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My date in Russia

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Posted by: mistermopar

Quote:
Originally Posted by GoingToRussia
Here's another site. I think the women are better looking!

http://free-dating-agency.com/searc...lery;do=Search;


I had wrote to 6 out of the 9 on the first page,only one replied and she wanted to have more children....

Randy



Posted by: mistermopar

I met with Marina tonight.
I had sent her an email the other day asking for her help.
I had bought a pair of slacks the other day and they are about one foot to long...LOL
Since her proffesion is a seamstress/clothes maker,I thought this would be a good way to see her again.

When we met she asked how long,I didn't know so she had to come up to my apartment so I could put them on for her to mark.
Smart way to get her in my place.LOL
Anyways we went for a walk and to a cafe for coffee and cheese cake.
She asked if I have met any girls yet.I said no.
Then she tells me she is calling the agency tomorrow to tell them to find me a nice girl (one of her friends works there).
She also tells me she is now writing to a man that she thinks is right.

Good for her,I hope she will be happy.

Randy



Posted by: Chrismc

Quote:
Originally Posted by mistermopar
I met with Marina tonight.
I had sent her an email the other day asking for her help.
I had bought a pair of slacks the other day and they are about one foot to long...LOL


Accidentally on purpose hey?


Quote:
Originally Posted by Randy
Since her proffesion is a seamstress/clothes maker,I thought this would be a good way to see her again.


Yeh, we know, anything to get to see her again

Quote:
Originally Posted by Randy
When we met she asked how long,I didn't know so she had to come up to my apartment so I could put them on for her to mark.
Smart way to get her in my place.LOL


Nice move

Quote:
Originally Posted by Randy
She asked if I have met any girls yet.I said no.
Then she tells me she is calling the agency tomorrow to tell them to find me a nice girl (one of her friends works there).
She also tells me she is now writing to a man that she thinks is right.


What a shame I know you liked her a lot Randy



Quote:
Originally Posted by Randy
Good for her,I hope she will be happy.

Randy



Good to see you can be like that Randy, don't give up there is a lovely lady out there for you somewhere.

Good luck

Chris



Posted by: mistermopar

Hey Chris,
Hows it going?Hope you are doing good.

Have you ever heard of Murphy's Law?
If you wash your car it will rain,if you wear a white shirt you will spill something on it that stains.
Heres mine,
You finally meet someone you really like and they don't like you. frflowr:
LOL,have to have a sence of humor about this or else I would go nuts..

Yes there is one out there for me some where,just wish she would hurry up and show her self.

Randy



Posted by: Chrismc

Hey Randy

Things are going great, I spent a lovely 3 hours the other weekend filling in Visa application forms and paying the Government £1084.00 ($2168.00) for the priveledge

Irena has her interview next Wednesday the 14th May, so fingers crossed on that one.

Yes I know Murphy's law we have enough of it here too and it is sad that you meet someone and she doesn't want a relationship with you, but believe me, there is a lovely lady out there somewhere for you, finding her is another question, but you are in the right place, so just make use of whatever you can while you are there. So take up Marina on her Agency offer, it cannot do you any harm.

BTW hows the teaching going?

Chris



Posted by: GoingToRussia

Quote:
Originally Posted by mistermopar
When we met she asked how long,I didn't know so she had to come up to my apartment so I could put them on for her to mark.
Smart way to get her in my place.LOL

I hope she measured your inseam!

Sorry, I'm all out of free sites. Good luck with the agency.



Posted by: EasyTarget

Quote:
Originally Posted by mistermopar
Are there any new free sites out there?

Randy

Not new but you could try rambler.ru.



Posted by: mistermopar

Quote:
Originally Posted by Chrismc
Hey Randy

Things are going great, I spent a lovely 3 hours the other weekend filling in Visa application forms and paying the Government £1084.00 ($2168.00) for the priveledge

Irena has her interview next Wednesday the 14th May, so fingers crossed on that one.

Yes I know Murphy's law we have enough of it here too and it is sad that you meet someone and she doesn't want a relationship with you, but believe me, there is a lovely lady out there somewhere for you, finding her is another question, but you are in the right place, so just make use of whatever you can while you are there. So take up Marina on her Agency offer, it cannot do you any harm.

BTW hows the teaching going?

Chris


Hey Chris,
I will have my fingers crossed for yous.
Marina is going to call the agency today.
I have looked at all of the girls in this agency already.I picked the best one...Marina...LOL

I'll try rambler.ru.
Thanks

Teaching is going very well.I still have a lot to learn but I am getting there.


Randy



Posted by: mistermopar

Quote:
Originally Posted by GoingToRussia
I hope she measured your inseam!

Sorry, I'm all out of free sites. Good luck with the agency.


LOL...I was hoping she would also

From where I was standing every thing looked great...

Randy



Posted by: mistermopar

Quote:
Originally Posted by EasyTarget
Not new but you could try rambler.ru.


ET,
I just checked out Rambler.ru,it is has the same lay out and people as the site singles.ru that I am on.

Randy



Posted by: mistermopar

I just came across what I think is a fairly new site,not that many on it yet.
http://www.girlsrussia.com
I think this will be a good site once they get more women on it.

Randy



Posted by: Chillidog

Quote:
Originally Posted by mistermopar
I just came across what I think is a fairly new site,not that many on it yet.
http://www.girlsrussia.com
I think this will be a good site once they get more women on it.

Randy

Randy,
looked at the site very briefly, it calls itself 'girls of Russia' but it seems it's main focus is on Ukrainian women. The reason I say this is in the search tool it asks for country and the scroll down menu has 'Ukraine' at the top and the next tab states 'Region of Ukriane'. That was my first impressions, and I know you are looking localy. I did not do an actual search myself.

I also know about 'Murphy's Law' my first woman, "I wanted her she did not want me" second woman "She wanted me I did not want her" just keep plugging away, and I am also taking my same advice

Good Luck



Posted by: GoingToRussia

Quote:
Originally Posted by mistermopar
From where I was standing every thing looked great. Randy


Hmmm ... sounds like a "Clevage cam" shot!



