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Don't Y'all believe in Happy Endings ???
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Posted by: estguy

Posted by: Vyesna

I don't believe in endings.

Posted by: bdoug71

I would agree with Vyesna on that one.. Or as a recent song says for every happy ending a new begining is starting.. So you never have an ending without a new beginging and then philosophically that would mean we never have begingings or endings except for birth and death but does it truely start and stop there.

Bruce D

Just a thought and only a thought

Posted by: Peter Burns

I would if I could find the " Happy Endings " - what record label do they record on - is it house / trance / r&b / Rock or garage ?

Posted by: rtking

Naw... I'm a cynic. I believe in the addage, "If I didn't have bad luck, I'd have no luck at all..."

Bob

Posted by: estguy

My sister, a few years my senior, has carried a flame for a boy, and him for her since they were 12. Too close of friends to date in high school, but would be the first friend they called after a date, to share their thoughts. Shortly befor he graduated from college he invited her to move to his state, and "move in" with him. We're a pretty conservative midwestern family, and she declined, took up her career in Vermont. He married a gal 9 months later. My sister married 6 months after that. A few years went by, and they started to call each other on their birthdays, "just checking to see how ya doing" During the next 25 years, my sister raised two fine boys, one an airline pilot, the other MBA in intn'l fiance' (oops). The boy married an upper class girl, who had no children plans, he devoted himself to his career and became very weathy and empty. The birthday calls continued with few interuptions. Last year this boy divorced the upper class girl, about $10mil in settlement. He called my sister on her birthday to wish her well, and her husband answered the phone, he didn't call back. A year went by and my younger sister reading a High School Alumni newsletter, saw the boy had divorced, and called my sister. My sister waited for his birthday, and called, a girl answered. A few months passed and my sister was in town last week for the boy's brother's funeral. She got to meet the boy's new wife, and new baby boy. He saw my sister, took her hand and lead her to his wife and baby, and said "I always thought it would be you and me" , then told her about the last birthday phone call he made.
To me,,this is a hard Ending
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. OH ! BTW,,,I talked to my girl today (2 months since she left)
she misses me : ) and I could tell the time has been difficult, no immediate plans, except for more phone conversations, her grand mother is dying. ( sometimes, even when their is no reason to have faith, more reason to hide and blame and just move on,,,, faith persists.)

Posted by: D in KS

I once believed in happy endings but not anymore

Also use to believe that true love could conquer anything, that has fallen by the wayside as well. I am part of that bad luck or no luck at all group

Debbie

Posted by: searcher

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Originally posted by D in KS
I once believed in happy endings but not anymore Also use to believe that true love could conquer anything, that has fallen by the wayside as well. I am part of that bad luck or no luck at all group Debbie

I believe in true love and that it will conquer all....

the problem in your past was that the love was only one-sided.

You were the only one who loved and it has to be mutual to work.

I believe that in time, you will find someone better.

Posted by: Charles

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I once believed in happy endings but not anymore Also use to believe that true love could conquer anything, that has fallen by the wayside as well. I am part of that bad luck or no luck at all group Debbie

HI there Debbie,
I used to believe in the power of true love also. I have learned that love is only true when the words are backed up by actions. True love is 75% hardwork and 25% forgiveness. Also, true love cannot survive when only one person in a relationship remembers what true love is.
But, I DO BELIEVE IN HAPPY ENDINGS!!!
If we do not, why do we come to this forum?
It is to meet new people, learn about people we have met, care about, and want to have a happy ending with.

Debbie, I hope you find someone who will truly love you back, and give you a happy ending. Good people are out there, but it is hard to recognize them sometimes.

Posted by: D in KS

searcher & Charles, thanks for the kind words. I think the holiday has me down a little bit. Tomorrow is another day

Posted by: estguy

,,and Aero Smith says love s****

Falling in Love is glamorous, intoxicating and dangerous.
Tread lightly into this Union, that is love. Because love is never alone, it is shared and grows between 2 people. It is a conversaton of both words and actions that both contribute to. The "relationship" is an intangible thing that you both create with bricks of kindness, thoughtfulnes, and respect. The more contributions, the stronger the relationship.

....Sometime we need to feel some value in our life,, we "need" to feel loved,, or love able, this is the needy love that easily falls apart. We have to start at I love me. Then we can venture into,,,I will love you, ONLY if you will love me also

Posted by: Charles

Debbie,
This holiday has always been a tough one for me too.
My recipe for a better night is: 1)Make some popcorn, 2)drink some diet Coke, 3)and watch some Family Guy and Futurama on Cartoon Network. That helps me to forget my worries for a while.

Posted by: D in KS

That sounds like a good recipe, Charles. I would have to change that Coke to a diet Pepsi. Right now I am searching for my old Peter Sellers, Pink Panther movies. They just might get me through tonight and tomorrow. I am still looking for that light at the end of the tunnel. So far twice it has been a train

But I am going to keep looking. I still don't believe in "happy" endings. But in thinking about that question I realized , I want a happy continuing instead

Debbie

Posted by: bdoug71

Speaking of tunnels.. Here is a joke to brighten the mood.. Why are New Yorks always mad? Because the light at the end of the tunnel is New Jersey

Bruce D

Still thinking Hell is frozen over.

Posted by: rtking

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Why are New Yorks always mad? Because the light at the end of the tunnel is New Jersey

That's too funny!

Bob
(formerly of Flushing, Queens)