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Does anyone know this new game???
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Posted by: MrPraesident

Hello,

I am from Germany. I met a girl in Moscow. She is 28 years old. I was over the weekend 4 days in Moscow. She had every day only 2 hour time for me. At the last day i was in her flat. She was nice, i kissed her, we had no sex. Her behaviour was passive. She never wanted money from me. I did not see any Scam. But - she do not want visit me with a normal visa! She always says that she want a visa for marriage. She do not want go back to Russia.

Does anyone know the real reason why she wants only a visa for marriage?

MrPraesident

Posted by: inlove

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Originally Posted by MrPraesident

Hello,

I am from Germany. I met a girl in Moscow. She is 28 years old. I was over the weekend 4 days in Moscow. She had every day only 2 hour time for me. At the last day i was in her flat. She was nice, i kissed her, we had no sex. Her behaviour was passive. She never wanted money from me. I did not see any Scam. But - she do not want visit me with a normal visa! She always says that she want a visa for marriage. She do not want go back to Russia.

Does anyone know the real reason why she wants only a visa for marriage?

MrPraesident

How can we possibly know why some girl from Moscow wants to marry you?

Posted by: ira156

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Originally Posted by MrPraesident

Well Mister....maybe she has concerns about the sex slave trade...much publicised late;y??? But seriously you say you have spent a total of 8 hrs together and a few kisses and she wants to marry you??????????

Posted by: Leprechaun

She wants out and you are her one way ticket.

Thats what I get from your short story.

Posted by: MrPraesident

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Originally Posted by Leprechaun

She wants out and you are her one way ticket.

Thats what I get from your short story.

I'm afraid that You are right :-(

Posted by: Leprechaun

Post more of your story please and we will see if im right, MrPraesident.

Posted by: MrPraesident

Now she has found out, that she also can marry me with a guest visa in Denmark.

Posted by: Leprechaun

How long do you know this girl?

Please write more of the story, theres no way we can advise with such little information.

Posted by: Zmejka

First i would ask her why she's thinking you're compatible after being together 4 days? Really could be interesting to hear what reasons could she give. Then you could try to explain why you think it's important for her at least to try and get visa to your country to see how you live overthere, by the way - has she ever been abroad? May be she's under attack from the family that could sometimes happen when a girl is still single at 28 - then any candidate could seem good. There's sure too little information about her - how long did you communicate before, what is the level of her English (or German), did you discuss before in the letters questions of marriage, trust, was she married before or had long relationship?
Tell her at least that marriage is too serious action for you to decide on after a few days, that you want it to last - and her behavor is a bit out of norm. Communication is a great tool people can use

Posted by: MrPraesident

@Zmejka
You are a good writer. I hope you had no copyright on your last reply ;-)
I wrote her also my opinion about the next meeting (not so much out of norm).

Her English in an interesting mix between English and German. It is not easy to communicate with her, but not impossible. She translates her letters with translate.ru. She is on the search since more then one year. My first letter to her was at the first January. And yes, she was some years ago in Germany for some weeks.

Posted by: Leprechaun

So you only know this woman 6 weeks, cannot communicate properly, and wants to marry.

Danger, just because she doesnt want money does not make this a scam.

You dont know this woman at all.

Posted by: Zmejka

No, i didn't have any copyright, thanks for the compliment

So i think your common sense gives you a hint how you should take it all - slowly

because it's the process of chosing a wife for a life time (some people though can think differently of it) and not something you can get back to the store (again some people can think differently of it). If she's in the hurry it shouldn't influence you - in this matter interests of both should be taken into considiration. If she's serious about strong relationship she will understand you, if not - better for you then, no dissappointment in the future

Posted by: MrPraesident

Okay, now she wants to be invited for 3 months.
But there is another problem. She has not deleted her profile and she has refreshed her profile at the same day when she told me that she love me. I have told her in my last letter that i have a problem with that! She only explained me that the system had put her profile on the top because she has changed data.
Zmejka, do you have some nice words to explain her, that i do not invite her, as long as she has not deleted her profiles? Or shall i say to her: GAME OVER!!!

Posted by: Pin Boy

you're rushing things way too much. continue to correspond and plan to visit another time. see if she is agreeable to that. if not, you have to consider why she wants to rush things so much. please be careful.

pin boy

Posted by: Leprechaun

How can a woman you know 7 weeks be in love with you?

Posted by: rk288

Go and visit her again for at least one week when she can have time off to be with you and show you Moscow. Meet ther family and friends. This is very important.

Do you speak Russian?

RK

Posted by: MrPraesident

The end of the story:
She has a wonderful smile and a beautiful laugh, but i have broken the contact to her. I couldn't belief her anything :-(
I think the game would be, that she would search for another man, as son as she would be outside Russia.
MrPraesident