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Originally Posted by GoingToRussia
Get her e-mail address the cheapest and fastest way you can. Cut out these agencies as soon as possible. If she is a "bust", start using good agencies like www.elenasmodels.com, www.freepersonals.ru, or www.allsinglerussiangirls.com.
If you want someone to translate e-mails, find someone on a website or someone through this forum. It will be cheaper. I can ask my fiancee to do it for half the price if you like. I'm not sure she will do it but she might. |
He said she does not have a personal email address! Clean them spec's ole boy!
Thanks for keeping this dinosaur on his toes! 
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Originally Posted by GentleGiant
She may not be confident enough to set one up, or even know how! So set one up for her and send her the details and password to use it!!
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Originally Posted by GentleGiant
She may not be confident enough to set one up, or even know how! So set one up for her and send her the details and password to use it!!
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Originally Posted by Chillidog
...or continue writting her at AnastasiaWeb where it is in this "case" cheaper? or do you still feel that even though it can be proven she is real, that even if I write her at AW (which we have already exchanged 6 letters)that there is the possibilty that some "hairy Boris" will write the return letters to me???
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Originally Posted by GentleGiant
I have used and been happy with Elena's (expensive), Svetlana's (limited catalog) and Bride.ru (small risk of a scammer but lots of women).
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Originally Posted by goforit
Bob, why play with fire? Why take the chance when you don't have to do so?
Get her an email account, call her up, give her the username and password, and then say goodbye to AW. |
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Originally Posted by goforit
Bob, those are all good recommendations. I can even give you some more if you like.
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Originally Posted by GoingToRussia
The Internet cafe will help her set up an account. No need to do it yourself. Just tell her not to share her password with anyone.
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Originally Posted by GoingToRussia
The Internet cafe will help her set up an account. No need to do it yourself. Just tell her not to share her password with anyone.
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Originally Posted by Pin Boy
it's about a dollar an hour to use a computer at an internet cafe in the FSU. not much at all. get away from the clutches of the agency as soon as you can. also, if she is very interested, she'll make the effort if it is not too inconvenient for her to go to there.
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Originally Posted by Chillidog
GFI
when you say "why play with fire" do you mean do not write her at Anastasia even if it is 99% certain she is in fact a real person? |
| so far it seems the consensus is to write her via a personal e-mail and I do understand this logic compeletly. No one knows each person's individual history in our pursuit for a FSU. Mine unfortunately was going fantastic (met a different woman back in 2006, started plans of a second meeting) until we went the personal e-mail route, using Promt (quick history it was not my letters to her but trying to translate the letters I recieved from her) and then commuication problems started to raise up and even phone calls did not resolve the problem and she eventualy ended relationship just prior to sedond meeting. so I am a little "gun shy" of going this route again. |
| Thought $6 dollars a letter was not to big a price to pay. |
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Originally Posted by goforit
Yup. Nothing is certain with AW.
With 100% certainty it is not. |
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Originally Posted by Chillidog
I thought I would post a picture of what I had and lost back in 2006. Do not pay attention to the date on the picture was using a digital camera and every time you change batteries (which happens quite often) you need to reset the date and I forgot half the time.
Picture taken at the Arkhangelsk Airport at 5:30 am on my way back home, this is old news now to me but at the time I did not realize this would be the last time I saw her |
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Originally Posted by blucatz
What happend with that situation?
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Originally Posted by goforit
Personally, unless it is a very short letter, I have all my letters translated. I usually run her letters through the translater just to get an idea what she is saying, but miscommunication does happen, and I would prefer to avoid it, especially in the early stages and when discussing important matters.
I also use a phone translator when speaking, though not all the time. |
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Originally Posted by Chillidog
GFI,
I guess that is where I was naive about Anastasia before joining RMP just never thought that after communication started (not intital letter from girl) that there was a good possibility that I would be corresponding with a "hairy Boris" I guess I bought into the crap that Anastasia was spewing. I also guess I at least have a good read on what is "real" and what is not because of my two trips to Russia, the 1st was to the girl pictured above who I met threw "CuteOnly.com" and the second was a girl I met threw Anastasia. |
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previously you wrote about "google-ing" the girl to find if she is a scammer or on another site. My Question to you is haow often do you actually find this girl doing this? |
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Originally Posted by goforit
It case it wasn't clear I meant that I have all my letters translated by a human being. IMO, too much at stake until you really get to know each other or one of you is very proficient in the other's language.
I know there are exceptions but I would prefer not to take that chance. By the way, phone translation is much cheaper than written translation. |
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Originally Posted by Chillidog
Where did you find these phone translantion people? can you provide me with a means of contacting them? same with the written translation, would much prefer a person translating a letter, depending on price maybe not all but when it is important or personal deffinitly.
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| I agree with your other post too, I would also expect them to be on more than 1 site, especially with the nature of Internet dating buisness, and also agree with your thoughts on scammers. Some people who had good knowledge with AM/RW had said to me about my girl #1 who I had started a K1 on, that it sounded to them that she was a scammer. My reponse was NO F---in Way!!!! I was with her and knew all the in-and-outs of what we both had gone through together, no other person had this knowledge and just because it did not work out in the end, people start yelling Scammer!!! NOT RIGHT! |
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Originally Posted by GentleGiant
Reminds me of the joke Why does California have more lawyers per sq mile than any other place on the planet, and New Jersey have more toxic waste dumps?? New Jersey had first choice!!! |
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Originally Posted by Chillidog
GFI
thanks for all the info and your help and comments. I have just started to keeping a book of sites and info like you just gave me. Much easier then trying to remember and finding the thread you read it in. Also today had my first one-on-one tutoring session on the Russian language from a Russian women who is teaching for a year at the local University here. I have used Pimsleur and Rosetta stone in the past so I know a little but would deffinitly still classify my self as a beginner. Having personal instruction I think is going to be a great help. Again thanks |
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Originally Posted by GentleGiant
A notebook?? Whats the matter with bookmarking it?
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, so my head is swimming so much info I cannot remember which are keeper sites and which are not, so before I add more to this mass confusion
I am just pretending I am Santa, making a list and checking it twice. Plus when I run across something in a thread I write it down instead of opening up another tab looking at the site and then returning to finishing reading the thread, just lets me do it at my own leasure
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Originally Posted by Chillidog
Nothing, I have bookmarked so many websites in the last few weeks, some like dating sites are not worth keeping bookmarked
, so my head is swimming so much info I cannot remember which are keeper sites and which are not, so before I add more to this mass confusion I am just pretending I am Santa, making a list and checking it twice. Plus when I run across something in a thread I write it down instead of opening up another tab looking at the site and then returning to finishing reading the thread, just lets me do it at my own leasure |
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