Posted by: mistermopar

Quote:
Originally Posted by Chillidog
Randy,
looked at the site very briefly, it calls itself 'girls of Russia' but it seems it's main focus is on Ukrainian women. The reason I say this is in the search tool it asks for country and the scroll down menu has 'Ukraine' at the top and the next tab states 'Region of Ukriane'. That was my first impressions, and I know you are looking localy. I did not do an actual search myself.

I also know about 'Murphy's Law' my first woman, "I wanted her she did not want me" second woman "She wanted me I did not want her" just keep plugging away, and I am also taking my same advice

Good Luck


Hey Chilli,

Yes I had also noticed that.
I would prefer local but if I have to I will leave my options open to the other areas of the FSU.

Randy



Posted by: mistermopar

Quote:
Originally Posted by GoingToRussia
Hmmm ... sounds like a "Clevage cam" shot!



OOOOOOOOOOOH YA!

Randy



Posted by: mistermopar

Today I am meeting with Natalia again,the one with two kids.
Not sure what were going to do.
Today there are celebrations here,parade and fireworks.
I guess maybe will will see this.

Randy



Posted by: Buckeye5704

Hi Randy,

I been lurking on this thread cause I really can't help you much except to say keep after them.

In a way I kinda envy you. You're right there in the thick of things. I found a great Lady right here, but you're right at ground zero buddy. But, in reading some of your posts about it, it sounds like it isn't a whole lot different from here. All those beauties around you, but can't seem to find that little needle in the hay.

Keep yer rod tip UP and yer line tight Randy,



Posted by: too_tall

Randy, don't discount AK Mikes newspaper ad idea. I would bet that it would not cost much. I would also recommend placing an ad for teaching English to advanced students as you would make a few extra bucks that way. Private lessons are where the money is in teaching English (notice I am talking like I know what I am talking about LOL)


Udachi!!!

Bill



Posted by: mistermopar

Quote:
Originally Posted by Buckeye5704
Hi Randy,

I been lurking on this thread cause I really can't help you much except to say keep after them.

In a way I kinda envy you. You're right there in the thick of things. I found a great Lady right here, but you're right at ground zero buddy. But, in reading some of your posts about it, it sounds like it isn't a whole lot different from here. All those beauties around you, but can't seem to find that little needle in the hay.

Keep yer rod tip UP and yer line tight Randy,


Thanks Tim,

I think many envy me because I am around all these great looking ladies.LOL
I will keep looking,I know shes here some where.

Randy



Posted by: mistermopar

Quote:
Originally Posted by too_tall
Randy, don't discount AK Mikes newspaper ad idea. I would bet that it would not cost much. I would also recommend placing an ad for teaching English to advanced students as you would make a few extra bucks that way. Private lessons are where the money is in teaching English (notice I am talking like I know what I am talking about LOL)


Udachi!!!

Bill


Hi Bill,
I will not discount Ak's idea.
I have just found another free site.There are some that I think I would like to meet.

Yes Private lessons can be a good way to make extra money.
It is my work hours that screw it up some and I like my weekends for myself.

Randy



Posted by: blucatz

Quote:
Originally Posted by mistermopar
Yes Private lessons can be a good way to make extra money.
It is my work hours that screw it up some and I like my weekends for myself.

Randy

But, I bet if some Hot Little Blonde Russian Girl wanted some private english lessons from the Mopar Guy on a saturday, you would give up those weekends....LOL

3 More Days (WooHooo) till



Posted by: Buckeye5704

Quote:
But, I bet if some Hot Little Blonde Russian Girl wanted some private english lessons from the Mopar Guy on a saturday, you would give up those weekends....LOL


Or a brunnett or a red head... Hot is hot, eh?



Posted by: Raspberry

Quote:
Originally Posted by mistermopar
I just came across what I think is a fairly new site,not that many on it yet.http://www.girlsrussia.com
I think this will be a good site once they get more women on it. Randy


I would have to agree.....also some good links to other related sites as well.



Posted by: mistermopar

Quote:
Originally Posted by blucatz
But, I bet if some Hot Little Blonde Russian Girl wanted some private english lessons from the Mopar Guy on a saturday, you would give up those weekends....LOL


She would have to be awfully dam hot for me to give up a weekend,and she would have to promise to marry me. LOL

Randy



Posted by: mistermopar

Met with Natalia today.We walked to the bank of the Volga where there was live music and dancing for Victory Day.
We watched this for a while and then went to the Grand Cafe for cheese cake and green tea.
She had to head home at about 8:00,but because there were so many people waiting for the bus back to Volzhski,she didn't get on untill 9:15.

She couldn't stay longer to watch the fireworks because has a 7 year old she had to get home to.

Randy



Posted by: blucatz

Quote:
Originally Posted by mistermopar
Met with Natalia today.We walked to the bank of the Volga where there was live music and dancing for Victory Day.


Did you dance with the Lady?



Posted by: mistermopar

Quote:
Originally Posted by blucatz
Did you dance with the Lady?


No..none of the spectators were dancing,we were so surrounded by people we could hardly breath let alone dance.

Randy



Posted by: mistermopar

Ahhh Sunday.
Today I was writing to many fine ladies.
One wanted to meet,so I said sure.
We were to meet at 5:00 in front of the Etrnal flame.
I waited and waited,finally I saw of of my friends from work,so we sat there and talked while I waited.At 6:00 me and my friend went for tea.

This girl didn't even call to say she was not going to show.
I hate when they do this.

Randy frflowr:



Posted by: Raspberry

Quote:
Originally Posted by mistermopar
Ahhh Sunday.
Today I was writing to many fine ladies.
One wanted to meet,so I said sure.
We were to meet at 5:00 in front of the Etrnal flame.
I waited and waited,finally I saw of of my friends from work,so we sat there and talked while I waited.At 6:00 me and my friend went for tea.

This girl didn't even call to say she was not going to show.
I hate when they do this.

Randy frflowr:


Sounds an awful lot like American girls. I went to the FSU to get away from this kind of crap.......but it seems that lately this is a recent phenomenon....
I got stiffed twice last week, and now you.....

I thought Russian and Ukrainian girls had more class than that!



Posted by: AkMike

Maybe she came, saw you and ran quickly the other way! LOL,,, (j/k)



Posted by: goforit

Unfortunately, some women have been known to do that.



