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My ex Girlfriend is looking for a better boyfriend
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Posted by: Calgarian

Here is her profile on a marriage agency. It is unfortunately that things never worked out with us, but she is a really beautiful lady.
She has basic English and no computer, but this agency will translate letters and give them to her.
I have her home phone number, email, and more photos of her if you like.

Paul Holmes
https://www.fiance.com/agency.asp?m...53-37725&what=o

Posted by: weather-7

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Originally Posted by Calgarian

Here is her profile on a marriage agency. It is unfortunately that things never worked out with us, but she is a really beautiful lady.
She has basic English and no computer, but this agency will translate letters and give them to her.
I have her home phone number, email, and more photos of her if you like.

Paul Holmes
https://www.fiance.com/agency.asp?m...53-37725&what=o

Do you look for a boyfriend for your ex? How strange....

Posted by: Longfellow

Does the idea of respect miss you?
What right do you feel to give out the personal information of someone you phrase as 'girlfriend'? I feel sullied that this is an example of how a Western man behaves in the face of disappointment. Sorry if this sounds harsh, but I would not want to have others think this portrays we freedom-loving Westerners.
Friends don't expose or betray one another...

Posted by: inlove

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Originally Posted by Calgarian

Paul,
I don't know about your relationship with your ex, as well as your motives of advertising her over here. Maybe your motives are pure, and you just want to help the girl out, but please don't give her phone number and email address to stranges on the Internet. You really don't know who those people are, and it should be her call to decide to whom she wants to give her personal information. Nobody wants a crazy stalker on their tail.

Posted by: Calgarian

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Does the idea of respect miss you?

If you think about it, then you will understand that it is better to help some you care about and lose them, then just lose them. I tried to help this lady out and we are completely incompatible, but I still want her to have a good life. You mean as soon as you break up, you do not care what happens to your ex. You do not try to be friends and hope she will find a good man.

Second, Inlove, I am not going to give this information freely, but only under certain circumstances. She speaks little English and it will based on her approval. Also with a little information, I can find out how many times you farted today.

I made a promise to help this lady, but I am always arguing with her. Our personalities are different. I am offering to broker a relationship with another person. Maybe I am not like some of the others to go over seas and play hide the hamburger and then dump the girl when you find out you are not compatible. Maybe I am person who actually wants to find a good person so this beautiful lady can marry someone of quality and compatibility.
Sorry Longfellow, but I was with lady for 4 years and helped her extensively, but in the end, we are not compatible. I am not dumping this girl to go back to the village like twits like Winston Wu did. I want her to be happy and I was hoping that I could find someone to start a new friendship with her. I just do not want her to be used and lied to like many marriage agencies do to these girls.

Posted by: Calgarian

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Do you look for a boyfriend for your ex? How strange....

Why is this strange? Maybe from bitter divorced been burned WEstern marriage perspective, yes, but if you actually care for someone that you actually want to see them do well. She speaks little English and does not have a computer, thus I help her. Would you believe that my first Russian girlfriend and I are still very good friends and I even offered her stay at my house to watch the Olympics. Why is it so strange that you care about someone and watch them be happy with someone else or do you have the same idea Chris Benoit that you have kill the wife and child when you get a divorce.

Posted by: joelunchbox

I have been playing cupid for my ex-wife for years. And I am not paying alimony to her. she is a nice person and I care about her. I wish you and her luck.

Posted by: Calgarian

Thank you, despite breaking up, I am still going to pay for her English lessons also. Like I said, I cared for her for 4 years and unfortunately it was not the same with her. I hope she will marry some fine man and be happy.

Posted by: mistermopar

I clicked on the link and all I got was the web site,no photo or info.

Well I can't say what you are doing is wrong,I remember years back when me and a girl friend broke up after 7 years,I tried helping her out for a while,but not find her a boy friend.

Randy

Posted by: joelunchbox

Is 37725 her profile number? if it is, once you are at the site, do a search for that profile. The person that is attached to 37725 is very cute, sounds like a nice person, too. I think it is nice what you are doing. I don't think many people could detach themselves enough to do this.

Posted by: Longfellow

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Originally Posted by Calgarian

I have her home phone number, email, and more photos of her if you like.

I can understand you're desire to see a dear friend make a good match and even help her if you can. I also do not disown people I care about simply because we have chosen not to continue romantic involvement.
It was the context of the quoted statement from your post at the start of this thread that made it sound as if you were trying to pimp her out or offering to reveal her personal data independent of her consent.
Sorry for misunderstanding.

Posted by: bingism

I understand the intent and the reasons behind it, but (a big BUT), I don't think this is healthy for either of you. Bottom line is that this is an "ex" relationship and, IMHO, it would be better for both people to let each other find their own way in life, whilst at the same time trying to maintain a friendship. Trying to "help" her, could well be interpreted as a sub-conscious form of life control... maybe something to consider very carefully before proceeding wit hthis endeavour

Posted by: Calgarian

http://www.fiance.com/gallery-questionnarie-73662.html

Here is the link proper
I would agree with you, but all I am going to do is give advice, not pick out the man for her. I am not even taking emails per say, but giving this link.

Posted by: Rockyof Florida

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Originally Posted by Calgarian

Well all I can say is "Good Luck with that"

Posted by: freebird

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Originally Posted by Calgarian

http://www.fiance.com/gallery-questionnarie-73662.html

Here is the link proper
I would agree with you, but all I am going to do is give advice, not pick out the man for her. I am not even taking emails per say, but giving this link.

If the girls ID # is 73662 she is not available on the site anymore - maybe she did find someone.

Posted by: Felice

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Originally Posted by Calgarian

I made a promise to help this lady, but I am always arguing with her. Our personalities are different. I am offering to broker a relationship with another person. Maybe I am not like some of the others to go over seas and play hide the hamburger and then dump the girl when you find out you are not compatible. Maybe I am person who actually wants to find a good person so this beautiful lady can marry someone of quality and compatibility.
Sorry Longfellow, but I was with lady for 4 years and helped her extensively, but in the end, we are not compatible. I am not dumping this girl to go back to the village like twits like Winston Wu did. I want her to be happy and I was hoping that I could find someone to start a new friendship with her. I just do not want her to be used and lied to like many marriage agencies do to these girls.

I want to start friendship with her

Posted by: AkMike

[QUOTE=Felice]I want to start friendship with her

This sounds very much like a commercial solicitation..

Posted by: JamesB

Maybe you have good intentions , but i think once you and this lady have parted that you should let her get on with her own life .
I really dont think that you have the right to offer this persons details as it is not for you to choose people for her.

Good luck and i hope you find a new girl.

Posted by: Pin Boy

i believe this is a business that felice has been promoting since she joined. this link is not allowed. sorry.