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What's Up With the Ring?

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Posted by: Raspberry

Happened to see the most recent profiles on Hearts Desire, and noticed that this lady is wearing a ring. And not just any ring, one with a stone.

Kind of prompts some questions.......are these pictures old? Is this a ring used to "ward off the wolves" in public? .....Bottom line is, why is a lady looking for a husband use a photo where she has a ring with a rock in it?

http://www.heart-desires.com/album.php?mode=item&id=627



Posted by: matt235

I'm no expert at all of the matters, however, I think that ring is on the middle finger vice the ring finger. It is on the right hand (unless the photo is reversed) which would mean it is the correct hand for the area, but I still think it is the wrong finger.

later,



Posted by: GentleGiant

Hi Guys, I downloaded and magnified the picture; it is not a rock, it is a pearl.
Never heard of a pearl engagement or weeding ring, so......



Posted by: Raspberry

Thanks, GG, for clarifying this.....



Posted by: Buckeye5704

And isn't it on the wrong finger? Right hand though.



Posted by: blucatz

Quote:
Originally Posted by Buckeye5704
And isn't it on the wrong finger? Right hand though.

Speaking of fingers Tim, if you and your lady get married here, what hand will you wear your ring on?



Posted by: AkMike

Tanya was in a dither because I told her it was going on her left hand.. She asked at Zags if it mattered to them.. Nope No big deal..



Posted by: clark

It's not on a wedding finger on either hand. Like GG I don't see it as a stone either. It's also not so unusual for an FSU woman to wear rings on every finger if she has enough rings and a jewelry fetish. Rasp, you seem to be a bit paranoid. With that said she appears to be a very interesting and attractive lady. Somebody should "bust'a move"



Posted by: EasyTarget

Ras: It is a pearl ring, if you notice she is also wearing pearl earrings. She just wanted to match things up.

However it would be a good thing if she was in bar and some jerky guy started hitting on her, she could move the ring from her middle finger, turn the pearl towards her palm and make it look like a wedding ring.



Posted by: GentleGiant

Thumbsplus7 has some great tools for resizing photos (physically and dimensionally), and a "Loupe" option to super-magnify small areas.

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Posted by: Raspberry

Quote:
Originally Posted by clark
It's not on a wedding finger on either hand. Like GG I don't see it as a stone either. It's also not so unusual for an FSU woman to wear rings on every finger if she has enough rings and a jewelry fetish. Rasp, you seem to be a bit paranoid. With that said she appears to be a very interesting and attractive lady. Somebody should "bust'a move"


Definitely going to contact this one. Nobody is a sure #1 right now, so why not? We'll see how it goes. And yes, I do get a bit paranoid at times......especially with weird things always happening....



Posted by: Buckeye5704

Quote:
Originally Posted by blucatz
Speaking of fingers Tim, if you and your lady get married here, what hand will you wear your ring on?

The subject of which hand hasn't really come up yet. She used to wear her wedding ring on the left hand though.

My thoughts are, when in Russia do as the Russians. We have talked about living there for six months each year and then back here the other half year. Maybe we'll switch hands on the plane each way? Kto znayet?



Posted by: GentleGiant

My first port of call with a new contact is twofold, try entering memorable parts of her emails into Google and check out the origin of her emails, reverse DNS check her IP.



Posted by: matt235

Quote:
Originally Posted by GentleGiant
My first port of call with a new contact is twofold, try entering memorable parts of her emails into Google and check out the origin of her emails, reverse DNS check her IP.


GG,

Hey did I miss something? What are you referring to here?



Posted by: Chillidog

Quote:
Originally Posted by Buckeye5704
The subject of which hand hasn't really come up yet. She used to wear her wedding ring on the left hand though.

My thoughts are, when in Russia do as the Russians. We have talked about living there for six months each year and then back here the other half year. Maybe we'll switch hands on the plane each way? Kto znayet?


Tim,

Like you said which finger she wears the ring on does not matter,

BUUUUTTTT we all KNOW where you are wearing the ring already !!!!

It is in the nose and you are being lead around by it!



Posted by: Chillidog

Quote:
Originally Posted by Raspberry
Definitely going to contact this one. Nobody is a sure #1 right now, so why not? We'll see how it goes. And yes, I do get a bit paranoid at times......especially with weird things always happening....