Posted by: mistermopar

Quote:
Originally Posted by Raspberry
Sounds an awful lot like American girls. I went to the FSU to get away from this kind of crap.......but it seems that lately this is a recent phenomenon....
I got stiffed twice last week, and now you.....

I thought Russian and Ukrainian girls had more class than that!


Hi Rasp.
How are you doing?

She wrote me two days later to say sorry but no reason why.
She said again she wants to meet.
I told her she would now have to wait two weeks,that I had plans for this weekend coming already.
We will wait and see what happens with this one.

Randy



Posted by: mistermopar

Quote:
Originally Posted by AkMike
Maybe she came, saw you and ran quickly the other way! LOL,,, (j/k)


That is what I had thought....LOL

Randy



Posted by: deccie

Quote:
Originally Posted by mistermopar
Hi Rasp.
How are you doing?

She wrote me two days later to say sorry but no reason why.
She said again she wants to meet.
I told her she would now have to wait two weeks,that I had plans for this weekend coming already.
We will wait and see what happens with this one.

Randy


Randy, if she won't even give you a reason why she didn't show up why even bother going any further?



Posted by: goforit

Quote:
Originally Posted by deccie
Randy, if she won't even give you a reason why she didn't show up why even bother going any further?


I agree. At least she should have given you some kind of story.



Posted by: mistermopar

Quote:
Originally Posted by deccie
Randy, if she won't even give you a reason why she didn't show up why even bother going any further?


DC,Goforit,
Yous are right,buuuut.....you know what happened to the cat.
Curiosity....

Don't know if I will meet with her but you never know.I might not haveany one else to meet with that weekend and she could be a filler inbetween girls.. LOL

Randy



Posted by: Raspberry

Sounds like a sensible plan, Randy.



Posted by: Chillidog

Quote:
Originally Posted by mistermopar
she could be a filler inbetween girls..

Randy

I thought you wanted to be the "filler in between girls"?



Posted by: mistermopar

Quote:
Originally Posted by Chillidog
I thought you wanted to be the "filler in between girls"?


LOL

Randy



Posted by: mistermopar

Met with Natalia on Sunday,wasn't very exciting.Really I was bored.

She has to work this weekend so I won't see her for another week.
Funny how it doesn't bother me but it is someone to meet with for now.
We plan on going on a boat trip on the Volga River.

I am trying to set up a meeting with another girl for this weekend.
We'll see if I can and how it gos.

Randy



Posted by: mistermopar

Ok....here we go.
I had set up a meeting with Natalia2 for Sunday at 1:00pm.
I was excited.
Buuuuuut on Saturday after aranging this meeting a woman named,we will say Katya,invited me to here dacha.
I had never met this lady but seen one photo.
Hey what would you do?
Of course I said yes...LOL

She picked me up near my apartment,there was her,her friend,her friends child (3 years old) and her daughter (15 years old).

Well we get to the dacha and we get a fire going.Get the coals ready for the sheshlic and we are on our way.At that time I realised I wasn't going home that night,lucky I came prepeared.

At one point I stoled a kiss.
Sunday we got up,then I remembered the other girl I was suppost to meet,but to late.
I laid in the sun with them drinking beer and wine.
Ok...I got burnt...really,it was the first time out this year and it was about 34C....hot.
She is cute for a 40 year old,but I would not say beautiful.
She is lacking in the chest area for me,but a very nice person.
Oh..neither one spoke English....
Well she could understand some...and she knew numbers.
There were a couple of words she knew...

She has her own firm...a realator and that is about all I can tell you for now.Oh she has two kids,one is 21 years old and on his own.
I have a feeling I am going to get into trouble soon if I get to many on the go.

Randy



Posted by: EasyTarget

Randy, randy, randy dawg.

Yes I think you need to be careful. It is much easier to be emailing different women from 1000's of KM away and not worry about their paths crossing. But in the same town as them, you have a pretty good chance of being out with one; and then seeing the other. Yikes!



Posted by: disculmawsu

Quote:
Originally Posted by mistermopar

She is lacking in the chest area for me,but a very nice person.

I know the feeling a bit. My friend wears her fairly hair short (above the ears) and I don't particularly like it. She has made it clear that she will never wear her hair long. I decided I could live with her hair short.



Posted by: Buckeye5704

Quote:
She is lacking in the chest area for me,but a very nice person.

I've always concidered that a plus in AW. The good news is she'll still be "perky" when the others are hanging low.



Posted by: AkMike

Randy,
The big chest attraction is just the inital draw and not a reason to bypass a lady. I think every guy likes to see a large set don't get me wrong!. But after you've been with her for a time the inner person/soul shines and you don't notice the exterior beauty as much. That's the beauty that endures for a long time relationship.
Find one that makes you happy and she smiles alot...



Posted by: mistermopar

Quote:
Originally Posted by EasyTarget
Randy, randy, randy dawg.

Yes I think you need to be careful. It is much easier to be emailing different women from 1000's of KM away and not worry about their paths crossing. But in the same town as them, you have a pretty good chance of being out with one; and then seeing the other. Yikes!


I know...playing with fire.

I had wrote to a girl before when I was in Canada and she just happened to be a friend of a girl I had met....what are the odds.

Randy



Posted by: mistermopar

Quote:
Originally Posted by disculmawsu
I know the feeling a bit. My friend wears her fairly hair short (above the ears) and I don't particularly like it. She has made it clear that she will never wear her hair long. I decided I could live with her hair short.


I also like long hair and not short on a woman.
If I was to add up everything that was important to me,I might be alone a very long time.

Randy



Posted by: mistermopar

Quote:
Originally Posted by AkMike
Randy,
The big chest attraction is just the inital draw and not a reason to bypass a lady. I think every guy likes to see a large set don't get me wrong!. But after you've been with her for a time the inner person/soul shines and you don't notice the exterior beauty as much. That's the beauty that endures for a long time relationship.
Find one that makes you happy and she smiles alot...


Yaaaa,and does it ever draw...
You are right,that is why I decided to meet with her any ways.

