and now you come back with this trash.)

You better close your mouth now.

Posted by: Clarita

If you guys could read forums of russian women, you would be very surprised to read what write your loving russian wives about you there...

Posted by: myshka

I agree with you. These men would certainly be less vocal if they would read what their "perfect" RW really think of them . I will never understand why someone who thinks that all AW are scum, thinks women from another country will be any better. People are people no matter where they come from . I guess not speaking a common language makes this farce a lot easier to beleive. If you cant communicate fully with the one you "love" then of course things are perfect!!

Posted by: ConnerVT

Quote:

Originally posted by Clarita
You better close your mouth now.

You have many words, but when asked to back up you comments and accusations, you don't back them up with ant fact or constuctive statements. Just more outlandish comments and more accusations.

Put up, or shut up. Tell us why you are so bitter, then we might understand where all your anger comes from.

Posted by: James Riske

Quote:

Originally posted by myshka
I agree with you. These men would certainly be less vocal if they would read what their "perfect" RW really think of them . I will never understand why someone who thinks that all AW are scum, thinks women from another country will be any better. People are people no matter where they come from . I guess not speaking a common language makes this farce a lot easier to beleive. If you cant communicate fully with the one you "love" then of course things are perfect!!

I agree with you there, I've run across three or four Russian women in a row who are absolutely brainless, uncaring, liars who use men are regard them as nothings and I'm beginning to think this whole thing is pointless. Many men are opting for staying single and are much happier; while they are young, they are free to date and travel and do what they want and have much much more money than their married friends who do nothing but hand over all their money to their wives and ***** about how miserable their lives are and how many bills they have. Then they will all be divorced and have to retire alone and penniless while she gets the house and paycheck each month.

Meanwhile, the single guy gets better sex, more women, more money and more freedom and will at least end up with his own house and relatively little stress.

Stay single and let someone else shoulder the burden of feeding, housing, and managing that 200 blob of a woman for the rest of her life.

Posted by: Jill

Clarita and Myshka have brought up an interesting point. You know, I often wonder how different some (I repeat SOME) RW-AM relationships would be if the AM actually spoke Russian and could understand everything that was being said about him.

Posted by: James Riske

Given the character of 99% of the women out there, I bet the men would drop them all like a sack of hot potatoes and the women couldn't use them anymore for a free ride.

They would have to support themselves and find a new way to climb the social ladder. My goodness, Heaven forbid they get a job!

You mean manipulating men and watching Oprah isn't a way of life?

Posted by: Jill

James, James, James. Where does all this bitterness come from? I'm sure you are rational and intelligent enough to realize that the things that you are writing are complete nonsense. You are clearly very angry at someone, but that does not justify unfairly condemning an entire gender.

Posted by: ConnerVT

Funny you should ask that, Jill. It's the same question that I asked of Clarita a few days ago. Of course, she hasn't answered me, just as she did not answer to her insulting comments on how women who look outside their country for a husband are losers.

I thought you would have been interested in the response on that one ...

Posted by: doneright

Quote:

Originally posted by James Riske
I agree with you there, I've run across three or four Russian women in a row who are absolutely brainless, uncaring, liars who use men are regard them as nothings and I'm beginning to think this whole thing is pointless. Many men are opting for staying single and are much happier; while they are young, they are free to date and travel and do what they want and have much much more money than their married friends who do nothing but hand over all their money to their wives and ***** about how miserable their lives are and how many bills they have. Then they will all be divorced and have to retire alone and penniless while she gets the house and paycheck each month.

Meanwhile, the single guy gets better sex, more women, more money and more freedom and will at least end up with his own house and relatively little stress.

Stay single and let someone else shoulder the burden of feeding, housing, and managing that 200 blob of a woman for the rest of her life.

single men live shorter life's and you can't make a baby with yourself.

Posted by: rattlesnake6979

Clarita , are you saying - a) that ALL women from the fsu who marry or are engaged to be married to western european / american men are just marrying for the money / chance to leave russia ?
b) that ALL fsu women are dishonest ie two faced - saying I love you to thier bf but telling thier familly and freinds he is a loser or a joke ?
c) that ALL fsu women who marry foreign men marry losers ?
Could you clarify what you meant because as a russian woman you know how your fellow countrymen think .

Rattle

Posted by: James Riske

The scammer just sent me this email. Apparently, they ignored my email that my grandfather is leaving me with millions.

