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) and she is 25 . A few weeks ago I ask her if it comes to the case , if she could come to Portugal , she said yes and the next day she told she went to the travel agency and the price is between 650-780 euros flight and visa . Then I decide I´d rather visit her some time . Last week she send me an email and instead of signing Olga she sign Lena , just after 2-3 hours later she send another one apologizing for that , Lena is her other name that her god mother gave in church and very few people knows it and is quite a secret . Theres somebody that knows sométhing about the Russian coulture and help me on this ?|
Originally Posted by rui
Hi guys , I´m Portuguese so my english is not the best . I posted my profile on the site BRIDE RU., it was free . Some girls contacted me , but since about 3 months ago I just comunicate with one russian girl . I´m 36 but I do a lot of sport (I look well
) and she is 25 . A few weeks ago I ask her if it comes to the case , if she could come to Portugal , she said yes and the next day she told she went to the travel agency and the price is between 650-780 euros flight and visa . Then I decide I´d rather visit her some time . Last week she send me an email and instead of signing Olga she sign Lena , just after 2-3 hours later she send another one apologizing for that , Lena is her other name that her god mother gave in church and very few people knows it and is quite a secret . Theres somebody that knows sométhing about the Russian coulture and help me on this ?Thank you . Rui |
| I think your best bet is to meet a Ukrainian or Russian girl who is already in UK, legally or illegally, doesn't matter. I will tell you a story, very educational! Unfortunately, this happened on MY site couple months ago. There was that one girl from Moscow, she was real, I mean her name and address was real, but picture was not real. She was corresponding with a guy from UK, also from my site. She was not a typical scammer, which means she didn't ask him for money. But she wanted to come to UK, she already had UK visa. Now we know, that she had her OWN reasons to come to London, and the guy never was that real reason. Though she lied to him of course, and said she wants to come to meet HIM. Anyway, she asked him to buy her a plain ticket. She didn't ask for money, she asked for ticket itself, which is not redeemable, she couldn't sell it and get money from it, or any kind of profit. The guy thought since it was not money, it was safe to do, and bought her a ticket. She DID use that ticket!! She was on that flight, the British Airiness confirmed it to him. But, the photo was fake!! When he came to the airport to meet her plane, there was no such girl among people who arrived!!! Since he didn't know how she really looked like, she silently get of the plane, passed him by and went to the door, and he never recognized her and never met her!! That was a scam, she just needed somebody to pay for her plane ticket, so she get a free ride to London!! She never was interested in him, she used him and stood him up. This is what can happen, that's why it is important to meet a person face-to-face before spending a penny, and not trust the pictures. Scam comes in many forms!! Sometimes they just use men to get free tickets. |
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Originally Posted by raed1971
HEY BRO SHE FORGOT HERE NAME WHAT IS WRONG WITH THAT
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Originally Posted by raed1971
HEY BRO SHE FORGOT HERE NAME WHAT IS WRONG WITH THAT
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Hi. I hope, that you search for such attitudes what are searched by me. I wish to tell to you, that I search for serious attitudes. Me games do not interest. I hope, that you understand me. My name XXXXX. To me of 25 years and I live in Russia. The city of XXXXX. I not the expert in computers, as at present only I accustom with it in the Internet of cafe. Certainly it would be desirable to find The man for serious attitudes but if you I interest Correspondence will show us. I am right? I have no Fear that you is more senior than my age. I search such for the man which can to understand me. Which already knows, that such family and certainly would like to have it. I hope to receive from you the letter. I is probably necessary for you email: e-mail address inserted here |
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Very much I hope, that the desire to find out each other becomes closer our overall aim, because for It dozing, mutual interest begins to wake up deep, for the present. You see to find persons, To make out it at first sight, really to feel emotional bond very much not simply in Environmental us firm space. Therefore, it seems to me, that dialogue between two people, at Which in a breast lonely are beaten two scarlet heart, not only does them closer on huge distance, But also opens in them that fine, earlier him not clear and unknown, until they not Knew each other and did not guess at all, that it and she are two lost half, which At last have found each other. And know, my friend, I now write you this letter and at me in a head already begin to occur while Still far, still not revealed to me, mysterious, your image. I present yours running eyes under my letter, your special reaction, maybe, on any Separate lines. While only it is necessary to represent you to live playing imagination. I think, to you Slightly it will be interesting for the beginnings to find out about the provincial girl from Russia, Writing this the first The letter to you, my friend, that is about me ..... she goes on to describe herself, family and activities |
But what a way to go!!
