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Enough is enough.
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Posted by: OzGuyLooking

Enough of the garbage that is currently the RMP.

I wont miss this place as it has become a place where people can call others names and not get reproached for it yet others make a comment on a comment and get so much crap fired at them it isn't funny.

I don't have to justify my actions to a group of men who quite frankly have no idea about much that isn't going on when they personally are not involved.

I will say this. There is external interference from people who have left the RMP and that interference keeps coming back to the RMP. Several people here are members of another forum and I know for a fact that these people are running with some agenda to get rid of me and deccie. I also know for a fact that these same people are the ones who keep bringing up that I am the one that made Bob and Mark leave. Well I have this to say to people like AkMike, GTR, Bob, Mark and a few others. I am not and never have been responsible for those people leaving.

I am sick and tired of people telling lies to make others look bad. Dagpop YOU DO NOT KNOW EVERYTHING, I can promise you that, you have NEVER made any motion to ask me what was going on so your ideas are VERY one sided.

Sidney, I have Russian friends, yes I have stopped searching, why cause this entire thing is so unnatural its not funny, that does not mean in anyway shape or form that I am not interested in pursuing a relation with a lady for the FSU. What it does mean is I am not searching for more possibilities than the people I am already communicating with.

I also was not the one who started this round of flaming yet I have been blamed for it again. Sidney didn't you read my posts telling people to not keep going, didn't you read me telling deccie not to start more problems with GTR, ARE YOU NOT READING THIS STUFF? it looks to me that you aren't cause YOU BLAMED ME for this crap.

I'll let you lot just go on your merry way, I don't need this crap from guys who aren't really taking notice or aren't being bothered to find out BOTH sides of the story. It has become absolutely pathetic and it is a shame that so many of you are so one eyed that you are unable to take a step back, like I was trying to without getting dragged into this venomous attack from a few people with outside support, and see that it is you lot who have helped this occur, instead of just keeping out of things.

So much for lets have peace, GTR you wouldn't know what peace is. One last word for you, You speak tough but I doubt you have the guts to follow through with your threats. If you are REALLY so incensed that I commented on the fact you posted a comment apparently from your gf saying that Romanians are Gypsies and are thieves and cant be trusted then SUE me. You have made such a song and dance about it so lets see you try to avenge the situation, I doubt you have the ability or guts to do it but would love to see you try.

Bob I have a word for you to, Mark NEVER threatened to ban me. Thats just another one of your stories. Just so the rest of you know BOB is the outside interference I was talking about and AkMike has been bringing stuff to the RMP from him and so has GTR.

Good luck to you all, I sincerely wish you all a good life and a happy future with your partners.

Posted by: GoeastLJ

All the best to you Oz.

It is always sad to see members leave with such feelings for each person has a lot to contribute, whether they have been to the Moon or not.

I have put my comments in the thread.

WHOOPS!! It is closed!

Here is my opinion

This Forum, like most Forums, should be self-policing and there should be no need for Moderators. Moderators, if needed, should only be there to tone down the language rather than to resolve disputes between members. However, I cannot see this happening here with people ganging up against one member when two members get into a dispute. If it is clear that one member is in the wrong (judged from the majority), then we should try to be impartial. I do not see balanced views here and that must hurt some members. This formation of clusters is bad for RMP and I see that some of the posts are meant to hound individuals out of RMP.

I did not vote because I wanted one choice that says, 'Other members should keep their noses out and thread closed if the two become abusive'

Posted by: AkMike

From post 3323 here at "the shed"
Quote:
Originally Posted by OzGuyLooking
I/O I don't kno0w you from a bar of soap but your summation looks to me to be close to the mark. One thing I will say is that this little episode, and I am slowly figuring out what has happened, has been about 12 months in the making. Before I quit the RMP I PMed quite a few of the of the Mods about certain behaviours from some people, why did I do that? well because I was being abused almost daily by PM and in public by a certain group of people. It is a fine thing to have experience but being willing to share it with everyone shows how helpful you are. I will also go further and say that the truth is what is important, if the truth is not told then the situation will always go downhill and last year the truth was a rare commodity.

The Aussie section of the RMP become a closed court ages ago where participation seemed to be by invitation. If you didn't agree with a certain person you copped a barrage of abuse and were told in no uncertain terms that you were a know all DH who doesn't have a clue.

The Mods knew this was coming ages ago.

From bobif
lets just find out who handles the truth carelessly shall we.
i'm now doing what i wanted done ages ago by the mods.
you try hard to discredit me & mark,accuse us of being less than honest & abuseing you.
i have nothing to hide what about you.
produce your proof,were are all these pm's you talk of,i offered mine up for scrutiny lets see yours
i count 7 pm's to you & only the last 1 did i call you DH wantabe,put it up for all to see & the others,expose yourself for what you are.
so where is your proof of the barrages of abuse,where were you ever excludeed from the aussie section,closed court,only in your mind.

And yes Bob did ask me to post this up here.

Prove up or be quiet!

Funny how I have been dragged into your scenerio especially since I've had you on ignore for quite some time now and have avoided almost all contact with you and the other one.
Now you're saying more lies about me..

You're a piece of work!

Posted by: Cheburashka

We'll leave the light on for you OGL. You left in a huff once before and yet you came back. I think you will probably come back again when you cool off.

Have a Foster's on us.

Posted by: deccie

Quote:

Originally Posted by AkMike

Funny how I have been dragged into your scenerio especially since I've had you on ignore for quite some time now and have avoided almost all contact with you and the other one.
Now you're saying more lies about me..

You're a piece of work!

I think your the piece of work Mike.

Just exactly how do you get "dragged into" something when you freely and willing post another person's pm's in open forum? That seems like your walking into the arena - not being dragged in at all.

As for "the other one" how about YOU show some guts and actually use name. Seems like your just another bully boy after all.

When someone doesn't share your political views you get angry.

When someone doesn't share your love of free access to guns you get angry.

I seem to be detecting a common theme here...

Posted by: deccie

Quote:

Originally Posted by Cheburashka

We'll leave the light on for you OGL. You left in a huff once before and yet you came back. I think you will probably come back again when you cool off.

Urmm... Isn't that what GTR just did too?

As for the photo... I used to have a landlord years ago who looked exactly like that - except for the gun!

Posted by: Jill

OZ, I understand that in starting this thread you are seeking some sense of closure. I get that. But we all see where this is going and thus I am closing it down. Hopefully you said what you needed to say, so I'm not going to let this turn into another nasty debate where everyone picks apart old posts and speculates on various members's alleged secret agendas. The title of your thread sums it up perfectly, "enough is enough."

Personally, I do hope to see you back here. I understand if you need some time to step away for a bit and re-collect your thoughts and energy. But I do hope that once you have done that, we will see you again.

Jill