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When 2 members disagree and do battle!

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Posted by: Spakoyna

I wanted to delete my other thread but couldn't. After thinking this would be a more appropriate poll!



Posted by: I/O

This place seems to have more "Poles" than an electricity company at the moment. "Poles" can be interesting...............................

I/O



Posted by: Raspberry

I appreciate your sense of humor, I/O!!



Posted by: Legal

I/O Hoo Ha Now thats what I am talking about.
Leave it those guys from down under to turn things upside down



Posted by: OzGuyLooking

There is no war, GTR wants me to be banned or leave and himself to be reinstated as a Mod or me to stay and him leave, I have said I want him to stay.

Do me a favour, please leave it alone, stop fuelling the issue and let GTR do what he needs to do.



Posted by: Spakoyna

LOL! I bet it's difficult finding a G rated version of that pole!



Posted by: Spakoyna

This was intended to be a neutal poll for future wars! Kindly attack the poll I couldn't delete!
Quote:
Originally Posted by OzGuyLooking
There is no war, GTR wants me to be banned or leave and himself to be reinstated as a Mod or me to stay and him leave, I have said I want him to stay.

Do me a favour, please leave it alone, stop fuelling the issue and let GTR do what he needs to do.




Posted by: Jill

I'll leave this poll....For now.....But please, let's not use this thread as another effort to stir the waters or as a velied attempt to attack/crititize/or otherwise antagonize certain members..........

Keep it civil and it will stay....



Posted by: Spakoyna

I hope there is no posting and just voting! So far it seems no one thinks anyone should leave!

Quote:
Originally Posted by Jill
I'll leave this poll....For now.....But please, let's not use this thread as another effort to stir the waters or as a velied attempt to attack/crititize/or otherwise antagonize certain members..........

Keep it civil and it will stay....




Posted by: Texas Proud

When two people disagree.... both should go to neutral corners and IGNORE the other... but keep on posting as they see fit..

It would be INTERESTING if the mods could go in a put each of them on each other's IGNORE list... solves the problem



Posted by: Spakoyna

Now that's an H of a suggestion! Why didn't ya post that on the "how ta make RMP better " thread? Cudos to that and an excellent suggestion!

Quote:
Originally Posted by Texas Proud
When two people disagree.... both should go to neutral corners and IGNORE the other... but keep on posting as they see fit..

It would be INTERESTING if the mods could go in a put each of them on each other's IGNORE list... solves the problem




Posted by: DKatz

Quote:
Originally Posted by OzGuyLooking
There is no war, GTR wants me to be banned or leave and himself to be reinstated as a Mod or me to stay and him leave, I have said I want him to stay.


That's not the impression I have.

If 2 members disagree, then by all means deal with it in the open forum or in PMs, but leave the spouse/fiance out of it. I bet most of us could take whatever anyone else dishes out, but taking shots at the families of those people (who aren't here to defend themselves) crosses the line.

Now anyone can call me a wanker if they want.

But leave my woman out of it.



Posted by: inlove

Quote:
Originally Posted by Texas Proud
When two people disagree.... both should go to neutral corners and IGNORE the other... but keep on posting as they see fit..

It would be INTERESTING if the mods could go in a put each of them on each other's IGNORE list... solves the problem


I don't think we have thi option, but even if we did it would be shame to use it. After all, we are all adults here, and should be able to control our own communications with others. Do you really need a policemen here?



Posted by: Big wheel

Some people will alway disagree. Some words will hurt and some wont. Sometimes it may be a good thing to kick some people out, but for the most part i think it is just words and no harm was met. We are on this earth for a little bit so let us just enjoy the time we have.

Love ya all
Dave



Posted by: Justjohn

Quote:
Originally Posted by DKatz
That's not the impression I have.

If 2 members disagree, then by all means deal with it in the open forum or in PMs, but leave the spouse/fiance out of it. I bet most of us could take whatever anyone else dishes out, but taking shots at the families of those people (who aren't here to defend themselves) crosses the line.

Now anyone can call me a wanker if they want.

But leave my woman out of it.




couldn't have put it better myself



Posted by: dagpop

Quote:
Originally Posted by DKatz
taking shots at the families of those people (who aren't here to defend themselves) crosses the line.




