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Need advice from guys already married to a russian woman.

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Posted by: scooterw

I keep hearing all kinds of different things about marrage to a foreign woman . I hear that when they get to america they become controlling and are basically looking to leave you for a better situation. I reacently divorced and am truly tired of all teh head game BS woman here seem to play . I really want to try traveling abroad to find a good woman , but if they are just like teh ones here its not worth it. Any one out there married to a foreign wife have any advice ? are they different ? is it working out? what are the major challenges?... any feedback would be helpfull thank yo u...



Posted by: skinsfan

I am married to a Russian woman, and things are going great...my wife is not controling, she has a great sense of humor, she is very attentive to me....i personally would never trade my situation for anything in the world.



Posted by: sidney

scooter, it's been working for me for five years now. Like everything all people are different. Some want a controling spouse. My advice would be for you to take a trip there and experience the people and culture first hand. If you are seriously looking then figure out what characteristics are important to you and look for. Good luck with your hunt.
Sid



Posted by: AkMike

I'll echo what the others have stated! I love everything about my wife. We're still dating after a year of marriage and a half and I expect it to continue for many more.
You need to make a trip and find out for your self. The rewards can be worth it!



Posted by: bobjf

hi scooter
mate i agree with the others ,i'v been married to siberian princess for 3 1/2 years now ,no regrets,she treats me like i mean everything to her.
lifes great, rws put there man before anything,highly recomend the deal



Posted by: Chrismc

Quote:
Originally Posted by bobjf
highly recomend the deal






Posted by: NO_MERCY

Quote:
Originally Posted by bobjf
hi scooter
mate i agree with the others ,i'v been married to siberian princess for 3 1/2 years now ,no regrets,she treats me like i mean everything to her.
lifes great, rws put there man before anything,highly recomend the deal


My husband.. is interested in learning russian language, and sometimes he asks me to set examples of different words and phrases. Thanks to you, today he is going to learn a new phrase -



none of that please thank you



Posted by: bobjf

Quote:
Originally Posted by NO_MERCY
My husband.. is interested in learning russian language, and sometimes he asks me to set examples of different words and phrases. Thanks to you, today he is going to learn a new phrase -


hehehe i hope you mean't that in a nice way no mercy or maybe with your post name i should feel a little guilty lol frflowr:
natasha has given up trying to teach me russian & is now concerntrateing on learning oz slang to deal with some of our friends who try to confuse her
lol she has supprised the odd 1 or 2



Posted by: Chrismc

Quote:
Originally Posted by bobjf
hehehe i hope you mean't that in a nice way no mercy or maybe with your post name i should feel a little guilty lol frflowr:
natasha has given up trying to teach me russian & is now concerntrateing on learning oz slang to deal with some of our friends who try to confuse her
lol she has supprised the odd 1 or 2


You've not taken to the Russian language then Bob he he nevermind you can't be good at everything, what with all the ironing you do and what not!!



Posted by: Ms.Smarty Pants

Guys! Pleaseeeee! Some words in russian here are very bad! Very bad!



Posted by: Spakoyna

Quote:
Originally Posted by Ms.Smarty Pants
Guys! Pleaseeeee! Some words in russian here are very bad! Very bad!


Ms. Smarty Pants...thought you would like to know this is a Russian woman who said this!

For the curious...My wife says it is very bad and she has no hospetania(upbringing) Don't know how her slang use is but it translates to your !!! won't get up....how can that translate to Parden my French?




Posted by: Ms.Smarty Pants

Quote:
Originally Posted by Spakoyna
Ms. Smarty Pants...thought you would like to know this is a Russian woman who said this!

For the curious...My wife says it is very bad and she has no hospetania(upbringing) Don't know how her slang use is but it translates to your !!! won't get up....how can that translate to Parden my French?


Really, very bad words.

- "... this is a Russian woman who said this!" Really? I cant beleive this!!!

- "...how can that translate to Parden my French?"
I think, it is impossible to translate these words.

Nasty words!!!



Posted by: bobjf

Quote:
Originally Posted by Ms.Smarty Pants
Really, very bad words.

- "... this is a Russian woman who said this!" Really? I cant beleive this!!!

- "...how can that translate to Parden my French?"
I think, it is impossible to translate these words.