Buckeye,
They are here,just a little harder to find.
I see one girl last week at the supermarket.Dam,I ended up running into the sheves with my kart and some items fell on the floor.
Wish I could have been brave enough to approch her.

Randy



Posted by: redhawk

seems like youre getting VERY RANDY indeed,good job man,just stay alert. keep us posted



Posted by: disculmawsu

Quote:
Originally Posted by mistermopar
I also like long hair and not short on a woman.
If I was to add up everything that was important to me,I might be alone a very long time.

Randy

I agree. I decided I could live with her short hair mainly because is she such nice woman and very caring towards me.



Posted by: mistermopar

Quote:
Originally Posted by redhawk
seems like youre getting VERY RANDY indeed,good job man,just stay alert. keep us posted


LOL...the british teachers that are here get a real kick out of my name.
They can't belive it is my name.

Randy



Posted by: mistermopar

Quote:
Originally Posted by disculmawsu
I agree. I decided I could live with her short hair mainly because is she such nice woman and very caring towards me.


My problem is that I know myself to well and I don't like to settle.

That is why I find it difficult to get close to some of these girls,I'm afraid that down the road that it will all blow up on me and I will dump them for finding something more to my liking.
It isn't fair to these girls.

Ohhh if only life was so much easier and all girls had big racks....LOL

Randy



Posted by: EasyTarget

Quote:
Originally Posted by mistermopar
I see one girl last week at the supermarket.Dam,I ended up running into the sheves with my kart and some items fell on the floor.
Wish I could have been brave enough to approch her.

Randy: Here is my surefire way to talk to any woman in any store, and have never gotten slapped, even if they are with a boyfriend / husband.

I just politely say...
"Hi!, Can you help me find where the "x" item is ?"
almost always they will walk with you a little, and point, then I say...
"Do you have a favorite? one that you prefer?"

Now granted if she speaks no English this may be hard to pull off, but still worth a shot. Even if you get 100 No's not interested, you will get 0 Yes unless you start talking with them.



Posted by: Chillidog

Quote:
Originally Posted by mistermopar
My problem is that I know myself to well and I don't like to settle.

That is why I find it difficult to get close to some of these girls,I'm afraid that down the road that it will all blow up on me and I will dump them for finding something more to my liking.
It isn't fair to these girls.

Ohhh if only life was so much easier and all girls had big racks....LOL

Randy


Randy,
Do not settle!!! I'm the same way,

Oh, by the way I like "PERKY" do us both a favor and throw the perky one's my may



Posted by: blucatz

Quote:
Originally Posted by Chillidog
Randy,
Do not settle!!! I'm the same way,

Oh, by the way I like "PERKY" do us both a favor and throw the perky one's my may

Chilli, why are you grumpy? Did someone pee in your wheaties again?....LOL



Posted by: Chillidog

Quote:
Originally Posted by blucatz
Chilli, why are you grumpy? Did someone pee in your wheaties again?....LOL

Hey Blu,

so just because you pulled your out of the fire does that mean you can rain on my GRUMPY parade (mood-should be Insane!) but could not find that one though.

Happy everything turned out good, I was rooting for you, still am continued good luck to you



Posted by: Buckeye5704

Quote:
Oh, by the way I like "PERKY" do us both a favor and throw the perky one's my may

The TALL perky ones.



Posted by: Chillidog

Quote:
Originally Posted by Buckeye5704
The TALL perky ones.

Randy

Buckeye's correct the TALL perky ones preferably , but beggars can't be choosers



Posted by: blucatz

Quote:
Originally Posted by Chillidog
Randy

Buckeye's correct the TALL perky ones preferably , but beggars can't be choosers

I prefer a member of the Itty Bitty ***** Committee myself...



Posted by: JohnnyLaRue

Quote:
Ohhh if only life was so much easier and all girls had big racks....LOL


Hence why they invented breast enhancement surgery. :P



Posted by: redhawk

Quote:
Originally Posted by blucatz
I prefer a member of the Itty Bitty ***** Committee myself...

guess im not the only one here who digs small breasted women.(no joke)they always seem to have better bodies,nicer rears,you guys noticed that? they also are sleeker,and fly through the visa process quicker (joke)



Posted by: Chrismc

Quote:
Originally Posted by redhawk
guess im not the only one here who digs small breasted women.(no joke)they always seem to have better bodies,nicer rears,you guys noticed that? they also are sleeker,and fly through the visa process quicker (joke)

Less drag I guess



Posted by: mistermopar

Quote:
Originally Posted by EasyTarget
Randy: Here is my surefire way to talk to any woman in any store, and have never gotten slapped, even if they are with a boyfriend / husband.

I just politely say...
"Hi!, Can you help me find where the "x" item is ?"
almost always they will walk with you a little, and point, then I say...
"Do you have a favorite? one that you prefer?"

Now granted if she speaks no English this may be hard to pull off, but still worth a shot. Even if you get 100 No's not interested, you will get 0 Yes unless you start talking with them.


LOL..I tried that a few times at the same supermarket with a couple of the employees I thought were hot.Of course none of them spoke English.
But I will try some more.

Randy



Posted by: mistermopar

Quote:
Originally Posted by Chrismc
Less drag I guess


LMAO....thats funny..

Randy



Posted by: blucatz

Quote:
Originally Posted by redhawk
guess im not the only one here who digs small breasted women.(no joke)they always seem to have better bodies,nicer rears,you guys noticed that? they also are sleeker,and fly through the visa process quicker (joke)

Oh I have noticed, also large racked women tend to have a large frame to support the extra weight (not attractive to me whatsoever, call me picky, but, Im the one would have to sleep with them....LOL). Also, when they hit their 40's, gravity seems to work on them in the wrong way.



Posted by: Buckeye5704

Hey, what does a 60 year old woman have between her breasts that a 20 y/o doesn't?

A belly button.



Posted by: blucatz

Quote:
Originally Posted by Buckeye5704
Hey, what does a 60 year old woman have between her breasts that a 20 y/o doesn't?

A belly button.

Good one Buckeye!!!



Posted by: mistermopar

Quote:
Originally Posted by Buckeye5704
Hey, what does a 60 year old woman have between her breasts that a 20 y/o doesn't?

A belly button.


LMAO....

