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Posted by: em23

well i didnt get on the plane due to last minute financial problems. however i should be on a flight within two weeks. the good news is that i get to go to the rmp get-together! considering i live in LA it would be crazy for me NOT to attend.

im writing to 3 ladies and ill probably line up 2 more after that. i was starting to get attached to one woman in particular but i have to be careful with my feelings considering what happened to me last year. im travelling to kharkov this time as opposed to kiev.

now im going to admit im very concerned. my friend is going through a really messy divorce from a UW. but then again many people who met her from the beginning could tell she was a scammer and he was blinded by love (a blind sloth could have seen that this woman was bad news). this time around im going to line up several ladies and i will not commit to ONE woman. im going to get to know them as much as time permits, and even then ill be wary of what they say.

i have to admit im a very cynical person when it comes to this. one thing that bothers me is that many of them flood me with compliments. they find me to be very handsome to them. at that point i get very suspicious, i NEVER get compliments like that here in LA, and i consider myself to be normal and average in my appearance.

i want to meet successful couples so i can get a perspective on rw/am marriages. last year's trip was a disaster for me, and this year i think i have a couple of ladies lined up. i just hope they understand that im being delayed a couple of weeks. after finding this site;

http://www.1232andre.com/

and reading about some negative experiences on this board im searching for successful couples to counter the argument. hopefully the get together will offer a chance for this.

Posted by: sidney

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i want to meet successful couples so i can get a perspective on rw/am marriages.

I feel that I'm in a successful marriage. You are welcome to stop in for a visit and a talk anytime you're in PA. We will celebrate 6 years of marriage on the 6th. Have two sons. My wife is attending college so it's hectic at times. We both worked very hard at everything but we play hard too. My wife was accepted at college when some of the locals had to take additional english class because they weren't up to speed. She was on the deans list last month in a course that has a sizeable failure rate.(plastics and polimers at penn tech which is the technical end of penn state) She gives me much to be proud of. I do wish you all the happiness I've experienced. Life is good.
Sid

Posted by: em23

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Originally Posted by sidney

im very happy for you. and it IS great to hear that not all rw/uw are as cold and negative as i have read. frankly i was terrified after i saw what a friend of mine is going through now. its hard to believe some people can be so cold and cruel at times.