Just kidding. If I let myself fall into that self-perpetuating ego-strokefest, I could only look in the mirror and say "you sad, pathetic old man ....WTF are you doing?" Reality would kick in, and kick butt. Best to not even stroll down that path.
Must maintain an even keel ...Gilaman .....! 
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Me overflows a wave of pleasure at sensations shares you in yours will penetrate heat letters. I think, that my letters you as read with pleasure and tireless desire re-read separate lines and words because for me you began beam light, heating my lonely soul looking happiness. |
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You have appeared. And our dialogue small award of destiny can is?.. thanks that has allowed to open to you. You think, there is any attraction in space between two, never met people...? |
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Originally Posted by GilaMan
Thank you Ira and Chris. I probably knew it all along, but needed to hear someone else say it.
She can do better. And I can find someone with more in common with me. Thanks again |
| And I can find someone with more in common with me. |
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Originally Posted by GilaMan
Thank you Ira and Chris. I probably knew it all along, but needed to hear someone else say it.
She can do better. And I can find someone with more in common with me. Thanks again |
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Originally Posted by ira156
Not Better Gila, just someone more suited.
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Originally Posted by rk288
In my opinion you've made the correct decision. Drop it...
I travelled twice to "Wonderland" in the past two years. Marvelous, simply marvelous vacations and dirt cheap. I think the government subsidizes the airline flights. I couldn't travel from my home town in NY to Albany for 7 days for $1400...and I wouldn't have had such a good time either. A beautiful, charming tourguide at my side 24/7, great food, marvelous entertainment and it goes on and on...the ballet in St Pete was breath taking from 40 feet away in private box seats for 60 bucks each...unforgetable... Well, you can see my story in stage 3 and "just back from St Pete"... I'm 56 now and I married a RW who was 50...a scam... My mistake I think was I only visited her once after more than a year of correspondence and telephone calls...it was all so pleasant...wonderland...Oz... I have no regrets...there is nothing on my conscience... Be prepared, if you are going to do this, it's going to cost you...not a lot but plan on it...back yourself up... My recommendation...meet someone, go there, learn to speak a lot of Russian before you go...a lot of Russian... For the cost to go there it is the experience of a lifetime...very interesting...very wonderful, fascinating... Do it first for the vacation then go back for the love...maybe go back twice to check the sincereity...one more time...be sure...be a frequent traveler... RK288 |
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Originally Posted by rk288
IRA156...
You go!!! Hope you found a keeper...be very careful...times are changing, I feel it may be too late...too many people...too much publicity... I flew back with an American who purchases apartments in Kiev...he warned me about this...he visits every month and he is not sure about any of the "many" women he knows. He was most interested in the wife of an American man who immigrated from the fsu who is interested in "moving up" after arriving here... hmm... RK |
Cheers Mate
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Originally Posted by GilaMan
I've been doing a lot of cold, hard thinking about what some of you have said here. And I tend to agree now. A 26 year age difference is just far too much. Heck, the difference in our ages is more than her age! Who am I kidding?
She deserves better than some "approaching old age" used up middle-aged guy. I'm probably older than her father, for crying out loud! She's a vital 25-year-old who is full of life, and just at the start of her adulthood. She'd be far better off with someone her own age. To pursue this further is an act of shameless selfishness on my part. I have no doubts that some day, should this progress to the ultimate conclusion, she would wake up, look at my crow's feet and love handles, and ask herself "what have I done?". I couldn't live with that. Knowing the only reason someone so young was with me was due to naivete', would tear me apart, and make me feel like a monster, not to mention a cradle-robber. Being the senior member of this potential relationship, I should know better, even if she doesn't. No. It isn't meant to be. It ain't gonna happen. Unfortunately, despite the fact that my e-mails to her have NOT been seductive or passionate, and have been worded like a friend's message and not a lover's, she is apparently becoming infatuated with me. Maybe even more. I don't know for sure, since the online translator she uses leaves me scratching my head at times. Here are a few key feelings of hers she has put into words, and I'm not sure how well they have survived the translation: My plan now is to slowly, carefully ease back. I have to be careful not to hurt her, but I fear there would be far more hurt in her future if I were to pursue this relationship. I see that, even if she doesn't yet. I haven't told her anything that could be construed as being forward or romantic, other than telling her how pretty she is in the photos she sent. Maybe that was all that she needed. I don't know. As I said, the translation makes it difficult to read undertones. I regret contacting someone so young now. I should have seen this coming. But going through the photos at the time, and sending the initial contact e-mails, I felt like a kid in a candy store. Bad move on my part. I desperately hope I can ease out without hurting this sweet, trusting girl. Thoughts? |
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