Randy



Posted by: EasyTarget

Quote:
Originally Posted by mistermopar
LOL..I tried that a few times at the same supermarket with a couple of the employees I thought were hot.Of course none of them spoke English.
But I will try some more.
Randy

It worked for TheWongs, so can't hurt to try. I did find that most cashiers at supermarkets and stores had limited English skills. But Waitresses seemed to have some if not good English skills.

How's your Russian lessons going?



Posted by: mistermopar

Quote:
Originally Posted by EasyTarget
It worked for TheWongs, so can't hurt to try. I did find that most cashiers at supermarkets and stores had limited English skills. But Waitresses seemed to have some if not good English skills.

How's your Russian lessons going?


Hey ET,

I guess English depends where you are.
I find in Volgograd there are not as many with English as I had thought,or they are to shy to use it.

Moscow was different,I came across many more people with English.

The Russian lessons are up and down,I am learning on my own at home and what ever I can pick up from other people.
Last weekend was a real challenge with the couple of ladies at the cottage.They did not speak English,so I picked up some new words.
We managed to get most of our points across.

Randy



Posted by: EasyTarget

Ah....here is my other thought about the English skills issue. You are looking for women ~10 years older than what I am looking for. Most of the women I talked too grew up with MTV. I think that makes a HUGE difference.

Randy, Honestly I think you need to find a private tutor of some sort. There must be a way you can do an exchange with someone. My thought is find a girl studying English at the local university and improve her conversational English, while she helps you with the basic Russian. Somebody, somewhere, either from your school, etc... must know someone who is studying English at the university.

Just a thought.



Posted by: mistermopar

Quote:
Originally Posted by EasyTarget
Ah....here is my other thought about the English skills issue. You are looking for women ~10 years older than what I am looking for. Most of the women I talked too grew up with MTV. I think that makes a HUGE difference.

Randy, Honestly I think you need to find a private tutor of some sort. There must be a way you can do an exchange with someone. My thought is find a girl studying English at the local university and improve her conversational English, while she helps you with the basic Russian. Somebody, somewhere, either from your school, etc... must know someone who is studying English at the university.

Just a thought.


ET,
It is almost summer now,so I am not going to worry to much about finding someone to help me right now.
In the fall I will see if I can find someone.
The school that I work for offers Russian courses,but it is not cheap even with the teacher disscount for working there.

I will just plug away for the summer on my own and get on to it in the fall.

Randy



Posted by: mistermopar

Saturdays date got cancelled.Natalias child was sick.

I was looking forward to going on the Volga cruise.Well maybe another time.

Randy



Posted by: redhawk

as we say in the us ARMY- HIGH SPEED,LOW DRAG- THATS EXACTLY WHAT I MEANT LOL



Posted by: mistermopar

Sunday I met up with Natasha,first time we've met.
She is a nice girl.
She can speak some English.
She has a daughter that is 15 years old.
We went for a walk and then to the Grand Cafe for dinner.
We had a good time,I think I'll see her again.

Randy



Posted by: Chillidog

Quote:
Originally Posted by mistermopar
Sunday I met up with Natasha,first time we've met.
She is a nice girl.
She can speak some English.
She has a daughter that is 15 years old.
We went for a walk and then to the Grand Cafe for dinner.
We had a good time,I think I'll see her again.

Randy


sounds like a good start

Wish I could startover as easily or as quickly

Looks like I will have to be a closet voyeur and live thru you, Blucatz, Buckeye and others

until I can travel again

so until then
MORE DETAILS!!!!!! PLEASE!!!!!!



Posted by: mistermopar

Quote:
Originally Posted by Chillidog
sounds like a good start

Wish I could startover as easily or as quickly

Looks like I will have to be a closet voyeur and live thru you, Blucatz, Buckeye and others

until I can travel again

so until then
MORE DETAILS!!!!!! PLEASE!!!!!!


LOL....I will keep you posted Chilli.

Whens your next trip?

Randy



Posted by: Chillidog

Quote:
Originally Posted by mistermopar
LOL....I will keep you posted Chilli.

Whens your next trip?

Randy

It looks like it might be awhile.

Had major reconstructive knee surgery 5/16, physicaly, may not be able to travel before spring of next year

and had a big set back with the Mariupol woman, and have ended correspondence. So back to hitting the FSU sites searching again.

Hence my "grumpy" mood

I guess I will just have to entice dagpop to post more 20 yo in sexy lingerie



Posted by: blucatz

Quote:
Originally Posted by Chillidog
I guess I will just have to entice dagpop to post more 20 yo in sexy lingerie

I don't think it will take much enticing, dagpop seems to really enjoy posting those pics, still don't know where he finds all of them tho....LOL



Posted by: mistermopar

Hey,
Thursday I am meeting with a nice lady,Elena.
She can speak some English.
She is a Russian teacher.

I will let yous know what happens.

Randy



Posted by: AkMike

Quote:
Originally Posted by mistermopar
I will let you know what happens.



Yah sure! 'promises , promises..



Posted by: mistermopar

Quote:
Originally Posted by AkMike
Yah sure! 'promises , promises..


Well most of it......



Posted by: Buckeye5704

Well at least give a LITTLE of the good stuff!



Posted by: blucatz

Quote:
Originally Posted by Buckeye5704
Well at least give a LITTLE of the good stuff!

Like Chris Rock says about Stevie Wonder "Can we just get a little peak?"...LOL



Posted by: mistermopar

Ok...nothing exciting guys.

We met and went to the grand cafe.
Had coffee and ice-cream.
She looks older than her photos and not as pretty.
I didn't feel any connection with her.

Randy



Posted by: EasyTarget

Well it was a blind date, always good to keep in practice. Now you have to just keep throwing your line in the water, eventually you will get hooked.



Posted by: mistermopar

Quote:
Originally Posted by EasyTarget
Well it was a blind date, always good to keep in practice. Now you have to just keep throwing your line in the water, eventually you will get hooked.


Hey ET,

That would mean they are all blind dates I guess,
other than the photos.

Randy



Posted by: mistermopar

Tonight I met with Tatyana,first ime we met.
She is quite a chatterbox.She knows some English.
But once again,not to sure.
But a nice person.