I think this whole thing started because a remark was made about a love one.
GTR was only coming to the defense of his wife. I would be upset if someone made a hurtful remark about Rima. I don't think no one needs to be ban. I think a simple apology would be in order.



Posted by: OzGuyLooking

Quote:
Originally Posted by dagpop
I think this whole thing started because a remark was made about a love one.
GTR was only coming to the defense of his wife. I would be upset if someone made a hurtful remark about Rima. I don't think no one needs to be ban. I think a simple apology would be in order.
Excuse me dagpop for disagreeing with you very strongly. I made a comment about a comment. Take that how you want but if I had a REAL problem with GTRs gf I WOULD NOT have passsed on a message from my friend to help her.

You can suggest an apology till you are blue in the face and the cows come home but it wont be forthcoming, especially considering the behaviour of the person you want me to apologise to.

You DO NOT know the entire story so like with everyone else I suggest you all drop it and stop fueling the fire cause I am not going to take to much more before I start acting upon what is happening.



Posted by: GoingToRussia

Quote:
Originally Posted by OzGuyLooking
Excuse me dagpop for disagreeing with you very strongly. I made a comment about a comment. Take that how you want but if I had a REAL problem with GTRs gf I WOULD NOT have passsed on a message from my friend to help her.


... and what do you want a medal? I wouldn't let my NEIGHBOR'S dog travel with a friend of yours.

Quote:
Originally Posted by OzGuyLooking
You can suggest an apology till you are blue in the face and the cows come home but it wont be forthcoming, especially considering the behaviour of the person you want me to apologise to.


You say you want me back and wish me good luck but you won't apologise ... a little contradictory don't you think. I don't think you actually mean the former.

Quote:
Originally Posted by OzGuyLooking
You DO NOT know the entire story so like with everyone else I suggest you all drop it and stop fueling the fire cause I am not going to take to much more before I start acting upon what is happening.


I told Dagpop everything, he knows the entire story. As usual you are shooting off your mouth and don't know what you are talking about. Just like your advise about the FSU. You can't give MEANINGFUL advice because you've NEVER been to the FSU.

You are the one fueling this fire OzGuy and ruining the RMP by talking about me when I wasn't posting. Can't you just get over it and take the advice from my poll and JUST LEAVE???

Let it die OzGuy ... let it die and stop ruining the RMP.
This thread is way off track, I think it needs to be closed.



Posted by: AkMike

There are a couple that just like to type and argue. They seem to just like to hear their keys click.
One of them has nothing to contribute from experience dealing with the ladies from the FSU. What kind of advise can that be?

Put them on ignore and procede with the more important things in life.



Posted by: sidney

Quote:
You DO NOT know the entire story so like with everyone else I suggest you all drop it and stop fueling the fire cause I am not going to take to much more before I start acting upon what is happening.


It seems to me that you've been the one to initiate the confrontations. How often has the name calling started many of these fires.
Someone makes a suggestion for an apology and you get your nose out of joint over what I feel was a good suggestion.
I do question your purpose for frequenting the russian meeting place. The reason many of us are here is to help and/or better learn about russian relationships. You have no desire to persue a rw relationship. You've not traveled to russia or plan to that I can see.
You seem to take pleasure in debate/arguement. Especially when pointing out where others have gone wrong in your opinion.
Sid



Posted by: GoingToRussia

Mike and Sid, thanks for the great posts. It is exactly how I feel and something I have been trying to explain to OzGuy for months now. Maybe he will understand now that he hears it from someone else.



Posted by: sidney

If this hold true to form get ready for a barage of rebuttals.
Sid



Posted by: AkMike

GTR, You can talk and talk but some just want to argue.
Put them on ignore and they can argue with themselves.

There is an uncanny resemblance with this situation to our late buddy 4X4Living. But at least he wanted russian virgins.



Posted by: Pin Boy

enough of this one too. this is just a continuation of the same old, same old. this stops now gentlemen. another mod issued a warning early on in this thread and it was ignored. don't talk this back and forth to another thread or there is going to be a mod discussion about bans.

pb



Posted by: Leprechaun

Thread moved....

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