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FSU Ladies' True Intentions

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Posted by: Moe123

When a lady or her agent says she is seriously interested in finding love and marriage, and to have a family, is this the truth? I believe if this is her true intention it will not extend beyond 12 months. It must have some kind of realistic plan and a dead set goal behind it. And there has to be a time limit to it. If there is no time limit it cannot be the whole truth. And it cannot be serious. If in her mind she thinks "Oh yes maybe 2 or 3 or more years down the track", she is dishonest. Her intention needs to apply to the present time. Anyone can say I have the desire for the above, but think "Oh, one day". It is not realistic, and as it is not realistic it cannot practically be applied. Therefore it is a lie. Wasting of time, and money, and mucking around is not going to make it true.

Michael



Posted by: blucatz

I can't speak for anyone else here, but, everything in my Lady's profile and what she has told me about her intentions has be dead on accurate. Maybe I just got lucky on the first try, I don't know, but I am enjoying every minute and our next meeting cannot come soon enuf to move this adventure forward.



Posted by: Texas Proud

Moe....

You are only telling half the story.... did this happen to YOU??? Did a lady that you are interested say "let's wait"? Maybe she is not interested in you and is just being kind... but you did not get the hint...

Also, you don't want to set a deadline and then 'settle' because your deadline is coming up... I have an inlaw that did that.... she said 'I will be married by the end of the year'.... surprise, she was.... but to some guy her preacher introduced her to in DECEMBER!!! More surprising to me is they are still married...

I can tell you I was 'dead set'.... it took me 4 years.... and 3 with my lady... sooo, I disagree with your assumption anyhow...



Posted by: shaun1000

Quote:
Originally Posted by Moe123
When a lady or her agent says she is seriously interested in finding love and marriage, and to have a family, is this the truth? I believe if this is her true intention it will not extend beyond 12 months. It must have some kind of realistic plan and a dead set goal behind it. And there has to be a time limit to it. If there is no time limit it cannot be the whole truth. And it cannot be serious. If in her mind she thinks "Oh yes maybe 2 or 3 or more years down the track", she is dishonest. Her intention needs to apply to the present time. Anyone can say I have the desire for the above, but think "Oh, one day". It is not realistic, and as it is not realistic it cannot practically be applied. Therefore it is a lie. Wasting of time, and money, and mucking around is not going to make it true.

Michael


Moe from my experience I would say at least 60% of the ladies are honest. If you have any doubts about a lady or an agency walk away.

Whats the average wage $200, they`re a lot of scammers who like presents and holidays to places they can`t afford.

"Just my opinion from experience"





Posted by: redhawk

Quote:
Originally Posted by shaun1000
Moe from my experience I would say at least 60% of the ladies are honest. If you have any doubts about a lady or an agency walk away.

Whats the average wage $200, they`re a lot of scammers who like presents and holidays to places they can`t afford.

"Just my opinion from experience"


SPOT ON!



Posted by: Moe123

Shaun

From my experience I think it's closer to 90%. 10% completely dishonest. 30% honest and 60% partly honest and would turn to scamming at any moment, or at their earliest convenience or inconvenience. Depending on which is most pivotal for them.

Michael



Posted by: Moe123

Texas

What do you mean by 'settle'? You mean focus on the timing without the lady?

Michael



Posted by: shaun1000

Quote:
Originally Posted by Moe123
Shaun

From my experience I think it's closer to 90%. 10% completely dishonest. 30% honest and 60% partly honest and would turn to scamming at any moment, or at their earliest convenience or inconvenience. Depending on which is most pivotal for them.

Michael



Moe

Can`t disagree with you, everyone has their own experiences and situations.



Posted by: Moe123

Texas P.

Your relationship has been going for 3 years you say. And you're not married yet. What have you been getting up to?



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