Randy



Posted by: EasyTarget

Randy: i would got out with Tatyana again, and find out if you are sure. It is good that she likes to chat it will help you learn Russian quicker.



Posted by: AkMike

And Tetiana is a very nice name! Hmmmm seems like I've heard that one before somewhere.....



Posted by: matt235

Quote:
Originally Posted by mistermopar
Tonight I met with Tatyana,first ime we met.
She is quite a chatterbox.She knows some English.
But once again,not to sure.
But a nice person.

Randy



Randy,

A chatterbox could just be a sign of nervousness. Maybe she is just so happy to be with she is nervous and thus talks!! Give it another go.



Posted by: shaun1000

Quote:
Originally Posted by mistermopar
Tonight I met with Tatyana,first ime we met.
She is quite a chatterbox.She knows some English.
But once again,not to sure.
But a nice person.

Randy



Randy, being a nice person is a good start. Seems to me you are trying to find perfection, doesn`t exist my friend.



Posted by: Chillidog

Randy,

How have things been going lately? any news with the women? I am sure your enjoying all the sights!!!



Posted by: GoingToRussia

Quote:
Originally Posted by Chillidog
I am sure your enjoying all the sights!!!

That's probably all the Russian Women "sites"!



Posted by: Big wheel

Quote:
Originally Posted by mistermopar
She is quite a chatterbox.


Randy let me tell you something ALL women are chatterboxes. say Hi again. Like matt said is just might be a bit nerviness. and sit back and have some fun dont put to much in it right now. give it a couple of dates.



Posted by: mistermopar

Hey guys,

Thanks for the replies.
I have been away for 3 weeks with out a computer.
I am going to post on my adventures as soon as I get through all my emails.

And Tatyana is gone....LOL

Randy



Posted by: azamuner

Looking forward to hearing about your latest adventures Randy.



Posted by: deccie

Ditto!



Posted by: GoingToRussia

Looking forward to your report Randy.

So what happened to Tanya?



Posted by: mistermopar

Quote:
Originally Posted by GoingToRussia
Looking forward to your report Randy.

So what happened to Tanya?


Hey GTR

I started another thread for my adventure.

Tanya....didn't think she was worth a second try,hey there are many to meet here.

Randy



Posted by: mistermopar

Well had a date tonight with a girl I have been writing to for a bit.
Her name is Julia.
Oh dam she was hot,her photos do not do her justice.
I can even say I think I had an unpure thought or two....

We met at the Kaife restaurant and we talked for about 3 hours.
She has cuteist.....laugh and some other things.

She can speak English but it is broken.
I hope to see her again.

Randy



Posted by: EasyTarget

Randy -- yo Dawg! you might be the first Canuck playa in Russia.

Ok, show some photos...come on, don't tease us!



Posted by: blucatz

Quote:
Originally Posted by mistermopar
Well had a date tonight with a girl I have been writing to for a bit.
Her name is Julia.
Oh dam she was hot,her photos do not do her justice.
I can even say I think I had an unpure thought or two....

We met at the Kaife restaurant and we talked for about 3 hours.
She has cuteist.....laugh and some other things.

She can speak English but it is broken.
I hope to see her again.

Randy

What happend to the one you were waiting for a SMS reply from, the one whose picture you posted in the other thread?



Posted by: mistermopar

Quote:
Originally Posted by EasyTarget
Randy -- yo Dawg! you might be the first Canuck playa in Russia.

Ok, show some photos...come on, don't tease us!


Ok....I will not post her photos she had on a site and I didn't get any of her tonight.
But.....the next time I meet her I will try to get some and will post them...

Randy



Posted by: mistermopar

Quote:
Originally Posted by blucatz
What happend to the one you were waiting for a SMS reply from, the one whose picture you posted in the other thread?


Uhhhh....I am suppost to call her at 10 in the morning....ha ha.

This is going to get very interesting,I may have another date for Sunday and a differant one for Monday.
Hey.......I'm in Russia.....got to play the field a little.

Randy



Posted by: azamuner

When it rains it pours my friend.



Posted by: mistermopar

Quote:
Originally Posted by azamuner
When it rains it pours my friend.



Oh ya...does it ever...

Randy



Posted by: mistermopar

Ok,since todays plans did not happen with Katya,
I have arranged to meet with Julia again tonight.

Randy



Posted by: Chrismc

decisions decisions Randy lucky you have a few substitutes you can call on at short notice



Posted by: mistermopar

Quote:
Originally Posted by Chrismc
decisions decisions Randy lucky you have a few substitutes you can call on at short notice


Hummm..now I've just screwed everything up

Katya sent me a sms at 4:00 and wanted to meet at 9:00 in Volzhski.
I had already made the date with Julia.
So I called Julia and canceled until tomorrow.
At 7:30 I walked to the station to get a marchutka.
Uh hu,1 1/2 hours later I am still standing there.There were so many people and the line went on for ever.
At 9:00 I gave up and came back home.

So from 2 dates to sitting at home alone on a Saturday night,I feel like a morron tonight.

Randy



Posted by: Chillidog

Quote:
Originally Posted by mistermopar
Hummm..now I've just screwed everything up

Katya sent me a sms at 4:00 and wanted to meet at 9:00 in Volzhski.
I had already made the date with Julia.
So I called Julia and canceled until tomorrow.
At 7:30 I walked to the station to get a marchutka.
Uh hu,1 1/2 hours later I am still standing there.There were so many people and the line went on for ever.
At 9:00 I gave up and came back home.

So from 2 dates to sitting at home alone on a Saturday night,I feel like a morron tonight.

Randy


Randy,

hard lesson learned---sorry

when in doubt always go with "one in the hand is better then two in the bush"

AKA

stick with the date already confirmed and avoid last mintue changes.

now hopefully you will still have the date with Julia tomorrow

good luck



Posted by: shaun1000

Quote:
Originally Posted by mistermopar
Hummm..now I've just screwed everything up

Katya sent me a sms at 4:00 and wanted to meet at 9:00 in Volzhski.
I had already made the date with Julia.
So I called Julia and canceled until tomorrow.
At 7:30 I walked to the station to get a marchutka.
Uh hu,1 1/2 hours later I am still standing there.There were so many people and the line went on for ever.
At 9:00 I gave up and came back home.

