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my experience with the cute only agencie
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Posted by: master

Hello All

I am a lawyer from montreal canada and I joined today the cute only agencie .After a few months of learning on internet dating site i chose that site because that you can get a month membership for a good price, you can contact as many ladies as you want for the month without extra charge for every email, and you can give your email and phone info in your message .That way if you meet a nice girl on the site, and after the initial contact you may continue to chat with her on hotmail or msn without using the cute only site.And talk on the phone direcxtly with her one day to see if she is really interested in you.

I will come back to tell you if the cuteonly good or not.

Marc

Posted by: Khashyar

Hi master,

Welcome to the Russian Meeting Place.

Yes, please post your experiences with the "cute only" agency.

I placed your message in the marriage agency discussion section.

I look forward to your participation in the forums.

Khashyar

Posted by: master

hello all !
I finaly join the cuteonly dating site a few days ago. I received a few emails, and i am waiting to see how this will go. I am scared of scammers as hell. But i just found a way to avoid them. Usually scammers wont take time to read your email completely. So what i do, is that i ask them a question in the middle of my email. And i tell them it's to make sure they read all my message. So if they dont answer my specific question, it's becaus they did not read my email completely, and itS the first sign of a scammer. I will come back to see if they read completely my message

Marc

Posted by: EasyTarget

There is no sure fire way to tell if a person is a scammer. I usually put questions in my emails to see if they reply, and if they are paying attention. However sometimes a woman may not reply to a question because the agency didn't translate all of your email, the woman didn't understand the question, Is replying to numerous emails and doesn't have time to answer all of your questions.

I wouldn't be too nervous about scammers, read about the warning signs, but remember the rule, nothing ventured nothing gained.

Posted by: Dave_N_Elvira

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Originally Posted by master

hello all !
I finaly join the cuteonly dating site a few days ago. I received a few emails, and i am waiting to see how this will go. I am scared of scammers as hell. But i just found a way to avoid them.

You will find scammers hard to avoid. The whole correspondence aspect of the process is overrun with them. However stick to the one golden rule NEVER SEND MONEY and you will be none the worse for wear.

Posted by: Texas Proud

Master...

I think YOU are a scammer... only two posts and both about a site nobody knows about... and telling us what most all of us know about scammer!!!

If you work for the agency... get lost.... if you don't... then stop talking about it and remove it from your post... if you don't.... well, then you prove what I say..

Have a good day..

Posted by: chippie

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Originally Posted by Texas Proud

Master...

I think YOU are a scammer... only two posts and both about a site nobody knows about... and telling us what most all of us know about scammer!!!

If you work for the agency... get lost.... if you don't... then stop talking about it and remove it from your post... if you don't.... well, then you prove what I say..

Have a good day..

Hey Texas,
I have looked at the site that Master refers to, so they are not unknown. I think that he may be new to the whole RW idea, and is a little Skiddish. Go easy on the guy.
I myself am writing from Belarus and have been here for 2 weeks. I came as an engaged man and now am single again. That is another story. I'll fill a trip report. I have 1 week still here.
I think that as you said he needs to be aware of scammers, but that shouldn't keep him from trying to meet the right woman. He obviously wants a woman that he can communicate with and that reads everything. Nothing wrong with that.

Master, even after making a connection, always have a back-up plan when going to meet your RW. Mine fell through and the agency that I am with has worked hard to keep me busy. They're great. Good luck!

chippie

Posted by: GoingToRussia

Hi Chippie,

Sorry things didn't work out for you. It seems it's the American's turn for bad news, you're the 3rd one within a month. Bad things come in 3s, so they say. Hopefully our bad luck is over!

I hope you enjoy the rest of your trip.

Posted by: Texas Proud

Chippie...

Sorry to hear the bad news... I am in the same boat.. visited my lady and we had a lot of differences.. she still wants to be together, I am against it... she got me way to frustrated every day... so I am in limbo right now... don't know if I want to 'work it out' or try for another...

And I am suspicious of a new person coming online and talking up a site that makes money in post number one AND number two (with only two posts!!!)..

As I said, if he REMOVES the references to the agency I will believe he is one of the rest of us... if he does not, I will believe he is a shill for the agency... My beliefs, nobody else has to believe the same...

Will be looking for your post when you get back if you want to talk about it...

Posted by: GoingToRussia

Sorry to hear this TP. I know how you feel. I don't think I would want to repair my relationship even if I could.

I think maybe the Aussies put a hex on us ... took it off of them and gave it to us!

