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The Body Language Of Your FSU Women When You Are Alone & When With Her Parents
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Posted by: royalpalace774

Hi Guys,
I just wanted to start this thread and see what some of you have noticed with your FSU girlfriends body language towards you when you are alone with her and when the two of you are with her parents.

And I don't mean the most intimate of body language. I mean the normal everyday stuff.

Is there a difference in her body language when the 2 of you are alone?

Is there a difference when you are all together with her parents ?

And do you think it depends on what stage of the relationship you are in with her?

When I talk about body language I mean : When you are alone does she hold your hand whether in public or when you are alone. Maybe when her parents are with you she does not do this. This is just an example. Do you notice any differences.

Or does she show less affection when the 2 of you are with her parents and friends.

Of course there are going to be many different opinions and observations about this. And I thought it would be interesting to hear from the many of you what you have noticed or experienced with your FSU women.

Of course some people are more outgoing in their personalities and it shows in this area also. And sometimes the same outgoing person is different when her or his parents are together with you.

Posted by: Spakoyna

RP,the majority of FSU women will be night and day with the situation you are describing. This is probably not true with the younger ladies. Showing public affection is a taboo that is engrained into mainy FSU people.

I will describe the evolution of my wife.

1st trip...different city from her hometown....Seemed normal as we weren't to the showing of public affection stage.

2nd trip her hometown. Clash,Clash,Clash! Examples: 2 seats in the back of the bus and 1 up front...she'd boot me to the back and sit in the front! Yikes
Taxi's...she'd have me sit in the front. LOL,I'd confront her about this and she finally said it was difficult for her to slide to the other side. This came to a head when we were going to visit her mother....Order a cab and it was onna dem monster sized Volga's. I jump in the cab quickly and smoke my butt on the seat getting to the other side. I look up and she jumps in the front with the cabbie.

That was when I drew the line and put my foot down. I had never been so embarrassed in my life.

3rd trip...different city.....Moscow...flashback time...About the only time we had big issues was in the metro. It was like once she stepped through those doors she was a completely different person. She would grab the first seat she got to even though there other places if we were quick we could sit together.I would stand with her until I could sit beside her even with her pointing and telling me to sit elsewhere. Her wakeup call was a good discussion with our married interpretor friend. She told her I don't sit in the subway because my husband and I will not leave each other. We always sit together etc. By the end of the trip my wife would even ask people to move over so we could sit together. She even sat in my lap on onna the minibusses. This is something you will never see and FSU couple in their 40's doing.

4th trip...rebuking the old ways!...This was best described by an incident while we were staying at the Dachha with her mother. We were sitting outside and my wife was sitting in my lap. Some neighbors walked by and were looking at us. Her mother jumpped my wife telling her people do not do this! My wife sat their calmly and told her mother this is how people in America who love each other do!

In America....I have created a monster!

She is so open with her affections at times now I sometimes get embarrassed!

Hope this helps!

Posted by: GoingToRussia

Well my FSUW is in her 40s, I'm in my 50s. When I first met her at the airport she gave me her cheek to kiss. In the cab we held hands. At the end of the evening I kissed her cheek goodnight. I think the 2nd night I got a good night kiss on the lips in my room ... couldn't get to sleep that night.

On the 3rd day we were kissing in public in front of people she knew, we were inseparable ... always touching or kissing. Her son told his mother he was embarassed to see 2 "old timers" kissing in public! She still wanted me to touch and kiss her in public after what he said. Her son got use to it.

Now my X was a different story, about the only thing we could do in public is hold hands. But when we were alone ... WHEW - I saw stars!!!

Posted by: deccie

Hey RP. I have not noticed too many differences. K will complain when I pat her behind in public but then when I don't do it she complains more. (-:

The only other difference I note is that when her mum is around she is slightly more restrained.. i.e. she doesn't jump on me! Which she does on a regular basis when her mum is NOT around!

Posted by: AkMike

I haven't noticed any changes in Tanya's behavior at home or in public. It's all good!
When her GF's are around here or when we go to their homes she holds hands with me. He folks are dead so I can't use that as an example. But her son thinks it's great that us "old timers" still can show love.

Posted by: Texas Proud

I have only met her mother once and she was the same as before...

Interesting about Spanks info.... my lady always wants to sit next to me if she can... and she knows I have a bad back and will let me sit if there is only one seat available (I only do it when my back is hurting... but she offers all the time).. so, different ways for different people...

Now, ask about ME!!! I was different around some of her friends and her mother... but that is because I am 'closed' (as she says) until I get to know someone...

Posted by: freebird

Mine always seems a little concerned about affection etc. but only in her home town where many people know her...

Posted by: joelunchbox

To put this in perspective...my ex (american) wife is stout southern baptist. There is a two faced situation! She never loosened up.
Just remember, people are people. We are all are just looking for a good match.

Posted by: redhawk

my 29 yr. old RW is very reserved by nature,(like an asian) she is half kalmykian,half russian.
when i met her the first time at the airport with her friend,we hugged each other and i kissed her on the cheek.
she was very shy and even hid a little from photos!(always concerned about her appearance,god i love that!)
after one day together,we knew it was right,and things loosened up a bit.
as we saw moscow together we were holding hands most the time, even in the taxis.
when we traveled to kalmykia to meet her family and stay with them a week,we slept in the same room,every night, her parents, sister and brother in law,neices and even her old friends she went to school with were very nice and liked me very much. ok, ill stop bragging now. sorry guys.she was VERY attentive to my needs as far as food and everything

is concerned and did act a little more conservative around them about displaying affection,but when we left the apartment to walk around elista,she held my hand again.

Posted by: GoingToRussia

Go ahead and brag redhawk ... it sounds like a normal RW ... or at least like mine. Her son was a little embarrased because we always held hands and kissed in public!!! Quite an amazing group of women.