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Posted by: Trent

I love my russian gf, we met in london and knew each other for several months before I went to russia to meet her friends/family

I'm in my late 20's and my gf is 5 years younger than me so we have plenty in common but what about you 40+ guys running after 21 year old cuties, is it a problem for you trying to find common ground when she wants to spend the night in a r&b club and you want to stay home?

not intended to be offensive, I'm genuinely curious here!

Posted by: searcher

Well Trent,

I don't know if we have too many couples here with such large age differences.

Maybe a few. I do remember one man who was looking for much younger women but he knew what he was in for. He assumed they would eventually leave and he felt it was alright as he had his fun.

Now, that isn't necessarily my point of view, i'm just stating something I remember.

As for me, i'm in my mid 30's and my lady is the same age that I am.

I was a bit leery of finding someone much younger as I felt that common interest and maturity could possibly be an issue. Although, it seems that many younger women from the FSU i've spoken to (on a friendly basis) seem to be very mature indeed and they were quite friendly too.

Posted by: Pin Boy

Trent,

Why do you feel the need to come here and break stones? If you are in your late 20's and you have a girl your age you are happy with, whta do you care about others" situations? I guess you'll be cataloguing stamps or something equally nerdy when you are 40 or that doesn't apply to you because you're so hip to be hangin in r&b clubs???

You obviously have your opinion of such relationships, so why bother asking? BTW I do not have the type of age difference relationship you write about, but many people on this forum are not in the mood for your rudeness as a long time member suffered a terrible, terrible tragedy recently when his GF was murdered.

PB

Posted by: ConnerVT

Calm down, PB, calm down....

First thought that came to my mind was -- if your hanging with girls in the FSU that are spending all of their nights in R&B clubs (or any other club, for that matter), your hangin' with the wrong kind of woman. Or at least, you could find her without traveling a third the way around the planet.

Although I believe that the smaller the age difference between the man and woman, the more likely the relationship will endure, more important is that the two share common attitudes and lifestyles.

Posted by: mistermopar

Trent said,what about you 40+ guys running after 21 year old cuties.

Who told you 40+ guys were running after 21 year old cuties?
Did it happen to come from an artical in a news paper,or TV.
From what I have seen most of the men are going for women not much younger than 5 years of their own age.There are the exceptions where it may happen,but I do not think it is the norm.
Even the older RW are cuties.
I my self would not want to go less then 5 years my age,I would really like to find one a little older than my self.

If you have seen this in an artical,do not always believe what they say,They also try to say that the divorce rate of RW/WM
is 80-90%.There is no true study of it as far as I know.

If anyone knows of one can you let me know,thanks.

Oh,and just to let you know...I am not in my 40's yet

Randy

Posted by: RomanticTX

Guys,

Lets give Trent a break. He has a legitimate question. I don't believe he wants to offend anyone. If you are a man who is 10 or 15 or more years older than your woman, it is obvious that you have many things in common. It is also obvious that you share some activities. Maybe not dancing, but life isn't just a party! Maybe YES dancing! I am a very good dancer (I’m 31). I can dance to techno and rap as well or even better than guys 10 years younger than me.

So if you are going to answer to Trent’s thread, don’t get rude, just say what those activities are.

Posted by: Arnold

Hello Trent!

You have said you met your current GF in London, right?

How did she get there?

Did some digusting, wrinkly fossil enable her to come to Great Britain?

And did he force her to sort stamps?

Is that why she left him? Or was it the lure of the rhythmic sounds of the nearby R&B club?

Is that where you guys met, and fell in love?

Shouldn't you be grateful to trusting old farts like that?

Did this stamp collecting nerd not enable you to snatch up some fine Russian cup cake?

I really don't understand why you are complaining here?

You would have never met your once in a liftime love, had it not been for some trusting old fool who surely financed her travel to the UK where you guys had your chance meeting.

All I am saying is that you would have never met her had it not been for some 40 year old guy, and if you had any character you would have stayed away from this woman, since she was spoken for.

She must have made a promise as well to the 40 year old otherwise he would not have enabled her to come to the UK.

If it is that easy for her to switch lovers, I think you guys deserve one another, because obviously neither one of you are honest or respectable persons.

This last comment is for you old, geriatric, boring, heart-broken, stamp collecting, trusting fool:

Heads up, there are many fish in the see!

Posted by: BlueSkies

TROLL ALERT

Please don't feed the trolls!

Posted by: Arnold

But they are sooo little, cute, and hungry!

Posted by: spamer

Do we know anybody who has done anything like this?

Personally I don't.

Then again dating somebody younger than my eldest child would gross me out.

Why are funny comments running crazy in my head over this thread?

Posted by: Michael Blue

Wow... This was certainly entertaining.