Nasty words!!!


hi miss smarty pants
it has been removed & thank you lot for bringing it to my attentsion
once nat translated for me (she was annoyed)i deleted it



Posted by: bobjf

Quote:
Originally Posted by Chrismc
You've not taken to the Russian language then Bob he he nevermind you can't be good at everything, what with all the ironing you do and what not!!


i did try chris but its a lost cause lol bit like her trying to teach me to iron.
just as well i do other things ok & help out make beds,wash the dishs,take a turn in the kitchen etc



Posted by: waiting123

Quote:
Originally Posted by bobjf
i did try chris but its a lost cause lol bit like her trying to teach me to iron.
just as well i do other things ok & help out make beds,wash the dishs,take a turn in the kitchen etc


I thought you had your wife and Markgm do all the cooking...

or do you mean turn into the kitchen? like to get something to eat or drink HE HE HE



Posted by: bobjf

Quote:
Originally Posted by waiting123
I thought you had your wife and Markgm do all the cooking...

or do you mean turn into the kitchen? like to get something to eat or drink HE HE HE


no my friend i do mean take a turn at cooking & if i happen to be in the right frame of mind i can be quite correative
mark is the same but his missus thinks its not becoming for a male.
natasha loves cooking but more into cakes & deserts
she can't get over our fresh products & realy injoys creating something yum



Posted by: waiting123

Quote:
Originally Posted by bobjf
no my friend i do mean take a turn at cooking & if i happen to be in the right frame of mind i can be quite correative
mark is the same but his missus thinks its not becoming for a male.
natasha loves cooking but more into cakes & deserts
she can't get over our fresh products & realy injoys creating something yum


Yes, my wife fought with me about cooking...said it is not proper. I am not into cakes or deserts. But mmmm my wife, boy is she into deserts.

We have fresh products here as well... nice to live on the ocean. :-)



Posted by: bobjf

Quote:
Originally Posted by waiting123
Yes, my wife fought with me about cooking...said it is not proper. I am not into cakes or deserts. But mmmm my wife, boy is she into deserts.

We have fresh products here as well... nice to live on the ocean. :-)

seems to be an rw traite
i hardly ever go looking for sweet things but injoy many of nats creations if she puts them in front of me
our first blue was caused by me trying to help her in the kitchen,she had the same opinion that it wasn't a mans place unless it was for bbq,shaslic etc
but she now has a healthy respect for my cooking & incourages same



Posted by: waiting123

Quote:
Originally Posted by bobjf
seems to a rw traite
i hardly ever go looking for seet things but injoy many of nats creations if she puts them in front of me
our first blue was caused by me trying to help her in the kitchen,she had the same opinion that it wasn't a mans place unless it was for bbq,shaslic etc
but she now has a healthy respect for my cooking & incourages same


I was only able to cook 1 time in Russia.. The wife ruled my roost. I think if I upset her, there might be some serious hell to pay!

I am not willing to test the water and find out... better I just keep the peace.

She will have to let me cook sometime...



Posted by: Spakoyna

I gotta tell you guys about my 1st experience trying to cook for my wife! This was in the winter in Siberia. I had been longing for a steak! I told her I will cook for her...no worries just let me cook! We went to the market and bought some descent looking beef. All was good until the cooking started. She had never seen anyone use the broil selection on an oven. Well, she started worrying about everything else...brocoli...which she had never eaten, and the potatoes I was cooking on the stove. Well I'm sure you understand when you are broiling meat it is very time sensitive. I couldn't get her out of my way...well the steaks didn't catch fire but they were close enough to smoke up the apartment real good! No ventilation but opening the windows and it was at least -20. Yeap! She were PO'd! Took a long time before she let me cook again and now it;s a good laugh since she has learned what a broiler does!!!!



Posted by: waiting123

Quote:
Originally Posted by Spakoyna
I gotta tell you guys about my 1st experience trying to cook for my wife! This was in the winter in Siberia. I had been longing for a steak! I told her I will cook for her...no worries just let me cook! We went to the market and bought some descent looking beef. All was good until the cooking started. She had never seen anyone use the broil selection on an oven. Well, she started worrying about everything else...brocoli...which she had never eaten, and the potatoes I was cooking on the stove. Well I'm sure you understand when you are broiling meat it is very time sensitive. I couldn't get her out of my way...well the steaks didn't catch fire but they were close enough to smoke up the apartment real good! No ventilation but opening the windows and it was at least -20. Yeap! She were PO'd! Took a long time before she let me cook again and now it;s a good laugh since she has learned what a broiler does!!!!


and she still gave you the honour of marrying her



Posted by: bobjf

Quote:
Originally Posted by waiting123
I was only able to cook 1 time in Russia.. The wife ruled my roost. I think if I upset her, there might be some serious hell to pay!

I am not willing to test the water and find out... better I just keep the peace.

