One year

Originally Posted by tonton

Thanks Chris, will get over to RUA a little more as well - after my first few posts on Don's insistence in April during the post-wedding time i was in London, things kind of, well, got homely - your know, focusing on marriage and life is too important! .
I think you also are looking at the same as me in the near future! Haven't read your T/R yet in completion but will do, and best for you buddy!!

Coming again to Uk in a few months....maybe a beer if time permits?

Originally Posted by tonton

Thanks guys, it is not easy and the 'rules' you read on such sites about patience are pretty true. You know, largely it comes down to the type of character you are, and having a pretty flexible work life comes into it.

You can make your own destiny with this endeavor we have all decided upon, and frankly, it is not a game. It is real life, and the most fulfilling thing you can do once you and your partner are compatible. I do read train wreak stories on various sites at times about guys who propose after 1-2 meetings and with minimal time together, and while some of these short meetings do have fruition, I can only extend the thoughts that I have is that 'guys, spend as much time as humanly possibly with her before any fiance visa, k-1 - whatever' is considered. I know it is not possible for all to do this, and I am lucky to travel to Europe 2-3 times each year for business, which was great especially during our early stages together.

It certainly is not like dating at home, but consider your girl by giving her as much knowledge of you before she commits to you - remember, she is making the biggest commitment by leaving country and family and deserves to be treated with utmost respect by making these decisions. She is completely dependant on you for so long, just like a child.

More to come....


GTR - check your PM!