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"It was absolute chemistry," said Natalya, who was living in Blagoveshchensk, Russia. Three months later, she traveled to the United States with her young son. Mathew and Natalya were married April 2, 1995. |
| Not once in almost fourteen years did this woman ever say she was sorry for creating even the smallest problem, let alone any major ones. This woman could never admit that she made a mistake, that she could have done something, or for that matter, anything better, so as to improve and enhance our relationship. She was selfish to the nth degree, not just with money, but more importantly, with her time and her ability to love, respect and cherish what she had been given. She placed no value on my life and efforts. Our family suffered immensely and became subjugated to her poor management of time. She could never manage her time to take care of her responsibilities towards her husband and children. (She had one child, I had two and we had none, thank goodness! I did love her son and that love was returned with vitriol, which he learned from her.) She came first in everything, placing her family next and her poor husband in a dismal last place! She thought the relationship was just about her and never stopped for a moment to realize that our marriage was about US. She abused me, both emotionally and financially and, in the end, was characteristically brutal and uncaring. She never once stopped to realize the emotional and financial damage she inflicted on me. She humiliated me in front of our friends and customers, made a mockery and spectacle of our marriage and divorce! |
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Originally Posted by Texas Proud
Well....
I guess things don't change..... Ham is still the bitter man with nothing good to say... this is like a flashback.... |
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Originally Posted by goforit
This looks like a non-starter to me. First, I'm always leary of stories that disparage another person's character without hearing the other side. Who knows what the guy is really like and in what way he contributed to the situation.
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Originally Posted by ham
Frankly I have no obligation to answer loaded questions, especially from people who ought to buy a mirror some day.
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Originally Posted by searcher
REFRAIN from personal attacks!
You have this posted in TWO threads! |
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Originally Posted by ham
their systematic criticism of one individual- basically because I disagreed with them one, two or three years ago, and do so to 'make me pay' or something.
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Originally Posted by inlove
Interesting story. It seems like a disgrunted husband wanted to share his pain with the world...
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Originally Posted by ham
when i sent you PMs about posts that targeted me, you weren't so expedite...
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Originally Posted by Texas Proud
Well....
I guess things don't change..... Ham is still the bitter man with nothing good to say... this is like a flashback.... |
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Originally Posted by inlove
Interesting story. It seems like a disgrunted husband wanted to share his pain with the world, which is understandable under the circumstances.
I do think that Pre-nups should be signed before 2 people tie a knot, but you have to realize that after such a lengthy marriage in the majority of cases a prenup will have a little effect on the division of marital assets. Whatever was aquired in marriage most likely will be divided 50/50. It seems that they owned and operated a business together. No wonder she wanted her share in divorce. |
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