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Another one bites the dust

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Posted by: shaun1000

Are their any genuine Russian women out there, another relationship bites the dust, where do I find them.

Explain more later.



Posted by: Chrismc

Sorry to hear that Shaun, no chance of a reconciliation I suppose?



Posted by: ham

Quote:
Are their any genuine Russian women out there, another relationship bites the dust, where do I find them.


well, i suppose put that way it sounds a bit too apodictic.
What to say...if you have been scammed or simply misled/fooled, and that was calculated and done on purpose, then you could say there was no "relationship" to begin with.
Women are women...from another country, not another planet after all.



Posted by: Pin Boy

hi shaun,

i went back and read your other threads and i'm sorry this has gone belly up on you. remember, if you throw enough $@%! at the wall, something sticks. that's my motto

pin boy



Posted by: firemansam

Quote:
Originally Posted by shaun1000
Are their any genuine Russian women out there, another relationship bites the dust, where do I find them.

Explain more later.

Hi Shaun. Sorry to hear this news mate. But to answer your question, You already know the answer. Yes! There are real genuine women out there. Only you have not found YOURS yet. Do not dispair. Take some time to yourself and when you are ready, look again.

Honestly, mine fell into my lap when I wasn't really expecting it.... Maybe you could try to think you are not looking??

PM me if you wanna chat further mate.

Take care of yourself,

Sam.



Posted by: shaun1000

Cheers Sam

I am Ok, this time i thought I had found someone who liked me for me and not the money.

I will give a brief overview.


When i left Tatyana in Kiev things were really good, our first chat on Skype upon our return she said she had waited all day at her computer to make sure I was not a dream.

About six weeks later we had a misunderstanding but after two days we carried on as before.

Tatyana started work and the possibility of a quick meeting again diminished I kept asking but she said I have to work you will be stuck in apartment all alone.

May came along and my 40th birthday I said I come and see you, again the same answer so i went to Paris on my own, spent my 40th birthday on the Eifel Tower and in a fancy resturant. Tatyana was not happy but I explained I go on holiday on my own before we met, so why be upset.

We carried on chatting and the days fly into July, I ask to visit same answer I go to Turkey she is upset then goes to Turkey herself in August.

By this time i had realised she was not the women for me, but we chatted a few times a week.

Then last week she tells me we can meet I am going to Kharkov for course we can meet there. But for this to happen can I pay her course fees and make her dream come true. SO our friendship basically came down to $600 that she wanted from me, if I didnt pay then I was not a true man or rich man because $600 is not alot of money, and she would only marry a rich man if she was going to live abroad.

So I said goodbye I don`t buy friends or love.

One thing always troubled me about Tatyana her contempt of money and the way she handled it.

Thats about it basically, Tatyana thinks of Tatyana only.

I feel I have learnt from this experience, I certainly don`t regret it, how many people get to go to Kiev when the temps -8 or would want too.


To sum up I think I am getting closer to the right women just have to keep going.


Cheers all hopefully fourth time lucky.

Peace

Shaun



Posted by: GoingToRussia

I know 2 RW about your age looking for marriage. One wants childen and the other doesn't. PM me if you are interested.



Posted by: Big wheel

sorry to hear about your past luck. i wish you the best of luck.



Posted by: 4x4living

Quote:
Originally Posted by shaun1000
So I said goodbye I don`t buy friends or love.



Hi Shaun, U shouldn't feel sorry at all,, i guess you are lucky that you discoverd that before taking a step farther or wasting more time.


I 'll borrow your words above to open a new thread

Good luck



Posted by: royalpalace774

Quote:
Originally Posted by shaun1000
Cheers Sam

I am Ok, this time i thought I had found someone who liked me for me and not the money.

I will give a brief overview.


When i left Tatyana in Kiev things were really good, our first chat on Skype upon our return she said she had waited all day at her computer to make sure I was not a dream.

About six weeks later we had a misunderstanding but after two days we carried on as before.

Tatyana started work and the possibility of a quick meeting again diminished I kept asking but she said I have to work you will be stuck in apartment all alone.

May came along and my 40th birthday I said I come and see you, again the same answer so i went to Paris on my own, spent my 40th birthday on the Eifel Tower and in a fancy resturant. Tatyana was not happy but I explained I go on holiday on my own before we met, so why be upset.

We carried on chatting and the days fly into July, I ask to visit same answer I go to Turkey she is upset then goes to Turkey herself in August.

By this time i had realised she was not the women for me, but we chatted a few times a week.

Then last week she tells me we can meet I am going to Kharkov for course we can meet there. But for this to happen can I pay her course fees and make her dream come true. SO our friendship basically came down to $600 that she wanted from me, if I didnt pay then I was not a true man or rich man because $600 is not alot of money, and she would only marry a rich man if she was going to live abroad.

So I said goodbye I don`t buy friends or love.

One thing always troubled me about Tatyana her contempt of money and the way she handled it.

Thats about it basically, Tatyana thinks of Tatyana only.

I feel I have learnt from this experience, I certainly don`t regret it, how many people get to go to Kiev when the temps -8 or would want too.


To sum up I think I am getting closer to the right women just have to keep going.


Cheers all hopefully fourth time lucky.

Peace

Shaun


Hi Shaun, I think you did the right thing. She has some guts asking you for the $600.00. And for her to tell you she would only marry a rich man to live abroad. What a little "bi--h she is for saying that. And she also tells you $600 is not alot of money. So if it's not alot of money why doesn't she have $600.

Just when you think you might have a good thing with a women she ruins it with some pretty stupid things. You have better things to do than to give in to her and her childish views. GOOD LUCK 2 YA! BETTER THINGS ARE COMIN YOUR WAY!



Posted by: shaun1000

[QUOTE=royalpalace774]Hi Shaun, I think you did the right thing. She has some guts asking you for the $600.00. And for her to tell you she would only marry a rich man to live abroad. What a little "bi--h she is for saying that. And she also tells you $600 is not alot of money. So if it's not alot of money why doesn't she have $600.


Hi Royalpalace

She didn`t have the mpney because she spent it going to Turkey even though she knew she needed it for her course. I asked her this that was her reply.

Well she must have found someone to pay for it because she left Tuesday for Khargov, we had chat on SKype and she asked for help again with a winking smiley, I sent one back saying I had explained why I couldn`t help.Also with a winking smiley.


At least we parted as friends which is always better. I am going to do a list of things I have learnt from Tatyana.



Posted by: royalpalace774

Quote:
Originally Posted by shaun1000
[QUOTE=royalpalace774]Hi Shaun, I think you did the right thing. She has some guts asking you for the $600.00. And for her to tell you she would only marry a rich man to live abroad. What a little "bi--h she is for saying that. And she also tells you $600 is not alot of money. So if it's not alot of money why doesn't she have $600.


Hi Royalpalace

She didn`t have the mpney because she spent it going to Turkey even though she knew she needed it for her course. I asked her this that was her reply.

Well she must have found someone to pay for it because she left Tuesday for Khargov, we had chat on SKype and she asked for help again with a winking smiley, I sent one back saying I had explained why I couldn`t help.Also with a winking smiley.


At least we parted as friends which is always better. I am going to do a list of things I have learnt from Tatyana.


Hi Shaun,

I'm sure you know what is best for you in this situation. It just seems as if she thought you would be there ready to pay for some things for her and when you didn't it surprised her because she was probably pretty sure you would give in and you did not.

Good luck!



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