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Grief - Castle Stormer
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Posted by: DEBBIELEEH

I have just joined this site - my relativity to the Russian Forum is ufortunately remote - I am of Ukranian origin equaled with British maternal origin to the Isle of Man......

As I viewed the original post to the following posts I saw the typical reactions to grief: shock, denial, bargaining....let us take a look as this man's picture and then focus on his response....then let us look at our immediate responses to deny or try to help him fix his problem....what we share is how we respond to our personal reponse.....who needs the grief counseling....who wants to research rather than look....who's trying to save?

Look again at his picture and read his response....he "knew" the situation....he "knows"......he was expressing his loss and love....that is the entry point to communication with him....this is always the entry point

Posted by: Shane

Whoever perpetrated this heinous crime must pay! I am not sure if they were officially married or not. If they were, then the US government can be asked to intervene through diplomatic means. I think the Russian bureaucratic apparatus will take the case much more seriously, and the police will be under much greater pressure to solve the case, if it involves a US citizen. Otherwise they will probably just let it go citing craps like "no motives,no clues, no leads" etc so the police's precious resources can be better allocated to extorting money from the citizens and foreign visitors.

Posted by: Arnold

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Original geschrieben von DEBBIELEEH
.....who needs the grief counseling....he "knew" the situation....

Out of respect for Steve who is trying to get to terms with his loss, I will let your allegations in regard to prior knowledge on his part, and your questioning of the benefit of counseling go for right now.

But know this, you are in error!

You come to the members of this board in a time of grief under the guise of friendship, but what are your true motives?

This is not about you, or your "visions". Frankly, I found your post to be in bad taste. You are not an authority on the subject of life and death.

You are just a human being like the rest of us, don't tell us what we are going through. It is superfluous!

In your profile, you claim to be an intellectual. I always thought that intellectuals use logic when they make a statement?
In the post that starts this thread, you say that communication is good yet counseling is bad. Do you even know, what the function of a grief councelor is? Don't you know that their purpose is to facilitate communication?

Why would you comment negatively on something that you have no knowledge about?

I think that your purpose of posting here is of an egoistical rather than a benevolent nature.

You are obviously looking for a confrontation!

I pity you, for living life with the sole purpose to elicit negative responses in others; this must be quite frustrating, especially when they are onto you.