This is a great place to vent and tell your tale. If helped me get past a lot of sadness.

Good Luck TP!

Posted by: Texas Proud

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Originally Posted by GoingToRussia

Sorry to hear this TP. I know how you feel. I don't think I would want to repair my relationship even if I could.

I think maybe the Aussies put a hex on us ... took it off of them and gave it to us!

This is a great place to vent and tell your tale. If helped me get past a lot of sadness.

Good Luck TP!

GTR... mine is not even close to what you have gone through... yours decided to 'scam' you... mine did no such thing... she is a great woman that I like a lot... it is just that she can get on my nerves when we were together with constant questions and talking... and when I ask her to be quiet... she doesn't... but will continue to follow me asking me to answer...

Who knows... maybe we can work it out in the end...

Posted by: master

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Originally Posted by Texas Proud

First texas i am not a scammer. I am a french canadian lawyer that is sharing his 40 dollards exp�rience with the cute only agencie. That's it buddy.

Hey ! you should be smooth enought to know that you have to talk to your girl in a relation to grow as a men .......

For those who cares about my exp�rience..........I had my first virtual contact via msn.........Not very nice exchange with the lady.She mention very fast that she loves big houses and my 300,000 $ condo seem kind of small to her lolll Can you imagine . She also ask me how mutch money makes a lawyer to finally mention that she likes bentley cars lollll She could a pick a mercedez for god sake lolll
We exchange few photos live via msn. And to my suprise , she also wanted me to call her.I offerd to talk live via msn, she said that i was cheep lollll
I noticed quickly that she was not only a gold digger , but also very polite lollll

So no need to tell you that she is off my list

I stil have to explore a message from a university teacher that looks very interesting. that one also should be very easy to reed if she is a scammer I will let you know as soon as i have news...........

Master

Posted by: WhittierRWBound

I don't know if this is doable to better detect scammers. If by writing emails the RW relies on the agency and the agency does not correctly translates, then one cannot conlude that she is a scammer.

If on the other hand, one asks specific questions to detect scam by the answers only by written letters sent to her, then it may be slower but a better way to see if indeed one is conversing with a real lady.

necessary conditions: one must have her address or phone number

Posted by: ///Tarik

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Originally Posted by master

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For those who cares about my exp�rience..........I had my first virtual contact via msn.........Not very nice exchange with the lady.She mention very fast that she loves big houses and my 300,000 $ condo seem kind of small to her lolll Can you imagine . She also ask me how mutch money makes a lawyer to finally mention that she likes bentley cars lollll She could a pick a mercedez for god sake lolll
.........Master

Sorry to say this, but what the heck are you doing telling a woman you meet on the Internet what property you own and how much it costs. That is just not right. If it at all compares, we all live in bird-houses over here in the West, as such things as brick construction, lot size and ceiling height are valued over there. As far as a question of wages , it's a really common lately and is not considered inpolite. But is hard for them to get a grip on what's what over here as costs of living are different and the concept of income tax are also way off, so all you have to say is that you have enough, if she presses, explain it is a topic we don't usually discuss, or move on to a lady that has some better manners. Please don't talk details like that early on in you just getting to know each-other. My two cents.

Posted by: vic2012

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Originally Posted by ///Tarik

Sorry to say this, but what the heck are you doing telling a woman you meet on the Internet what property you own and how much it costs. That is just not right.

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Originally Posted by Vic2012

So imagine my surprise when I found that more than half the women on my top 20 list of a year before, were still there, looking for partners. So what does that tell you. Either they are extremely picky and are prepared to hang on indefinitely or they are not getting quality reponses.

Give them their due, at least they are generally clear in what they want and if you can't provide it, just dont go there.

Look for someone who wants love, affection and emotional security. There are thousands of girls out there who are looking for a better quality of life, not just a better quality of living.

Posted by: chippie

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Originally Posted by vic2012

You get all sorts.
Some women have a shopping list and if you can't tick all her required boxes and provide all the financial information she's looking for, she's off! You usually find these are the good looking girls who have professional photos and often pose provocatively. And they're prepared to wait.

Give them their due, at least they are generally clear in what they want and if you can't provide it, just dont go there.

Look for someone who wants love, affection and emotional security. There are thousands of girls out there who are looking for a better quality of life, not just a better quality of living.

Hey vic,
I agree with you. Some of the women have a specific list of things they want if they are going to pick up and move. The good thing is at least they are up front. Most men will not waste any more time on them and move on, so it is good for both people I think.

chippie