Greetings my lovely. I am glad to receive from you the letter. I am
sorry, that did not write. The matter is that I might not let you know
the problems at all. In connection with that my mum has got in
hospital of that she was brought down with the automobile, I together
with her had to go in hospital in other city, to Moscow to perform her
operation. I did not have money to lead this operation, but I have
found an output. I have gone to bank and have persuaded, that to me
granted the loan. To me did not want her to give, as at me a low level
of earnings, and the sum was required rather big. But I have explained
all situation and me have understood. To mum have performed operation
and now her have transported back in hospital of our city. Its state
of health becomes better every day. For this reason I also might not
write to you. But now all is improved in my life. You - near to me, my
mum too recover. All is adjusted. So my dear, I have not lost
interest. You should understand me. I simply really might not write to
you. I was in almost unfamiliar city and had no an opportunity and to
time to write to you. Dear but as it was pleasant for me to find out
your letter in a letter box. Then it became good me. I hoped, that you
will wait from me for the letter and will not want to break off our
relations. I so am happy, that you with me. But I do not want more
about sad. All is adjusted. I do not want to recollect and discuss
that was with my mum more. It so is terrible for me. I so was afraid
and experienced for health of my mum. But I am glad, that all behind.
On it I should finish, as I now should go on work. I wait from you for
the letter.
Alla.

Posted by: James Riske

Now, they finally read the email about my grandfather leaving me millions:

Greetings my lovely!
I very strongly missed on you all the day. I waited for that moment
when can read your letter. I now am very glad, that you have written
me the letter. But you have written to me very little. But it is not
important for me. Because I love you. I know, that you have not
overlooked about me. I love you and only you. I want to be with you
and only with you. Simply you for me are very dear. I do not want to
lose you. I was glad, that you continue to write to me. Simply I love
you how anybody never liked. I want again and to think and think of
you again.
Lovely mine, I very much regret about yours to the grandfather. It is
very a pity to me. I know how to lose the close person. I know, how it
is hard to live and know, that soon your native person will die. It is
hard for realizing, that persons become fast may not. It is very hard.
But life is those. Also it is necessary to go directly on a meeting to
all troubles. It is necessary to live this life adequately. It is not
necessary to be afraid of problems. I think, that all will be good. It
is not necessary to think of it frequently. It is necessary to accept
all how it is. Certainly with something also it is necessary to
struggle. But constantly it is not necessary to think that it is
impossible to change. But I sincerely want to tell you, that I
understand you. I wish you only the best not only because I love you,
but also still because I realize you. Simply you for me are very dear.
But does not cost more about it. We shall not be ãîâîðèòüî sad.
Lovely, you write me, that want to meet me in city St. Petersburg. I
very much would like. I want to meet you. And it is possible to make
so, that I would arrive to you. And then together with your
grandfather we would go in St. Petersburg. whether probably so? I
would be very glad, if so have taken place. Think above it. I would
like to arrive to you.
We might and meet you earlier. Simply I very strongly want it. Lovely,
and you seriously treat to me? You really want with me serious
relations. Simply I shall go on you from mind. I very strongly want to
be with you. Because I love you very strongly.
Sweet, I again want to tell you, that I love you. I think, that ours
with you relations proceed to develop as well as earlier. I hope, that
you as love me, as well as I of you. Lovely, I with the big impatience
shall wait from you for the new letter. I hope, that ûò to me will
answer soon. I love you, I want, that we with you would be a number. I
want to be only with you. On it I finish the letter. I wait from you
for the answer. Please, write to me, that you think that I have
written to you about our meeting.

Posted by: James Riske

It's hard to tell if they're pushing to have me send visa money still or if they're considering sending a bimbo to St. Petersburg to meet me for the 'inheretence', so I wrote this:

Hello my love,

I thank you so much for your letter and I told my grandfather about you. He is very sick but I think he understands.. He likes you because we met and fell in love BEFORE you knew that he was giving me all this money and that I'm to be rich. I know in my heart that you are not after our fortune but that you love me for my heart.

We can not meet sooner than my visit to St. Petersburg because I can not leave my grandfather's side. He forbids it.

We will meet in St. Petersburg my love and share a very passionate few days together and passionate love making and bonding together. With love as strong as ours, I'm sure we will be making love all day long in every possible position and way. I'm a very sexual man and like that very much. After that, I will return to America and arrange to marry you. I am very certain of you and our destiny together. By then, my grandfather will have died and all the money will be mine and once we're married, it will be yours too.

I can tell you all this openly and honestly because I know that you would never just pretend to love me, marry me, and then take your half of the fortune, 7 million dollars out of the bank and then leave me. I know because we professed our love before you knew I am to be rich and that our love is genuine. Isn't it exciting to you, honey? You will be a married millionaire in about 6 months from now. You would look so lovely in your mink coats and Rolls Royce that I will buy for you. My love...my wife.

I would like to ask one thing of you. Please do not tell anyone of my visit or the money that wil be left to me. If it's published in the Russian newspapers, too many women will be trying to meet me and marry me, they will find me and follow me and bother me too much. Please keep discreet about it and quiet, my grandfather and me don't want to be noticed. I will even stay in a smaller apartment to help hide.

your love.