She will have to let me cook sometime...


wise man ed lol
wait untill you settle into life together,she will appreciate your efforts after a bit
its just alien for them to see a domesticated male who dosen't mind helping.
i find it very easy to help nat as it is returned over & over again



Posted by: bobjf

Quote:
Originally Posted by Spakoyna
I gotta tell you guys about my 1st experience trying to cook for my wife! This was in the winter in Siberia. I had been longing for a steak! I told her I will cook for her...no worries just let me cook! We went to the market and bought some descent looking beef. All was good until the cooking started. She had never seen anyone use the broil selection on an oven. Well, she started worrying about everything else...brocoli...which she had never eaten, and the potatoes I was cooking on the stove. Well I'm sure you understand when you are broiling meat it is very time sensitive. I couldn't get her out of my way...well the steaks didn't catch fire but they were close enough to smoke up the apartment real good! No ventilation but opening the windows and it was at least -20. Yeap! She were PO'd! Took a long time before she let me cook again and now it;s a good laugh since she has learned what a broiler does!!!!


hey spakoyna were did you find decent steaks over there.
i searched barnaul looking for decent meat.
i insisted on cooking for the girls when i arrived.
i do a very nice stuffed chicken breast with garlic spuds & a special sauce my chef mate taught me.
first difference was not being able to buy breast that wern't still on the bone. but i got around it
needless to say it was my undoing
garlic bread was a new welcom experiance for them aswell.
last night there i did same dish dinner party in large portions for new found friends as a sort of revenge for all of them trying to over feed me every time we visited.
would continuely get please bob try please a little more
hehe they got the point when i turned the tables & did the same to them
nat was realy pleased when they fell over themselves hoeing into her first time effort makeing garlic bread,she wouldn't even tell them what it was wrapped up in foil,just try she told them



Posted by: Spakoyna

Waiting...LOL! It are funny how things evolve! Our cooking is basically a team effort now!

Bob....I gotta confess I don't know if it was good or not! I said it looked good...It were edible but so well done it was like leather! There was a very large market near our apartment. I can understand why they tell us to cook meat well done....was basically a flea market with hundreds of venders(I am sure individual farmers,etc.). When we were in Moscow it was a different story. We did most of our grocery shopping at Ramstore....a chain. They had fairly descent beef. My cooking had to change from broiling to the frying pan while we were in Russia though! I guess it was a few months after she arrived her before I got to show her the proper use of a broiler(This was only because we ran out of gas for the grill!). Yeah that vent hood do make a difference! My wife does like and appreciate that grill. It cooks better and does not mess up the kitchen!



Posted by: bobjf

Quote:
Originally Posted by Spakoyna
Waiting...LOL! It are funny how things evolve! Our cooking is basically a team effort now!

Bob....I gotta confess I don't know if it was good or not! I said it looked good...It were edible but so well done it was like leather! There was a very large market near our apartment. I can understand why they tell us to cook meat well done....was basically a flea market with hundreds of venders(I am sure individual farmers,etc.). When we were in Moscow it was a different story. We did most of our grocery shopping at Ramstore....a chain. They had fairly descent beef. My cooking had to change from broiling to the frying pan while we were in Russia though! I guess it was a few months after she arrived her before I got to show her the proper use of a broiler(This was only because we ran out of gas for the grill!). Yeah that vent hood do make a difference! My wife does like and appreciate that grill. It cooks better and does not mess up the kitchen!


lol nat was telling her dad that here you only need to cook a steak for some minutes ,he found it hard to beleive.
apparently steak,beef etc is cooked for ages over there or you can't eat it hehe not sure i want to
girls had never eaten lamb untill they arrived here but love it now.
i once asked nat what they made there sausages from,she said better you don't know. err a bit of a worry.

amazeing how much we take for granted.



Posted by: sidney

Our biggest laugh was with sweet corn. I boiled it for 5 minutes and she was upset that it was undercooked. I think they eat hog corn there because they boil it for an hour to soften it up. This is one of the few foods she prefers in america.
Sid



Posted by: bobjf

Quote:
Originally Posted by sidney
Our biggest laugh was with sweet corn. I boiled it for 5 minutes and she was upset that it was undercooked. I think they eat hog corn there because they boil it for an hour to soften it up. This is one of the few foods she prefers in america.
Sid



lol i got that 1 too.
nat now loves corn on the cob,fresh or frozen,1 of the biggest supprises for our rw,s is good quality produce thats fresh & easy to get



Posted by: NO_MERCY

Quote:
Originally Posted by Spakoyna
Ms. Smarty Pants...thought you would like to know this is a Russian woman who said this!

For the curious...My wife says it is very bad and she has no hospetania(upbringing) Don't know how her slang use is but it translates to your !!! won't get up....how can that translate to Parden my French?



Was it the same wife who said that a married woman should not wear mini skirts and that many RW were very loose,wore open clothes, and slept with many different men.??? Church lady



Posted by: bobjf

Quote:
Originally Posted by NO_MERCY
Was it the same wife who said that a married woman should not wear mini skirts and that many RW were very loose,wore open clothes, and slept with many different men.??? Church lady


please take this somewhere else & do not post offensive posts anymore
many members understand russian,i don't but it will soon be bought to mine or another moderaters attension
thank you
flameing another member is out
head the warning



Posted by: Spakoyna

Quote:
Originally Posted by NO_MERCY
Was it the same wife who said that a married woman should not wear mini skirts and that many RW were very loose,wore open clothes, and slept with many different men.??? Church lady


Yes my wife is a Church Lady although she is not obsessive. We are very happy together and I hope one day you are happy as well! Then maybe 1 day you will not have to try to do this to others for entertainment or so you feel better about yourself!

