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Originally Posted by matt235
I have a pretty detailed plan
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Originally Posted by matt235
Hey everyone,
It looks like I am finally making the leap of faith in my search. I am making plans to go to Ukraine in November (yeah about 5 months from now). I have a pretty detailed plan on how I am going to go about this, however, I need some input from you all. I am not exactly sure which city I should visit. I have narrowed down my search to the following cities: Kiev, Odessa-Kherson, Kharkov, Sumy and Donetsk-Mariupol. I have decided on these cities due to my research of the various agency presence(s) in the cities. Currently Kiev and Odessa seem to be the obvious choice, but sometimes you just want to have someone else tell you the same thing. I realize that many of you have been to these places and I am sure that there are some great (and not so great) memories from each one. I would be happy to hear any and all advice on any of the cities that I mentioned above. I have not begun corresponding with any ladies as of yet, because I do not really want to end up spreading my trip throughout Ukraine to see one in Kiev, then another in Odessa, and another in Sumy, then another...well you get the picture. Once I decide the city, I will begin corresponding. If I have to shift my travel dates, then I will. I also know there are a number of threads regarding marriage agencies which I am trying to read and digest right now. Because of these threads and the review area, I will not ask any of you for any of that information, at least not yet. I realize that this may be an unorthodoxed method of approaching this process, but this is the way I am wired...in other words this will probably work the best for me. Thanks in advance for any input. matt235 |
but you are still looking in a very wide area,
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Originally Posted by Stirlitz
As you are traveling from Odessa to Herson why not stop by in Nikolayev… and then go on to the Crimea. The most beautiful girls in Ukraine live there: Simferopol and Sevastopol.
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Originally Posted by Chrismc
I am glad you narrowed your search area down Matt
but you are still looking in a very wide area, however, let me give you one piece of advice to start with:Do not Search for a lady based on Geographical location! I love Ukraine, I love the people, had some fantastic tims there and met my wife there, but why limit your search to Ukraine and even a much narrower base of a few cities within Ukraine, whats wrong with Russia, Moldova, Estonia, Belarus, Latvia all the Khans, need I go on! |
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Originally Posted by Freebird
Chris I would disagree. I think it is best to search your chosen agencies, then pick 3 - 8 girls from cities that are in the same region, like Zaphrozhe/Mariupol/Dnepropetrovsk, or Odessa/Kherson/Crimea. It is just too difficult to be making several 8 or 10 hour jouneys by bus or train during your stay, especially for a first timer. just IMO
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Originally Posted by Chrismc
FB I didn't mean pick a location, for a few days then move to another one and then another, I meant, don't limit your initial search to one particular city/region or country, find a few you like in a certain place then whittle it down, but Matt stated he is going to Ukraine, I was just saying, there are also other places to consider.
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Originally Posted by matt235
Chris,
My initial reason for picking Ukraine was the Visa issue for US Citizens (i.e. none required), however, I do agree with you logic about not isolating myself to a specific country. I am going to have to look at my search with a little different perspective. matt235 |
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Originally Posted by matt235
I'm trying to find a decent agency to work with
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Originally Posted by Chrismc
Do not Search for a lady based on Geographical location!
I love Ukraine, I love the people, had some fantastic tims there and met my wife there, but why limit your search to Ukraine and even a much narrower base of a few cities within Ukraine, whats wrong with Russia, Moldova, Estonia, Belarus, Latvia all the Khans, need I go on! |
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Originally Posted by I/O
Stirlitz, whom I enjoy to debate, often disagree with, think he knows half as much as he thinks but also knows a 100 times more of the local scene than I ever will and I think you would do well to at very least have a long chat with him.
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I guess I know 50 times as much as you do about chatting with someone who thinks about disagreeing with the one he debates? LOL
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Originally Posted by Stirlitz
Nice one. Took me a while to figure out, still thinking about it. Not sure anyway I understand fully who thinks what and who knows more
I guess I know 50 times as much as you do about chatting with someone who thinks about disagreeing with the one he debates? LOL |
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Originally Posted by I/O
Igor, it's good to see you maintain your sense of humour, something everyone needs in this caper.
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Originally Posted by Stirlitz
You need to have a sense of humor because you can die otherwise. People who die do so because they take life seriously.
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Originally Posted by Stirlitz
Wrong is that you need visas and expensive flights between countries, plus Ukraine is a bit safer than other countries. It is best to stay in one country; what’s more, it is not a good idea to try to cover the entire country. L |
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Originally Posted by matt235
I agree...laugh, make jokes and laugh some more. And if you can't keep your jokes clean, at least make sure they are real dirty. Remember none of us are getting out of life alive anyway!
OK, so I'm still coming to Ukraine it looks like...at least 90% sure now (as opposed to my 50% yesterday afternoon!). I'll have to figure out where I'm going, but I think I can rule out Kharkov. No one had any input on Sumy though...that's still up in the air. Kiev is the easiest, Odessa makes the most sense, Crimea has the most beautiful ladies (per Stirlitz)...this means I'll probably end up in Mariupol |
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Originally Posted by clark
What in your opinion makes Ukraine safer than any other FSU country?