Raspberry,

may I ask what is going on with the Sumy lady you are already in contact with thru this agency?

Do you think writing more than one thru this small agency is playing with fire?

if I'm prying just let me know.

P.S. the lady I was in correspondence with thru this agency I stopped writing due to my injury and lack of any idea when I will travel. Did not feel it was fair to her, and no desire on my part to having a long drawn out writing escapade.



Posted by: clark

Quote:
Originally Posted by Raspberry
Definitely going to contact this one. Nobody is a sure #1 right now, so why not? We'll see how it goes. And yes, I do get a bit paranoid at times......especially with weird things always happening....



Go for it! Weird things can be some spice of life in the proper perspective. The fact that you noticed the ring might be an omen you could possibly look back on one day. She is HOT!



Posted by: inlove

Quote:
Originally Posted by Raspberry
Happened to see the most recent profiles on Hearts Desire, and noticed that this lady is wearing a ring. And not just any ring, one with a stone.

Kind of prompts some questions.......are these pictures old? Is this a ring used to "ward off the wolves" in public? .....Bottom line is, why is a lady looking for a husband use a photo where she has a ring with a rock in it?

http://www.heart-desires.com/album.php?mode=item&id=627


For those who might wonder about the same subject in the future. There is no engagement ring tradition in Russia. Sure, it might happen once in a while that a guy gives a girl a ring when proposing a marriage, but there is no tradition like in the US. Generally, if there is no wedding band, there is nothing that can tell you just by looking at a woman's hand if she is free or not.
Russian women like wearing rings. Those rings might even have rocks in them (real or not, nobody can tell just by looking at a picture). It does not mean that a woman is taken. It might just be a family heirloom that she is proudly wearing.
If you want to find out if a ring means something, compliment her on a ring, and ask if she got it herself or is it somebody's present. Most likely it has nothing to do with a boyfriend, although who knows.



Posted by: GentleGiant

When questioning a ring I assume you are questioning whether the person is genuine; so I just mentioned the first things I do when starting correspondence with a new woman; after all, you can ask about the ring, but will the answer be true? Until you know the person better you take all the precautions you can.



Posted by: Seaview

Quote:
Originally Posted by inlove
For those who might wonder about the same subject in the future. There is no engagement ring tradition in Russia. Sure, it might happen once in a while that a guy gives a girl a ring when proposing a marriage, but there is no tradition like in the US. Generally, if there is no wedding band, there is nothing that can tell you just by looking at a woman's hand if she is free or not.
Russian women like wearing rings. Those rings might even have rocks in them (real or not, nobody can tell just by looking at a picture). It does not mean that a woman is taken. It might just be a family heirloom that she is proudly wearing.
If you want to find out if a ring means something, compliment her on a ring, and ask if she got it herself or is it somebody's present. Most likely it has nothing to do with a boyfriend, although who knows.



Thank you.

Guys, please, read what Inlove has written. She is right but your "ring discussion" is total BS, sorry....



Posted by: Buckeye5704

Inlove and Seaview, thank you.

Maybe we need to brush up on the customs occaisionally. After reading inlove's explanation I remembered reading about that in Lena's or EM's articles on the traditons of engagements and weddings. "Engagements are extremely short IIRC.

Found it! EM's Cyberguide...

First of all, let's start with engagement. Frankly speaking, there is no such a thing. A man asks a woman if she marry him, that's it. No rings are given; no one is informed about the event excepting closest friends and family. If the man is gallant, he will give his lady flowers, but this is not mandatory.



Posted by: GentleGiant

But a Western man might give her a ring............

Moot point, but just my 4 cents worth (used to be 2 cents, but you know, inflation!!!)



Posted by: Raspberry

Quote:
Originally Posted by Chillidog
Raspberry, may I ask what is going on with the Sumy lady you are already in contact with thru this agency?

Do you think writing more than one thru this small agency is playing with fire?
if I'm prying just let me know.


I still haven't written this lady yet. I decided to back off and wait.

In the meantime, I have written the girl I had already been in contact with,
twice in the last month......and still no reply. My guess is, with the girl's profile farmed out to AFA and Anastasia, she probably has her hands full now.
I would imagine that I have a lot of competition.

So, if nothing happens in the next few days, I may write this one.



Posted by: dagpop

The one in the profile is very attractive. She probably has guy already hitting on her.



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