Bob, I do have to wonder why some people try to do their best to upset others.



Posted by: NO_MERCY

Quote:
Originally Posted by bobjf
please take this somewhere else & do not post offensive posts anymore
many members understand russian,i don't but it will soon be bought to mine or another moderaters attension
thank you


Since nobody managed to translate the phrase I posted in Russian (even the highly moral wife of Spokoyna has failed this task probably due to lack of good command of english), I am posting the translating of it myself - it matches closely to american phrase - "get the f.. out!" - when high degree of surprise is being expressed.

So now, whom did this phrase offend?



Posted by: NO_MERCY

Quote:
Originally Posted by Spakoyna
Yes my wife is a Church Lady although she is not obsessive. We are very happy together and I hope one day you are happy as well! Then maybe 1 day you will not have to try to do this to others for entertainment or so you feel better about yourself!

Bob, I do have to wonder why some people try to do their best to upset others.


flameing another member is out
head the warning (c)



Posted by: waiting123

Quote:
Originally Posted by NO_MERCY
I am posting the translating of it myself - it matches closely to american phrase - "get the f.. out!" - when high degree of surprise is being expressed.

So now, whom did this phrase offend?


And you do not find this offensive.... Please for all our sake, take this talk elsewhere.



Posted by: Spakoyna

Quote:
Originally Posted by NO_MERCY
Since nobody managed to translate the phrase I posted in Russian (even the highly moral wife of Spokoyna has failed this task probably due to lack of good command of english), I am posting the translating of it myself - it matches closely to american phrase - "get the f.. out!" - when high degree of surprise is being expressed.

So now, whom did this phrase offend?


I am very confident in my wife's transalation and I would post your translation in Russian (which is completely different) but we do not care to feed this situation with more smut. I have to agree with Waiting! There is no need for this here.
Best Regards, Spakoyna and Wife!



Posted by: NO_MERCY

Quote:
Originally Posted by waiting123
And you do not find this offensive.... Please for all our sake, take this talk elsewhere.







Posted by: Texas Proud

Quote:
Originally Posted by sidney
Our biggest laugh was with sweet corn. I boiled it for 5 minutes and she was upset that it was undercooked. I think they eat hog corn there because they boil it for an hour to soften it up. This is one of the few foods she prefers in america.
Sid


Funny how things are so different even in the same country....

I wanted some corn, so when we went to the store we bought a can... When I sat down and took a bit... COLD CORN... she said that is how they eat it, right out of the can.. I just put in the microwave and blasted it a bit and all was good..



Posted by: Spakoyna

Quote:
Originally Posted by Texas Proud
Funny how things are so different even in the same country....

I wanted some corn, so when we went to the store we bought a can... When I sat down and took a bit... COLD CORN... she said that is how they eat it, right out of the can.. I just put in the microwave and blasted it a bit and all was good..


LMAOROTF! My wife just did the same thing with sweet peas the other night! We buy peas in a can for a salad she makes. When we eat peas for dinner we usually eat the frozen kind...IE they are cooked and warm. Well we were out of frozen and had a can. She just opened em up and served em. OH Well!



Posted by: GoingToRussia

Boiled corn on the cob for an hour, cold corn, and cold peas out of a can ... I thought Russian women were good cooks!

GTR



Posted by: waiting123

Quote:
Originally Posted by Spakoyna
LMAOROTF! My wife just did the same thing with sweet peas the other night! We buy peas in a can for a salad she makes. When we eat peas for dinner we usually eat the frozen kind...IE they are cooked and warm. Well we were out of frozen and had a can. She just opened em up and served em. OH Well!


Don't worry Spakoyna... there are no directions on the side of a can

I am sure you set the wife straight.... Heat them baby... little fire underneath the pot for a few minutes, will get them peas just right



Posted by: Spakoyna

Quote:
Originally Posted by waiting123
Don't worry Spakoyna... there are no directions on the side of a can

I am sure you set the wife straight.... Heat them baby... little fire underneath the pot for a few minutes, will get them peas just right


Niet! She wanted em cold! Beats me...so as TP said.... just Nuke em!



Posted by: waiting123

Quote:
Originally Posted by Spakoyna
Niet! She wanted em cold! Beats me...so as TP said.... just Nuke em!


One thing I learned after living in Texas for almost 20 years... Always ....Always agree with a Texan....



......at least in front of him or where he can hear you

(Sorry Texas Proud)



Posted by: Cheburashka

Quote:
Originally Posted by NO_MERCY


No Mercy I am going to ask you nicely to back off a little bit. I love much of what you write. You really know your stuff. But you already picked a fight with Connorvt in another thread, and you are wanting to take on some members here. Please rethink the direction you are going here.