So from 2 dates to sitting at home alone on a Saturday night,I feel like a morron tonight.

Randy



Why didn`t you just get a taxi? You sure make things difficult for yourself Randy. So want are you going to tell Julie? I cancelled you to meet another but couldn`t see her anyway because the line went on forever!!!!!!!!!



Posted by: mistermopar

Quote:
Originally Posted by Chillidog
Randy,

hard lesson learned---sorry

when in doubt always go with "one in the hand is better then two in the bush"

AKA

stick with the date already confirmed and avoid last mintue changes.

now hopefully you will still have the date with Julia tomorrow

good luck


Yes it was a hard lesson learned.
After I made the changes I had a real bad feeling.
I hope all will go well tomorrow with Julia.

Lots of flowers....

Randy



Posted by: Chillidog

Quote:
Originally Posted by mistermopar
Yes it was a hard lesson learned.
After I made the changes I had a real bad feeling.
I hope all will go well tomorrow with Julia.

Lots of flowers....

Randy


Yes, Lots of flowers will help, frflowr: maybe even some chocolate



Posted by: mistermopar

Quote:
Originally Posted by shaun1000
Why didn`t you just get a taxi? You sure make things difficult for yourself Randy. So want are you going to tell Julie? I cancelled you to meet another but couldn`t see her anyway because the line went on forever!!!!!!!!!


Oh yes...If I was still making American or Canadian dollars I would have got a taxi.
But I now live in Russia,and my wadges are not quite the same.
It is very expencive to travel from Volgograd to Volzhski by cab.
But better still,at 21:10 why did Katya not call or send a sms asking where I was.
I sent her a sms at about 21:30 to tell her what happened and still no reply.
I am getting tired of the games,this is not the Olympics.
If she was serious,she would have sent some kind of message.

Randy



Posted by: mistermopar

Quote:
Originally Posted by Chillidog
Yes, Lots of flowers will help, frflowr: maybe even some chocolate


Yes I will be buying some flowers for Julia tomorrow.
She does not like chocolate..????I don't get that,I thought everyone loved chocolate.

Oh what a tangled web I weave...LOL

RAndy



Posted by: Chillidog

I agree, maybe you were her second option?

I cannot stand game playing myself, I refused to do it even as a teenager and if I felt in the slightest the girl was doing this it was good-bye good ridence, but that is just me

from what you have written, you had extreme difficulties in communicating with Katya, but you enjoyed being with her.

with Julia, the communication is much better, and from what I gather there also was a strong attraction.

Not saying to see Julia exclusively, just thinking there was a good beginning with Julia, and great potential.



Posted by: mistermopar

Quote:
Originally Posted by Chillidog
I agree, maybe you were her second option?

I cannot stand game playing myself, I refused to do it even as a teenager and if I felt in the slightest the girl was doing this it was good-bye good ridence, but that is just me

from what you have written, you had extreme difficulties in communicating with Katya, but you enjoyed being with her.

with Julia, the communication is much better, and from what I gather there also was a strong attraction.

Not saying to see Julia exclusively, just thinking there was a good beginning with Julia, and great potential.


Heyyyy Chlli buddy,

They are all great potentials.

Yes I really like Katya,but do not know what is going on with her,mainly because of the lauguage barrier.
Julia is also very great,but I see a problem already,she has no children and I do not really want to have more at my age.
But I am willing to practice...LOL

Randy



Posted by: GoingToRussia

Sorry to hear your news. I hope you can smooth things over. Cancelling a date is a difficult decision to make.



Posted by: Chillidog

Quote:
Originally Posted by mistermopar
Yes I will be buying some flowers for Julia tomorrow.
She does not like chocolate..????I don't get that,I thought everyone loved chocolate.

Oh what a tangled web I weave...LOL

RAndy


everyone I have met loved chocolate, always brought with me some nice chocolate to give out on every trip (brought ones that were made in the USA)



Posted by: Chillidog

Quote:
Originally Posted by mistermopar
Heyyyy Chlli buddy,

They are all great potentials.

Yes I really like Katya,but do not know what is going on with her,mainly because of the lauguage barrier.
Julia is also very great,but I see a problem already,she has no children and I do not really want to have more at my age.
But I am willing to practice...LOL

Randy


Randy,

my advice is to not read to much into the early dates, or the woman's personal situation (i.e she has kids or does not have kids). Get to know them, until you do, you do not know their desires on children, this is only your preconcieved thoughts.

Things can change drasticly when you find the correct person, what you or her originally wanted or where looking for maybe be much different when love is finally experienced.

You are in their playground as oppossed to us, where our first visit is an all or nothing type of thing. We need to put most/all cards on the table, many times even before traveling

give it time to develop, and there is nothing like practice, pactice, practice



Posted by: mistermopar

Quote:
Originally Posted by GoingToRussia
Sorry to hear your news. I hope you can smooth things over. Cancelling a date is a difficult decision to make.


Yes it was a difficult thing to do.
After I did it I felt terrible.
There must be a reason for this feeling.

But hey...I think I will get over it.
I have wrote to Julia ad everything seems to be in order.

Ok,to set the record strait,I have a few ladies on the go.
Please don't ask how many,.......I don't know.
There are quite a few.
Each has a good quality and good looks.
If I was to round it out,there is most likely ....hummmm....20 girls.

I do not think I am a key board romeo, but I want to keep my options open.

RAndy



Posted by: Chillidog

Quote:
Originally Posted by mistermopar
If I was to round it out,there is most likely ....hummmm....20 girls.


RAndy


when you said it was raining, you really meant IT was RAINING!

man it is GOOD to be Randy


with 20 and all the practice that will be necessary, will you get any sleep?



Posted by: mistermopar

Quote:
Originally Posted by Chillidog
Randy,

my advice is to not read to much into the early dates, or the woman's personal situation (i.e she has kids or does not have kids). Get to know them, until you do, you do not know their desires on children, this is only your preconcieved thoughts.

Things can change drasticly when you find the correct person, what you or her originally wanted or where looking for maybe be much different when love is finally experienced.