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Originally Posted by matt235
Crimea has the most beautiful ladies (per Stirlitz)...this means I'll probably end up in Mariupol
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Originally Posted by Matt
The way my luck runs with women, using the shotgun methodology for all fo the FSU would have me talking to a lady in Minsk, Dnep, Moscow, Ekinteriburg, and Vladivostok. Then I would really be in a pickle. By limiting to just one country, I am able to minimize the distances between ladies if this happens.
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Originally Posted by matt235
OK, so I'm still coming to Ukraine it looks like...at least 90% sure now (as opposed to my 50% yesterday afternoon!). I'll have to figure out where I'm going, but I think I can rule out Kharkov. No one had any input on Sumy though...that's still up in the air. Kiev is the easiest, Odessa makes the most sense, Crimea has the most beautiful ladies (per Stirlitz)...this means I'll probably end up in Mariupol
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Originally Posted by Chrismc
So on that basis you may aswell just search The Crimea, its easy to get from one place to another
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Originally Posted by matt235
Clark,
So how about this, I you had to go to just one city in the FSU, where would you chose to go (for whatever reasons, but meeting a lady would be the ideal one)? |
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Originally Posted by Raspberry
It had been mentioned before that the train ride between Crimea and Odessa is longer than most people think. This is due to the curves, and the route isn't exactly a straight line.
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Originally Posted by matt235
Crimea is actually starting to look like a very good idea. Might cost a little more to get there, but then again...
More research for me tonight! |
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Originally Posted by cedarwind
I know a girl in Dzhankoi who needs a date she has a older sister also......
I am thinking about going to Zaporozhye in December and taking the train from Kiev, is the train a good idea or should I fly....I think they have a over night train and it is liken a 12 hour ride. |
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Originally Posted by Buckeye5704
It leaves Kyiv airport at 7 pm and yes, takes about 12+ hours. Get a compartment and bring yer jammies and slippers. No seriously. We've been buying clothes for me to go to Russia and among the required purchases was lounge pants with matching Tee shirts and stylish flip-flops. I insisted on a pair that did NOT have the toe splitter. I'll be lookin good going to the Lav.
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Yes the fuzzy ones!
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Originally Posted by AkMike
It should be about 10 hrs from Kiev IIRC. If you do it get a 1st class compartment.. More $$$ but nicer and private with 2 berths. The 2nd class has 4 berths.
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Originally Posted by AkMike
You'd be absolutely styling with a set of pink bunny slippers..
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Originally Posted by matt235
So if your riding solo, do you get to spend some quality sleep time with whomever they stick in the cabin with you?
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You'll pay for privacy . Approx 550 hyrivna IIRC for a 1st class ticket.|
Originally Posted by matt235
Has anyone ever flown to a differnt country (i.e. Czech Rep or Austria) and taken a train into Russia or Ukraine? Thanks,
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Originally Posted by AkMike
Yep, unless you buy both berths or have a sweet young thing keep you company.
You'll pay for privacy . Approx 550 hyrivna IIRC for a 1st class ticket.You're not in Kansas anymore Dorthy.. |
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Originally Posted by Raspberry
Also, the trains from Europe have different gauge of track than FSU. Often at border crossings, some adjustments have to be made.
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Originally Posted by matt235
as long as I have some fuzzy pink rabbit slippers, I might be ok.
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Originally Posted by AkMike
It should be about 10 hrs from Kiev IIRC. If you do it get a 1st class compartment.. More $$$ but nicer and private with 2 berths. The 2nd class has 4 berths.
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Originally Posted by cedarwind
I know a girl in Dzhankoi who needs a date she has a older sister also......
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Originally Posted by cedarwind
I am thinking about going to Zaporozhye in December and taking the train from Kiev, is the train a good idea or should I fly....I think they have a over night train and it is liken a 12 hour ride.
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Originally Posted by matt235
So if your riding solo, do you get to spend some quality sleep time with whomever they stick in the cabin with you?
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Originally Posted by matt235
I have heard that the "adjustments" can be quite an interesting bit of entertainment...supposedly the entire car gets lifted off the track with everyone still inside. Cool!
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Originally Posted by Stirlitz
Cool once maybe. But when you ride back it is boring. The car is lifted two meters above the ground with stationary hydraulic hijacks, the wide gage bogies are rolled away and narrow-gage one are rolled in. It takes a few hours. I experienced it when I took a train to Vienna.
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Originally Posted by AkMike
You'd be absolutely styling with a set of pink bunny slippers..
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Originally Posted by AkMike
It's probably not the slippers.... It's your knobby knees I'd guess.. It takes a hefty set to compliment those slippers properly.
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Originally Posted by Buckeye5704
It leaves Kyiv airport at 7 pm and yes, takes about 12+ hours. Get a compartment and bring yer jammies and slippers. No seriously. We've been buying clothes for me to go to Russia and among the required purchases was lounge pants with matching Tee shirts and stylish flip-flops. I insisted on a pair that did NOT have the toe splitter. I'll be lookin good going to the Lav.
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