There is mercy! Really. Plenty of it. But not for those whose choose to be adversarial instead of congenial.

Now group hug everybody..........and let's get back to work.



Posted by: skinsfan

unbelieveable !!!!!!!!!!!!!! i thought my lovely Russian bride was the only woman that thought that peas and corn out of a can should be eaten cold..... i want to introduce her to some cable cooking shows, but those channels are too close to QVC...so i opted to eat the cold veggies !!



Posted by: waiting123

Quote:
Originally Posted by skinsfan
unbelieveable !!!!!!!!!!!!!! i thought my lovely Russian bride was the only woman that thought that peas and corn out of a can should be eaten cold..... i want to introduce her to some cable cooking shows, but those channels are too close to QVC...so i opted to eat the cold veggies !!


Smart move Skins... Smart.....

Like Bobjf... his wife found ebay! i bet he is trying to find a way to have ebays internet link changed to something else.

I will have to watch my wife when she gets here and finds our cable remote... we have Shop NBC, QVC, HSN, and the Jewelry channel, and they are all spread out over the channel spectrum...

I will have to turn off my cable, disconnect my internet, and throw out my TV... HE HE HE or just do this or maybe this



Posted by: Keith In Kodiak

Gosh, I've had the same cooking experiences my Kat.

The Kat now loves sweet corn and appreciates vegetables lightly microwaved instead of boiled into a mush.

The one thing I haven't been able to win her over on is salads. She just laughs and says she's not a cow and won't eat grass! What she calls a salad is more along the lines of coleslaw or potato salad. Ah well, more croutons for me!



Posted by: EasyTarget

why not put the qvc channels on parental control? most cable boxes will allow you to block them out. I block out half the channels on my cable box because I have 0 desire to watch them.



Posted by: skinsfan

i agree Keith....what Russians consider a salad is far from what we think....my wife and children also stay away from chicken...i miss a good grilled chicken salad with either honey mustard or blue cheese dressing....also, do any of your wives drink their juice, and soft drinks room temperature ?? and why their love for instant Nescafe ????????



Posted by: GoingToRussia

I like my grilled chicken salads with honey mustard too skinsfan. Have you ever had Russian chicken? Mine was like tough steak. You needed a very sharp knife to cut it and forget about chewing it. I found that the chicken I had was a hen that could no longer lay eggs. Very old and tough meat. Maybe if you cook them some nice tender chicken they would like it.

Yes my fiancee drinks everything room temperature ... including coffee!!! She doesn't drink instant tea, she likes the real stuff and that's all she drinks.

GTR



Posted by: skinsfan

GTR...yes, i did eat that tough old yard bird in Russia......did you eat any of that RAT in Russia... it looks like a giant Rat to me...i wouldn't go near it !!! i think maybe it is Muskrat...i don't know for sure..it lives in the water and eats grass (so i am told)..Russians love the meat...but again, to me, a rat is a rat...............



Posted by: Chrismc

Quote:
Originally Posted by skinsfan
also, do any of your wives drink their juice, and soft drinks room temperature ??



Yes what is it with that, they don't like ice or cold drinks, or if I got her a short she said ONE ice cube only no more??? If I gave her two or god forbid 3 ice cubes they were emptied out!!!



Posted by: bobjf

Quote:
Originally Posted by waiting123
Smart move Skins... Smart.....

Like Bobjf... his wife found ebay! i bet he is trying to find a way to have ebays internet link changed to something else.

I will have to watch my wife when she gets here and finds our cable remote... we have Shop NBC, QVC, HSN, and the Jewelry channel, and they are all spread out over the channel spectrum...

I will have to turn off my cable, disconnect my internet, and throw out my TV... HE HE HE or just do this or maybe this

morning ed
greetings from cairns.
don't begin a battle your gunna lose mate .
she will eventulay find ebay etc lol
then boot will be on the other foot so to speak
flight up was the pits ,our bed is even worse but great weather,nice & warm,starting to relax.
as ya can see i found a puter lol
nats gunna kill me



Posted by: waiting123

Quote:
Originally Posted by bobjf
morning ed
greetings from cairns.
don't begin a battle your gunna lose mate .
she will eventulay find ebay etc lol
then boot will be on the other foot so to speak
flight up was the pits ,our bed is even worse but great weather,nice & warm,starting to relax.
as ya can see i found a puter lol
nats gunna kill me



Ahh yes your right... I will let her have at it.. ebay, QVC, shop at home, hsn, and so on..... maybe she will lose interest.

Glad to see you are starting to relax!... So do just that and Relax. Spend the time with the minx and not the puter... as you said, using the puter on holiday can be hazardous to your health. (hate to think what nat will do to ya mate) HE HE HE.