You are in their playground as oppossed to us, where our first visit is an all or nothing type of thing. We need to put most/all cards on the table, many times even before traveling

give it time to develop, and there is nothing like practice, pactice, practice


Chilli,you should be living over here.
You are right.
I have thought about another child but only if she is the very right lady.
But in my heart,I really do not want another child.
I am now 40 and my daughter is a beautiful young lady.
It is difficult to see my self with a baby going waaaa...waaaaa.

Randy



Posted by: mistermopar

Quote:
Originally Posted by Chillidog
when you said it was raining, you really meant IT was RAINING!

man it is GOOD to be Randy


with 20 and all the practice that will be necessary, will you get any sleep?


I have bags under my eyes,when will it stop...LOL

Randy



Posted by: Chillidog

Quote:
Originally Posted by mistermopar
Chilli,you should be living over here.
You are right.
I have thought about another child but only if she is the very right lady.
But in my heart,I really do not want another child.
I am now 40 and my daughter is a beautiful young lady.
It is difficult to see my self with a baby going waaaa...waaaaa.

Randy


as I have written (I think even in your thread) we are both in the same boat in age (OK my boat has slightly a little more wear and tear on it, 47 for me) and thoughts about future children. My twin daughters will be 21 on August 31st.

I also think future child----YIKES!!!! but love may change that in me (that and a reversal of the big V)

but I was also meaning the woman. yes, she might desire a child now but who knows what the future may bring when she falls in love.

I will be in Russia in September, during my search I thought of you and kept my eyes out for women from Volgograd, but one woman from Omsk has caught my attention, so off to Siberia for me



Posted by: mistermopar

Quote:
Originally Posted by Chillidog
as I have written (I think even in your thread) we are both in the same boat in age (OK my boat has slightly a little more wear and tear on it, 47 for me) and thoughts about future children. My twin daughters will be 21 on August 31st.

I also think future child----YIKES!!!! but love may change that in me (that and a reversal of the big V)

but I was also meaning the woman. yes, she might desire a child now but who knows what the future may bring when she falls in love.

I will be in Russia in September, during my search I thought of you and kept my eyes out for women from Volgograd, but one woman from Omsk has caught my attention, so off to Siberia for me


OK..lets start with the big V......
ok,lets not go there.

I have a happy life,my child is growen and I am free to do as I please now.
I was able to move to Russia because my daughter said I could because she has her own life now.
I can teach English or if I want go back to North America and go drag racing.
If I have another child at this stage....hummm,is my life over...or has is it just starting.
I really do not want to start again with the waaaa waaa.
But at the same time I do love children..
Dam...rain coat or no....LOL

Randy



Posted by: mistermopar

Chilli...check out karmen-agency.com
Good volgograd site.
Another is Anistasia.



Posted by: Chillidog

same thoughts exactly.

I know you have 20 (with all the blood flowing to the nether regions, the brain must be starving for blood :eyespop

but here is profile I think is right up your alley

http://www.russianeuro.com/member_p...&searchtotal=27



Posted by: Chillidog

Quote:
Originally Posted by mistermopar
Chilli...check out karmen-agency.com
Good volgograd site.
Another is Anistasia.


I ended up using RussianEuro.com, and very happy with who I found on this site and visiting in September



Posted by: mistermopar

Quote:
Originally Posted by Chillidog
same thoughts exactly.

I know you have 20 (with all the blood flowing to the nether regions, the brain must be starving for blood :eyespop

but here is profile I think is right up your alley

http://www.russianeuro.com/member_p...&searchtotal=27


I can not get on the site????

Randy



Posted by: Chillidog

Quote:
Originally Posted by mistermopar
I can not get on the site????

Randy


Sorry,

I know the site is free to join, you may have to do this, I do not know?

I think as a free member you can search the site, either by city and maybe even by profile number (her profile number is 455205) she is from Volgograd 39 years old 5'2" a real cutie!!!!!



I will PM Sparky114 (he suggested this site to me-where he met his GF and very soon wife)



Posted by: GoingToRussia

WHOA Randy ... you have to check her out. She is drop dead gorgious!!!



Posted by: Buckeye5704

Ditto what GTR said randy! She's a KU YUTIE!



Posted by: blucatz

Nice bright headlights too......



Posted by: shaun1000

Quote:
Originally Posted by mistermopar
Oh yes...If I was still making American or Canadian dollars I would have got a taxi.
But I now live in Russia,and my wadges are not quite the same.
It is very expencive to travel from Volgograd to Volzhski by cab.
But better still,at 21:10 why did Katya not call or send a sms asking where I was.
I sent her a sms at about 21:30 to tell her what happened and still no reply.
I am getting tired of the games,this is not the Olympics.
If she was serious,she would have sent some kind of message.

Randy



True, no one likes a game player and sometimes women are too much like hard work. Enjoy your date with Julie.



Posted by: mistermopar

Quote:
Originally Posted by shaun1000
True, no one likes a game player and sometimes women are too much like hard work. Enjoy your date with Julie.


Thanks Shaun!!

Yes sometimes they are a lot of work.If it is this hard now,what would it be like after you are married?

Randy



Posted by: mistermopar

Quote:
Originally Posted by Chillidog
Sorry,

I know the site is free to join, you may have to do this, I do not know?

I think as a free member you can search the site, either by city and maybe even by profile number (her profile number is 455205) she is from Volgograd 39 years old 5'2" a real cutie!!!!!



I will PM Sparky114 (he suggested this site to me-where he met his GF and very soon wife)


Ok,I joined the site last night,don't remember but I joined LOL (dam Vodka)

I checked out ladies from Volgograd,ages 38-40,there are a lot from Volgograd on this site.
I have wrote to this girl,she has never replied.
I will try again.
She is on a free site,a lot of these girls are on the free site Singles.ru
Yes she is a hottie...

Randy



Posted by: mistermopar

Katya has finally sent me a sms.
Here is a bad translation of what she said.
If wished to see-has arrived, and to say lies to you it is not necessary, much not умешь
To hide.

I didn't lie to her.
But I don't think it will matter,she is pissed and and she will most likely never let me forget it.
I think it is over.But who knows.

Randy