On big tourist trap there in Cairns, yes? I am sure everything is much higher priced... priced for us Yanks... hmm...

Have fun mate, and get back safely.... Very good seeing you on.



Posted by: GoingToRussia

Quote:
Originally Posted by skinsfan
GTR...yes, i did eat that tough old yard bird in Russia......did you eat any of that RAT in Russia... it looks like a giant Rat to me...i wouldn't go near it !!! i think maybe it is Muskrat...i don't know for sure..it lives in the water and eats grass (so i am told)..Russians love the meat...but again, to me, a rat is a rat...............


No I didn't eat any but my fiancee wanted to buy one and cook it for me ... I passed. I think it is beaver ... has anyone ever eaten beaver? I heard the settlers in America ate a lot beaver but it must have never caught on because it's not on any American menus.

GTR



Posted by: GoingToRussia

Quote:
Originally Posted by bobjf
morning ed
greetings from cairns.
don't begin a battle your gunna lose mate .
she will eventulay find ebay etc lol
then boot will be on the other foot so to speak
flight up was the pits ,our bed is even worse but great weather,nice & warm,starting to relax.
as ya can see i found a puter lol
nats gunna kill me


Let's see ... beautiful weather and beautiful woman ... and you're on a puter??? Something is wrong with this picture. Don't look at any women on the beach, Nat will break your fingers and then you won't be able to use the puter?

Waiting ... I think we pick on Bob too much.

It's all in good fun,
GTR



Posted by: Janus

These forums have become worthless



Posted by: EasyTarget

Quote:
Originally Posted by GoingToRussia
... has anyone ever eaten beaver?

Once or twice

Quote:
Originally Posted by GoingToRussia
I heard the settlers in America ate a lot beaver but it must have never caught on because it's not on any American menus.

depends on what kind of "restaurants" you go to, but I do think the idea is catching on.



Posted by: zumanity

Quote:
Originally Posted by skinsfan
GTR...yes, i did eat that tough old yard bird in Russia......did you eat any of that RAT in Russia... it looks like a giant Rat to me...i wouldn't go near it !!! i think maybe it is Muskrat...i don't know for sure..it lives in the water and eats grass (so i am told)..Russians love the meat...but again, to me, a rat is a rat...............


Have you ever tried chicken steak in Texas? Talking about giant Rats...That thing will make you sweat



Posted by: j_c

I know this is not a food thread , but it seems to have popped up quite a bit. I had a favourate salad I used to eat quite a lot when in Russia when I first met Irina, I think for 2- 3 trips I really enjoyed it, Irina said it was beef.
When her volcabulary statred to get bigger she was happy to inform me it beef tongue salad. I have never really fancied it again after that!

Anyone else tried it?

Regards

JC



Posted by: GoingToRussia

No I have never eaten any tongue. I have a "thing" about tasting something that might be tasting me back.

GTR



Posted by: Chrismc

Quote:
Originally Posted by GoingToRussia
No I have never eaten any tongue. I have a "thing" about tasting something that might be tasting me back.

GTR



yes you never know who might be winning!



Posted by: skinsfan

when you eat with a large company of Russians....you know what i mean...the long table full of food with an ungodly amount of Vodka....i oftened wondered what i was eating, but after several shots of vodka, you don't really care...but yes, i was told the following day that some of what i ate was tongue.....i was so excited to hear this. BLAHHHHHH !!!!!



Posted by: j_c

Quote:
Originally Posted by skinsfan
when you eat with a large company of Russians....you know what i mean...the long table full of food with an ungodly amount of Vodka....i oftened wondered what i was eating, but after several shots of vodka, you don't really care...but yes, i was told the following day that some of what i ate was tongue.....i was so excited to hear this. BLAHHHHHH !!!!!


Ah the long table full of food..... we had this last year when we went back to Irinas parents village to meet the extended family!

They would all take their turn going round the table to make a speech , and after every speech, there would be a toast and a shot of vodka!! It becomes a bit of a session when theres 22 of you sat around the table!!

And the amount of food put out, there was enough to fedd 50 , let alone 22 of us! Thats russian hospitality for you!

Yes, I was a bit worse for wear the next day!

Regards

JC



Posted by: zumanity

Quote:
Originally Posted by j_c
Ah the long table full of food..... we had this last year when we went back to Irinas parents village to meet the extended family!

They would all take their turn going round the table to make a speech , and after every speech, there would be a toast and a shot of vodka!! It becomes a bit of a session when theres 22 of you sat around the table!!

And the amount of food put out, there was enough to fedd 50 , let alone 22 of us! Thats russian hospitality for you!

Yes, I was a bit worse for wear the next day!

Regards

JC

When they lay the table like that, it doesn't mean that you have to try every single dish.
You should of been more observant*, russians don't eat much.
I 've heard bout few tourists in situations like that, they were totally sick for a following days



Posted by: AkMike

I've tried everything that wasput before me on the table. I've eaten muskrats and beaver with the natives up here. Good flavor but too greasy IMO. Tongue was a pickled side dish that my Grandmother used to make in Michigan when I was a child.
I've eaten monkey tacos when I was in Panama.... Not my favorite either.
Salo, I'll never understand their thinking on that though.
My thinking is that if they can eat it and someone has taken the time and effort to prepare it for me that I should give it a try. Some things look bad but turn out to be good.



Posted by: GoingToRussia

Quote:
Originally Posted by AkMike
Some things look bad but turn out to be good.


And some things look good and turn out bad!!!

GTR



Posted by: AkMike

Quote:
Originally Posted by GoingToRussia
And some things look good and turn out bad!!!

GTR



You must have met my Ex....



Posted by: waiting123

Quote:
Originally Posted by AkMike
You must have met my Ex....


met her....hmmm......I think GTR is dating your Ex....

HE HE HE... Sorry GTR, could not resist.... Good talking to you tonight!!!



Posted by: j_c

Quote:
Originally Posted by zumanity
When they lay the table like that, it doesn't mean that you have to try every single dish.
You should of been more observant*, russians don't eat much.
I 've heard bout few tourists in situations like that, they were totally sick for a following days



Who said I ate all the food !! I was ill cos of the amount of Vodka!!! lol

Not a big drinker , but once you have had a couple , you think you can keep up with them Russians!!!

Live and learn

Regards

JC



Posted by: AkMike

Never try to beat them at their own game!!!
I was under the table after trying to keep up with my future stepson and his friends. And then I got the peppers from the jug..



Posted by: GoingToRussia

Quote:
Originally Posted by waiting123
met her....hmmm......I think GTR is dating your Ex....

HE HE HE... Sorry GTR, could not resist.... Good talking to you tonight!!!


I might have dated her in the past, but not currently.

No problem waiting,
GTR



Posted by: zumanity

Quote:
Originally Posted by AkMike
Never try to beat them at their own game!!!
I was under the table after trying to keep up with my future stepson and his friends. And then I got the peppers from the jug..

The say mexicans can outbeat russians, if both drink Tequilla. brrrr..



Posted by: waiting123

Quote:
Originally Posted by zumanity
The say mexicans can outbeat russians, if both drink Tequilla. brrrr..


And I guess the Italians can out beat the Russians if they both drink Grappa.

HE HE HE. This I do believe is but it is .



Posted by: zumanity

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Posted by: eastbaySF

Quote:
Originally Posted by scooterw
I keep hearing all kinds of different things about marrage to a foreign woman . I hear that when they get to america they become controlling and are basically looking to leave you for a better situation. I reacently divorced and am truly tired of all teh head game BS woman here seem to play . I really want to try traveling abroad to find a good woman , but if they are just like teh ones here its not worth it. Any one out there married to a foreign wife have any advice ? are they different ? is it working out? what are the major challenges?... any feedback would be helpfull thank yo u...

There is some cultural diffences but long as you have no fear to try new things,do not try and force your culture on a woman,do not look for a sex slave or domestic slave,agree to disagree on somethings you will be fine.
You should go a meet a woman,her friends,family and see who she really is.
I notice some men want women from other countries because they can not have a woman in thier on country. Women are the same everywhere if you have problems with women where you are you will have problems where ever you go.



Posted by: AkMike

Quote:
Originally Posted by eastbaySF
I notice some men want women from other countries because they can not have a woman in thier on country. Women are the same everywhere if you have problems with women where you are you will have problems where ever you go.



You should re-think that statement then re-state it.
You are basicly saying that anyone that seeks a mate from another country can't find a woman at home. Wrong, Bubba!
I like most of the others here are seeking better qualities than what we have already found here! The family values that are the norm in the FSU are very much like they used to be here years ago. I was raised with those values and cherish them. The ex's I've had didn't see those as being right. It was always what can you buy for me and what can you do for me... I wanted to share and it seems that it was very 1 sided with AW.
I married a wonderful woman from Ukraine and honestly have never been happier!



Posted by: bobjf

Quote:
Originally Posted by AkMike
You should re-think that statement then re-state it.
You are basicly saying that anyone that seeks a mate from another country can't find a woman at home. Wrong, Bubba!
I like most of the others here are seeking better qualities than what we have already found here! The family values that are the norm in the FSU are very much like they used to be here years ago. I was raised with those values and cherish them. The ex's I've had didn't see those as being right. It was always what can you buy for me and what can you do for me... I wanted to share and it seems that it was very 1 sided with AW.
I married a wonderful woman from Ukraine and honestly have never been happier!


you beat me to it mike
like you i was married befor & had decided once bitten twice shy lol sucker for punishment hehe but i did know that i wanted nothing more to do with a coniveing western woman
i'm married to her royalness from siberia.life is very different & very good,no regrets & recomend the experiance.
it makes a huge difference if you can work as team,can respect each other & want to be together.
this is possable with my rw,never was with the x & other would be western parteners.
cheers



Posted by: GoingToRussia

Quote:
Originally Posted by bobjf
you beat me to it mike
like you i was married befor & had decided once bitten twice shy lol sucker for punishment hehe but i did know that i wanted nothing more to do with a coniveing western woman
i'm married to her royalness from siberia.life is very different & very good,no regrets & recomend the experiance.
it makes a huge difference if you can work as team,can respect each other & want to be together.
this is possable with my rw,never was with the x & other would be western parteners.
cheers


Amen to that Brother Bob. Russian women are far more superior in every aspect to the American Women I have met. I would suggest every man try a relationship with a Russian woman. If I wasn't getting married in about 6 weeks, I would say I would never again date another nationality, only Russian women for me!!



Posted by: Sammy&Sasha

I can tell you I did not set out to fall in love with any woman American or Ukrainian.It just happens to people and in my case I refuse to let 5-6 thousand miles stop me from my dreams,which is meeting the best woman for me.The woman snatched my heart from me and gave me hers in return.It is great to care about someone and love how sexy she is and never feel anxiety or have bad mental experience.The Russian fiance lets you klnow she loves you in everything she does.I dated of few sweethearts in my time like everyone else and nothing does compare.I think most men are truly just trying to follow their heart and the Russian woman has just got this way of making me believe and trust in her.I am so happy I never listen to any person except myself as soon I will become the richest man in the world.IT is not the fact that she is Russian or Ukrainian, its the fact that these woman are so very special a woman and the way they are raised really shows me how lucky I am to have such loving kind caring considerate wife.You get this and you want to return the favor to her as she really appreciates everyting you do Its the love God wants everyone to have!Fairy tale love is real if you open your eyes.....Its not impossible folks..Thank God I was trying to learn about Ukraine one day and met my love!!!



Posted by: eastbaySF

Quote:
Originally Posted by AkMike
You should re-think that statement then re-state it.
You are basicly saying that anyone that seeks a mate from another country can't find a woman at home. Wrong, Bubba!
I like most of the others here are seeking better qualities than what we have already found here! The family values that are the norm in the FSU are very much like they used to be here years ago. I was raised with those values and cherish them. The ex's I've had didn't see those as being right. It was always what can you buy for me and what can you do for me... I wanted to share and it seems that it was very 1 sided with AW.
I married a wonderful woman from Ukraine and honestly have never been happier!

Hey sport,
I never had a problem with women and i was not looking for a russian woman when i met my wife and she for sure was not looking for a african american.
I was in relationships with a few other women when i met her and she did something none of these other women could do..She made me laugh and it was a real laugh . had to go see her not really expecting things to turn out like they did but we have great chemistry and she turned out to be much more woman than she let on at first.
We were married in russia and i have gone back acouple of times after because i miss her so much , this waiting for her to come here is killing me.
I stick to my coments if you have problems with women one place you will still be the same man where ever you go,you need to work out your problems yourself and not blame your failures on women.
I see these guys that cry and complain they have been ripped off by russian women but these same guys would be ripped off by any woman.
Yes the cultures are different but women are the same everywhere and i have been with enough women from everywhere to say this,eastern european women have the same wants and needs as any other woman.



Posted by: waiting123

Quote:
Originally Posted by eastbaySF
Hey sport,
I stick to my coments if you have problems with women one place you will still be the same man where ever you go,you need to work out your problems yourself and not blame your failures on women.

Yes the cultures are different but women are the same everywhere and i have been with enough women from everywhere to say this,eastern european women have the same wants and needs as any other woman.


What makes you think we have problems if we seek a woman elsewhere? Maybe we are tired of some of the traits of western woman, I live in a city, where for the most part a woman expects you to do everything for her. She expects a gift and flowers, and she expects to see your bank statement before she will go out on a date with you. I have no problem giving gifts and flowers or doing things for my lady and I usually do....but to expect it come on little over board there.

I as well have dated woman from all over. I lived in Europe for several years, IMHO woman are very different in customs, traditions, and values in Europe and Eastern Europe. They still maintain values a lot of western woman no longer maintain.

There are a list of differences between eastern woman and western woman... not all good and not all bad.

but I see you married an Eastern European girl, why? you are a world traveler, you have been with woman from "everywhere" what made you chose a russian, the immigration process is harder and as you say woman are all the same. Why not choose one from the west somewhere, immigration is much easier.

I just had to chime in here... I agree that some traits and basic desires of all woman are the same. but there are very distinct differences in how some woman act from different cultures and different regions of the world. I am really serious... would not joke about this



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